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Wearing skirts can get women raped?
A police officer in Toronto said that "women should avoid dressing up like sluts in order not to be raped". What the HELL??? Are men trying to say that women get raped because they wear skirts or particular kind of clothes? Unbelievable!!!
Do you think a girl's clothes or dressing, by any means, can lead to rapes or sexual assault?
put the bundle of rupee in an public place you will find the person weather they need money or not will change their attitude & will take away the bundle, now put a bag full of rupee you will find different situation.
Rape is nothing but forceful sex. male and female both wants sex and wants to e physical. Now the point which topic owner has raised is partially true. opposites do attract and when a guy sees opposite sex wearing provocative dresses some men crosses the limit. Women are in receiving end coz physically they are weak. Sometimes a women wears provocative dresses and another women gets raped is also true. Unfortunately all these bitter things are true.
Do you know how rapes happen in abroad..? Please dont talk about abroad..wether its US, UK, Europe or some other countries ? Women would be mercilessly killed without remorse and you would be lucky enough if you are not killed, because ppl who rape in those countries would have sentenced jail terms and are hard core criminals who are into drugs as well. Just tat certain thngs dont come out well in de media it gets covered up it doesnt mean tat those countries should be colored in rose !! Another fact... gals or guys dont hesitate to go in for a night stand or sex wit a stranger in those countries.. but here in India which is conservative, guys have to owe his women out 2 bed... after lot of nagging u get to lay a women n hv sex.. unlike counter part women in other countries where u can just ask her out for a drink or dinner n u wud b in bed wit her if she is comfortable. Also there is a skew sex ratio which matters a lot in India. This cud lead to men turning into gays or more rapes... so be aware of de consequences and save de girl child...
However I dnt thnk women anywhere in the world dont get raped because of their clothing, but its because of their company they are with and the surrounding situation. Clothing is just a catalyst, but the ounse shouldnt be souly based on the clothing altogether. Take these example, you go in a binkin in beach, do u get raped by every men who see you ?? Likewise you go on street which is less illuminated in de middle of the night where there is no moment of any person and quite deserted out of de city, do u thnk u wud b safe there n wouldnt b raped even if u r fully cladded ? Gals are prone to attacks as they are not strong enough to handle situations and no amount of self defence knowledge is present wit them to protect themselves.This makes them very prone to situations like this.
Statements do come bz of satistics... they just tell thngs out of their mind. If you look at all de rape case, 70-80% are frm ppl who are knwn to the victim. So do you thnk those knwn ppl wil rape thm on the very day they see thm ?? it wud b a planned attact over de period of tm waiting 4 de right situation n opportunity. Rapes dont happen just like tat.
Also lets face it... women love 2 get attentions from all corners... its not her fault, but wat can you do if 1 assh** cudnt control his libido n wud do or go 2 ny extent 2 get his trophy ?? de police would do a better job if they could read de minds of criminals... n tat wud never happen. thy come only after de act is done. dey can reduce it by certain checks on vehicles but u cant expect thm to b there all places all de tm... thy r nt krishna parmathma to b thr 2 protect every1 everytm... Gals shud b cautious n b self vigil whn thy r at lonely places. There is nothng more thn self awareness n self defence in situations where u can expect anythng cud happen !!
Men also get raped for your kind information n tat 2 by gals !!
u believe it or not but 60% rape case caused only because of womans dress....mens are made to get attracted to woman ,,,,well i am not saying that u should wear clothes likes this and that ... but we cant do anythng in it and i too hate to accept this thng ..
Actually to say, It is the parents who have to take care about the dress wht the childrens are wearing. Nowadays the news paper and media people encourage the crime instead of presenting to minimise the crime.
skirts doesnt lead to rape..it is the uncontrolled sexual desires of few men, who have lost there humanity
the girls should not be the reason for the loss of humanity.
