It was the first day of my college & I was aware that ragging would happen. But I never knew that I would be forced to get involved in a 'lesbian act' with a senior of mine. It was so shocking for me, coz i have never faced such an encounter before.
But now, i'm really depressed & frustrated, coz everyone's making fun of me. I don't know how to handle and react to this situation. I'm unable to forget it and move on. What should I do? Pls help me.

Samira.... I am a lesbian myself. But I will never support an act like that.. What happened to u was terrible & absolutely wrong...

I think you should try to be more strong & Stand up for urself. Nobody can help u with this... make a strong point that u r better than those freaks.... Prove urself... Don't bother about anyone... u will have to learn how to crush these situations under ur feet... It wasn't easy for me either... I was ridiculed & laughed at.. but, I had my girlfriend by my side to support and protect me... I think u should also look for a friend, ( Male or female ) who can support u and stand by ur side...

If u ever want my advice, please don't hesitate to ask.. U can send me an E-mail whenever u want.. I can be of a lot help.....

- Cheers,

- Kareena Jones. Kareenajones1234@gmail.com

hi........really its a great depressing moment of ur life where u cant digest what happen to u . But this is not the way to get out of it unless or untill u make urself strong dont think bout the people who make fun of urs enev they have no right to make fun, if they cant help u. so dont bother wat other is saying to u , U r right jst feel like nothin happend it was the bad dream jst try to 4get it........... jst avoid wat people says against u ...........

Dont be silly...be a bit strong...if u will let ur self go tense or nervous on laugh of people..they will make more fun of u...be bold n strong with if someone again teases u for the same...just go to them..n ask to shut ur mouth...u only need to do it with one ot two..rest will stop them self...u decide u have to GIVE TENSION or HAVE TENSION

You are reading many 'bandaid' suggestions. It is a mental torture that will haunt you for many years to come. You should have reported it to the college/university authorities and police. You should seek mental health professionals. Your menatl health and peace of mind is paramount as it will lower your educational performance grades.

The best way is to accept the act of past and ignore those who make u do it in future. Nothing comes in way of your self respect. Are you studying in a girls college. If not try mingling with trust worthy guy friends.

Remember life has many beautiful things to offer. If you are depressed about something get over it as early as possible cuz that feeling isnt gona help u lead ur life. I believe its just a matter of time that ul be out of depression.

Hi I would not take any notice of it because it is not your fault. Your actions are in your control but you have no control on someone else's actions. So try to forget and live happily

I am not sure how u would react to this but if u can do this, it will do a world of good.



Take a day off. Sit and think like real matures. I am sure u would have killed me if I were in front of u after hearing the next sentence... "Think twice about your own orientation"... If you are certain that you are not lesbian then take this event as something that you did as a part of LIFE. Life is full of surprises. take this event as just an experience. Dont worry too much about it. When u are certain that you are straight, then being involved in a lesbian act (that too forcefully) doesn't make u a lesbian. Its part n parcel of the game of Life. n trust me, ur future hubby wont bother knowing that u were forced into a lesbian act at some point...!! rather he will be happy to hear about that ( :P just kidding).. Basic thing is, dont think about it too much as this is no big deal compared to your whole life.



btw, while asking urself about ur orientation if you find the answer to be something else, then take it as a baby step for ur future... :D (again kidding)..



Be happy! that's all matters

btw, dont worry too much about what others have to say about it. People can talk shit.. but that doesn't mean that u need to pay heed to that shit...!!

Jst dont bother bout da people who make fun of ur's u know wat u r nd da people who realy known U will never make fun of urs will love U..... DEFINATELY........ :)

hv sex with her bf...!! strike de score... dr

Honestly speaking.

From the bad experience occured to me.

There is always some around you to make fun of it.



They neither can understand your state of mind nor can give you solution.



My experience says that .....you should observing your state of mind and just make your will power strong..........you will know how things can be managed and what decision can be done.........do not make things in hurry.........Perhaps it may take time to become normal ..........perhaps may be years or days ..........It is all within you........try to focus your mind in sports or studies or tour which can relax you.....you have to find out yourself.............But one surity I will say to you is that definetly you will come out of this but will take time........be patient................as for those idiots who did bad to you...............just make you strong............make sure that similar kind of event does not occur to some one else..

I felt very sorry for the worst moments faced by you. It is absolutely not your fault. You were at a bad time & situation. The best thing is to just forget what happened, as most of them are doing, or fight it out, if you have the courage. Those evils should not be go without the punishment which they really deserves.

In the lesbian act did ur virginity damaged,,, if so it is danger for u,, take care in future if something like this happened take bold decision and hit on the head so that u can run away

see...now ther is two ways which u can do..for ur piece of ur heart....one is u can just simply forget whole this incident and the other is u can just take a revenge...but in such a way that ur senior doesnt comes to know tht whtever is happening with her...is being done by u....if u want to take revenge than do reply me back i will giv u the idea...and i m so sorry about ur incident...

Fight it baby :-) The crime is not yours... so, there is no point for you to worry or feeling guilty about it... fight it... take it to the management... take it to police... take it to the streets with women organizations... teach a lesson to those devils...

this is sad. didn't you complain to the college authorities because such intense ragging isn't allowed these days. teasing and fun is still tolerable but not such physical torture. i think u must lodge an official complaint against those girls, so that they cant dare to do a similar thing ever again with another fresh entrant in the college hostel.

I can understand what kind of situation you must be going through. It is hard but just concentrate on your day 2 day activities, look out for better activities that will help you in your future. People around you will talk for a while and then tend to forget. Note if you react they will become more aggressive, if you ignore they themself will get bored and stop talking.

koi baat nahi tum muj ko apani us senior ka no de do mai kar doonga uski achi taraha santooshti khelne ki