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Rich guys can never be loyal....?
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Monika Rawal So is there any study or incident backing the fact that not-so-wealthy men would remain loyal? Pls shed some light on this too. more
Satish Prasad Fairer sexes... please understand a basic fact.. bout Men... All Men Rich or Poor given an opportunity would stray... There is nothing called loyalit.. more
Topic owner: Kripa Parekh:
My friend got engaged recently to a guy who pulls in a seven-figure annual income..but during the ceremony we noticed the only thing that he (the guy) did was staring at all the girls, he was more interested in talking to women around then the girl (our friend) sitting next to him.... I am concerned for my friend now. When talking to my family, my mom said never marry a rich man, he will never be loyal to you!! Told my friends the same & they all agreed..Is it true that rich men are not loyal????
Maunin Trivedi
First of all, being rich is a quality that is more attractive than any other. We see that almost daily. You're standing on the road, a mercedes pulls up next to you. You will check the one who's in it.. Money provides a sense of security, it gives you ability to buy stuff which ensures better survival of your family. So, girls will be attracted to money. It is natural. And when you're rich, there will be a lot of gold diggers throwing themselves at you for a fun time. They won't mind spending a night with you for that. So, yes, rich guys get attention from women, but that doesn't mean they're not loyal. If they are good by heart, I don't see why they'll cheat.
Yogesh Desai
In that case, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Michael Schumacher, Ambanis, Sachin Tendulkar, Shah Rukh Khan etc should have had a string of affairs ??? Do they?? No.. so its nothing to being rich or poor.. its the Guy's mentality.. Yes we do have a Tiger Woods and a John Terry and a Brad Pitt.. But there are many not so rich men who are not loyal, but are not in the news precisely because they are not rich and no one is interested in thier news !! So dont have a genral perception about men and money !!! Goodluck
Gideon James
Cheaters do not deserve any respect puja, they may be told atleast once to be careful n if they dont mend their ways, they cannot change.
Puja Kej
No question of rich or poor ,some are by nature,some say god created them to be disloyal,some r not satisfied with one etc many factors give the "Award of disloyalty" to men but one thing if he wrong deeds and accept before marriage than he is someway loyal to her betterhalf for showing atleast some honesty.But Can Men give these answers wht good they have done that they expect their wives to be loyal to them or they deserve any fair treatment for cheating their spouses. :P
Engineer Smart
with some percentage ur views are accepted. family rich by birth and got money recently these two different types of rich person and mostly by birth rich fellows are comes under loyal group. here ur view also keeps a place that No question of rich or poor ,some are by nature
Kishore Padman
neither rich nor poor, human mentality is that we cannot be loyal at all. Loyalty has been reserved for dogs by nature. Just enjoy the life and live happily..
Lion King
One line declarations of anything is very dangerous. As per good or bad is concern it is not confined to any class. There are good people in all classes and so are bad in all of them.Every human have a separate behaviour. Loyalty can not be decided from richness or poverty of a person.
Dhirendra Sharma
no kripa i do not agree with u i m not so rich as u told but i know many of people who r so rich and they are loyal to there all relation including love relation too
Rajeev Kapur
Even the wife wont be loyal after marrying to a rich guy .
Dhirendra Sharma
i do agree with u
Rakesh Arora
In today's world everything is possible. Nothing can be said and No guarantee
Rakesh Arora
In today's world everything is possible. Nothing can be said and No guarantee
Aarman Trivedi
When a topic arises regarding judging human behavior its almost impossible to keep any one in any categories. If the man talked with few girls or if he is having 7 figure salary... tht hardly shows anything about a man... the points you tried to judge your friends husband were not valid. his salary doesnt matter. the point whr he is talking to gals around his fiance is cause he may be a lil shy to talk with her in front of others or may be just to know her friends he was doing that. when i was with my gf i talked wid her but i even gave imp to her friends... cause eventually i just wanted to know all abt my gf... :) and to make her frnds my frnds and vise versa... If you want to marry some one. know him. weather he is rich or middle class person... hardly matters. you got to know how he really is before you say yes for marraige. gals who see the salry and get married. you never know what can happen next. Marriage is a life time thing and it does not come with any guarantees so better know your partner before you wanna get married.