I am having sympathy for most of the males here that God had made them so weak that they even cant control their ill thoughts,sexual feelings and wrong behaviour towards females and they are hiding their weakness in the name of women dressing.Anyway i dont know wht they think or behave if they will see or see their sisters,cousins,niece etc wearing short and such modern dresses now and in coming future.
i have also sympathy with most of girls here that god had made them so weak that they even cant protect themselves
i have also sympathy with most of girls here that god had made them so weak that they even cant protect themselves
If Indiatimes is not preventing such a boring and fruitless topic then why it will ban user's views. Positive or Negative is not a matter Truth is always bitter and it should accept as it is. If those girls who has no dressing sense then they are built only for molestation. You just try to wear such bulshit dress I am sure then you will also face this situtation. We are Indians, We have some culture to live and every culture has some norms to be followed by society but some pigs of the society like you don't follow those norms and condemn rest of the society and nation. Shame on Yourself and dont try to reply on my comments further.....
sudarsan if u understand english well give answer by reading carefullly my answer and dont hide ur and male weakness by using anytype of extreme wrong words here ,i think many males are themselves designing ultramodern dresses and like girls in such dresses.There is no topic of nudity here its not even favorable for men also if they walk without clothes.If males only point fingers on females then it means they(men) can live naked and no harm will be done to them.
Modern dressing eh? Sure we agree. It's why also we men are very encouraging of the 'modern morals' of the 'modern woman'. It encourages our libido and definitely makes life easier living with such shoddy clothing. Why wear any clothing if the idea is to promote respect? Woman can walk nude in any case if no part of them is sexualised isn't it?
Not only a policeman in Toronto but also a judge in his ruling in US put blame on woman for dressing up as slut. Bot got into hot water, police in Toronto and the judge in US apologized for their rude and unthoughtful remarks. Do people think that women in those countries where they cover themselves from head to toe in a burqa never get raped? Silly, rapes do occur where no part of women are exposed.
ladkiyan kewal sex karne ke liye bani hain so enjoy with them guyz....
ladki har roop mein dhikthi hain.....maantha hai kya....
howcome ur posting such vulgar comments on indiatimes type of website,i think site will themselve take action such type of ppl.Views can be positive and negative but not shameful like u .
definitely partially nude gls arouse men easily. if d situation if favourable, a male who is out of control, can go for it...
definitely partially nude gls arouse men easily. if d situation if favourable, a male who is out of control, can go for it...
Monika, first of all it is 100% controversial topic. Now the point is Physical Intimacy is in two parts. Mutual intimacy is called plessure sex and forcefully it is rape. But, about the dress code, woman should aware about their dress which will not appeal sex at open place.
hahaha
kya baat hai sab sahi hai yaaro
pehle ang pradarshan phir kuch ho to hum to kuch nahi karte... girls ki yahi aadat hai
Kya baat hai Sagar Bakshi ji, aap ne to apne privar ki pol khol di. hahaha!!!
Cloths can make a woman to look beautiful. But same time if it is not used properly it can become rape provocative.
जैसा जो सोचता है वो वैसा ही देखता है, जाकी रही भावना जैसी प्रभु मूरत देखी तिन तैसी .....
Population of Bad mens are more than good mens so Girls take caution while wearing cloths which shows your skin and other hidden parts which are not seen usually seen in india.
As indian mens are not used-to see a girl wearing small cloths they get exited while they see this king of girls. Now the bad mens starts thinking about to get physical but the girl wearing small cloths might get safe passage due to any reasons and the girl wearing full cloths and roaming alone in certain area gets punished by bed mens which has seen girls in small cloths. So it is responsibility girls wearing small cloths not to wear it in front bed mens. This will prevent rapes upto some extents.
all mens are not wild animals but some women should be cautios of some wild animals like a dear dont hurt but a tiger/fox/wolf can hurt you so women should be cover your skin ..............
FORGET IT Boys.... How much ever you tell them... they just turn against us... We should leave them... One day.... all individuals will understand when they came across the situation and experiences... hmmm... STUPID GALS.... yeeeee
I am not agreed, rape shows a cruelity of men that's only lust and nobody wants to be raped it's just a crime done by others. if the skirt & these kind of cloths are reason for the that than ask from girls who raped when she was wearing a "Burka".
Yes, not because I m a typical man, but all situation are like that. But few men are very character less they are very normal until they see something exciting ...that's why..
Yes Dressup matters in increassing the case of rap's because Short skirt is yhe mean of Exciting the male candidates those who dont want to see tose expses they also see those Girls who expose lotts of body like Shows ,Girls have to know the Difference Of shows and real life .....Loll's
Ya women can wear what they like but it should be presentable at least, if it will looks that way then responsibility can't be taken by god even...........
if you read local dailies you will find a lot of rapes and sexual assaults happening in villages and rural areas where of course the victims were not wearing the skirt or any other provocative dress.