Vaibhav Tulaskar
Yes Arman ur right because I experience the same.
Lion King
It can not be said with 100% surety about who is good or bad, either rich or poor or male of female. But it is established fact that power, money, beauty or possession of physical wealth can corrupt behavior. Being unfaithful is one of such corruption. But on other hand absence of power, wealth or beauty can also lead to different type of corruption such as mental problem, crimes, hatred etc. Bottom line is one whether he/she is male of female, must respect the human values and morality. If somebody who is attracted to money or beauty has no moral rights to complains for its side effects.
Kevin Synet
Which girl don't want to marry rich guy. Women want high fly life and for this they need money. By the way how many of todays girls are loyal to their partner and family life. Don't blame always guys for every damm things, girls also not far behind.. Grow up women.
Kevin Synet
What about rich girl. How many rich girls are loyal to their husband and his family. It is proven fact that rich girls are more interested in party, clubs, boy friends. How many of them will give respect to their poor husband. Any rich girl married to a poor man she will use every chance to insult him and his family. I know quite few cases of girls with this attitude.
Steven Roy
true very true.....u hit the bullseye... men can't be blamed all the time for all the things.... women are pretty messed up too nowadays....
Steven Roy
Well, girls wants security which usually equals money hence the risk of disloyalty coz u can't have ur cake and it eat too. Rich guys that can can afford a woman can afford a lot many like her and u can bet ur house on it that he ain't gonna keep all of them unless they all make it really worthwhile!
Gideon James
Well kripa, u knw dat der r exceptions always, hwevr one shd chk abt his background n fly members. Hower, t's alwaz advisable 2 marry smone whoz of equal status, u c!
Gideon James
Well kripa, u knw dat der r exceptions always, hwevr one shd chk abt his background n fly members. Hower, t's alwaz advisable 2 marry smone whoz of equal status, u c!
Satish Prasad
Latika.. what I have said is in general about MEN... and that's a fact... and applies to me as well...if you want to accept it please accept else be happy searching for ever illusive perfact man... This is the wau nature has created the MAN... and why u women always get a feel of being USED... Is it the Man alone indulges in the act...?? There is always a women involved... and why because u want it too... so aren't women also "using" MEN... Either ur too novice to understand this or want to remain in a ideal world which does not exist...Please Grow up...
Kirit Chauhan
is there any proof that always rich people are not loyal? even poor or middleclass people can also betray. It depends on morality.
Yogesh Parmar
hi.kase ho
Jagdish Kamble
Kripa,
Yes...mostly rich man are not loyal. Because they are using money power to achive his motive or other things. From our so many news sources, we found the same about rich man.
Aarman Trivedi
money does nt buy a good gal yes... but even empty pocket doesnt buy good gals either :D point is if u ve money... u ve got quiet some options to enjoy ur life the way u want. some how if ur rich... and if u like a gal ur chances of getting tht gal increases. now i knw it sounds sad bt this is how things are... so in a way if u ve money and u dont want to go for any commitments u can buy ur pleasures
Rajyashree Singh
i feel men shud understand that money can't buy them everything on this earth.. at least not a good girl or her love
Satish Prasad
Fairer sexes... please understand a basic fact.. bout Men... All Men Rich or Poor given an opportunity would stray... There is nothing called loyality in Men.. Yes.. and god has made men like that... At the same time.. no man would ever digest the fact that his women can also stray...
Now fact no,2:- Sex for Men is a transaction like withdrawing money from an ATM... U don't fall in love with an ATM Machine...at the same time he loves his family, wife and children... He nevers think that starying compromises his love for his wife... he just takes it as a transaction .. do it and forget it...
Aarman Trivedi
i dont mind what you say... the point is when you wear sunglasses of for example say blue color... u see the whole world blue... and like wise the way ur... u see every men as same... the way u represented ur basic facts. i am doing the same... this is human psychology :) try to remove ur glasses and see the world as it is...
Lion King
Mr Satish, First of all don't speak on behalf of all men, if something does not exist in you it does not mean that it does not exist in all. You are doing a very dirty advertisement of yourself. This society is not empty of good people both in men and women. I don't know if it so difficult to see that a woman might be a sister, a mother, aunty, daughter, a grand mother. I know there are few men who are in-slaved by their lusty behaviour, worst is that they start thinking the whole world like them. Such a lust is a physical and mental disorder. One has to understand whether one is man or woman, if one indulge in wrong activities he/she is going to pay for it sooner or later. A theft is theft whether somebody find it or not. Try to balance your emotions before going into such serious discussion. At least try to keep it as your opinion and don't make it a theory or law. Your words are disgusting and don't even stand to be mentioned to a dissent audience.
Veena Aiyer
Mr. Satish please don't give sweeping statements generalizing all Men. Talk about yourself that is fine you have right to state your views but quoting them as Facts are too far fetched. All this crap about ATM maybe applies to you but thankfully there are many sensible guys around who know how to treat their wife with respect and dignity which they deserve and which they have promised them while taking their hand and its not my imagination but i know this as a fact coz am a proud wife of one such man and a proud daughter of one such man who for your kind info are not only rich but are very hard working intelligent and sensible people. This was to let people know that ones moral values are what one chooses for them-selves and the financial position has little to do with it .
And I would like to add if Satish feels nothing wrong in straying and there is nothing know as loyalty he is definitely talking about himself what he actually feels and he has no authority to say it applies for all MEN after all all men are not PIGS :) thankfully
Latika Mahajan
Satish.. I'm sorry to say, but your views are really SICK! Why do you men always treat sex like a practice and women like an object to be used and then thrown away. U have used the word stray for men... do you fall in the same category of STRAY men?
Vina Patil
But girls who needs security and money must adjust with love
Waseem Rehman
and they often do.. dont you agree?
Manoj Singh
seems u were more interested to see that ur friends guy was being social...had been ur lovely friend doing the same the gal wud have been tagged as nice n friendly... poor rich guy who got married.. feels sorry for his state
Manoj Singh
hey khoosboo... I dnt thnk tat guy was really stupid to do so at such an high profile function..it jus tat stupid galz were impressed by his 7 figure salary... as mentioned by another gal ( stupid conversation n we all r really keeping this conversation alive..)
Khushboo Mirchanda..
oh really! let not get into a sexist debate here. I think Kripa is jus trying to say that since he was a rich man, he had such attitude, had he been an average earning guy, he wud hv controlled his emotions and felt content with the lady sitting next to him.
Piyali Bannerjee
Just because he's rich, he is a heartless guy with no affection towards his wife!!!!!! I don't agree with this statement...I believe the opposite theory which says Rich men are more loyal then poor ones since they have achieved everything in life and are content n satisfied..
Steven Roy
No no no ...he definitely ain't a heartless guy with lack of affection. He's jus a guy who needs more women to appreciate and share in his sense of achievement coz only in sharing with more comes satisfaction
Prabhat Pilgaonkar
agree with u piyali. rich men hv earned their life well and are happy living it, so they want to enjoy with their present partner and not luk for any outside relationship.
Balasaheb Pawar
its not as u r talkings its depends upon the persons, its changes as per the Man
Sarthak Thammiah
In my opinion, no.. it's not a bad thing to marry a rich man aftr all girls want security in life. According to me, girl should be fair & faithful... I mean.. he's giving you what u want..
Sameer Malhotra
I agree with Sqarthak and girls who dont agree are plain liers.
Monika Rawal
So is there any study or incident backing the fact that not-so-wealthy men would remain loyal? Pls shed some light on this too.
Aarman Trivedi
as you can see we are studying the fact while discussing about it... :) so if you read all the material thts posted here then u ve studied the subject... and you may come to ur individual conclusion :) lets hope i have shed some whole lot of sunlight on it. apart the jokes... no study can represent human behavior... its all an individual experience and perception we are talking abt over here... :)
Abdul Rehman
I really like your feed back on this...
Dia Shah
@Shamik: Hopw can you everyone is disloyal and dishonest. I don't agree with you. I think unlike men, women do not bring money issues into their relationship
Shamik Bhose
Methinks the whole idea is absurd, some people are disloyal and dishonest by nature, thus it does not amtter if they are rich or poor.Some like to get respect and give it back as well...because that is their upbringing..They cud be wealthy or not and the same logic applies to women as well.
Anand Venkatesh
@Monika Yes, there are many studies which says men with lesser money are loyal, faithful and polite as compared to richer men!!!