In this crazy world where some men consider women as sex symbol women should also have some decency in their dressings. Skirts make man to easily grap on woman and subsequently penetration
Skirt makes the traget easily accessible and also open legs make the temptions hot.
Madam this ban is in TOranto so there is a major difference between those ppl n Indain ppl.there goverment give open relation right after that gals got raped.then they (Toranto) ppl better tell u. For India every person have right to wear anything dress doesn't matter .thing is self defense if u go outside at night 2oclock to wear jeans suit or any dress then its sure u not safe .but gals should wear good Dress in which they feel comfortable n safe.
Rapes also occured in arab countries where gals n women only wear burkha.so in a simple line rape word comes from our mentality whre power of thinking ends.n in most cases reason of rape is alcohol or any other type of nashaor sexual necessity So miss Rawat safety is better than accident n this line is 4 all gals
you are correct my karan
inspite of hiding the secret parts of body, the womens today are in the race of showing there body parts by different means, it means they like to be tortured themselves.
3 things here: (1) ofcourse, woman have freedom to wear what they want but definitely exposure will provocate singles & some man will think these woman might be open to sex (2) such dressing is common in western countries as they are more open to sex as compare to india (3) Rapist are generally frustrated people and the reason of rape can be dressing & may be bad behaviour with them.
100% right. I would like to add that 90% of rapes and other such crimes would be seized if the girls would stop to excite the boys by wearing embarassing clothes.
In today's world of roving eyes , lewd looks,sarcastic comments and evil deeds by perverted males, it is better and prudent on the part of females to wear clothes which do not reveal much of flesh.
you are right Monika but 5 % to go clothes when you wear very sexy clothes then exitment humndity they can not control.
I think a rapist is amentally sick man , can he rape his sister when she wear short dress
I love the way James has put this and comprehensively second it. If a woman thinks walking around strutting her feminine assets is a 'right' she's missing the point between being a woman and a provocative woman. Who exactly is the woman strutting the stuff for? If it's for nobody and that's the way she likes dressing, she's definitely risking reprehensible acts upon herself. A pervert doesn't need a reason to go after a woman; provocative dressing just gives the disturbed mind an excuse.
If you take a piece of meat from a butcher's shop without covering it then you will notice all kinds of dogs will follow that meat piece but if the meat piece is covered then very rarely a dog might follow out of curiosity. Why uncover and show the meat/flesh part and arouse the animals that is inside a man. Be smart cover yourself, don't mistake feminity with sexy. Feminine is respectable sexy means well it will lead to sex i.e. forced or voluntary.
In some sense true, the police men has clearly mentioned not to be dressed like 'sluts'. Very practically speaking, men are basically attracted towards women flesh first (Not all men, only those does crime lol) . Prevention is better than cure.
Just observe an experiment - A few women were paraded, modestly dressed in front of a few young men and the men were asked their feelings towards the women. The men reported their feelings from an indifference to affectionate but not sexual.
The same women after a while were paraded naked in front of the same group of men and the men's feeling recorded again. The men reported their feelings from tantalisation of sex to actual having sex with the women. What does this mean? Why the change in feelings and attitudes with the change in clothing?
Whosoever were or have been raped do not wear skirts or other shorty stuffs. If a man wanted to do so, even jeans have to face man's might. The thirst is to blame. I m not lured by girls' thighs but the soft upper part plus their lips. MIND IT!
Whosoever were or have been raped do not wear skirts or other shorty stuffs. If a man wanted to do so, even jeans have to face man's might. The thirst is to blame. I m not lured by girls' thighs but the soft upper part plus their lips. MIND IT!
YES TO SOME EXTENT IF THEY DO SHOW THEIR BODY IN NOT WELL DRESSED CLOTHES IN INDIA ATLEAST.THERE WILL BE LESS CHANCES OF SEXUAL ASSAULT IF THEY ADOPT WEARING SAREES AS PER INDIAN CULTURE
Hello all, I think it is stupidity to put this as thread title. On cases like this, to give a decent answer, one has to understand the criminal psychology. I am positive that the people responding here are no criminals. This probably irritated women since the officers comment was against their rights in general. If that police officer had surveyed all the criminals with rape history and found that the reason behind MOST of these rapes is provocative dressing then I have no reason to disagree with the root cause of the problem. Having said that, that officer should have chosen the right words. He should have said women moderately dressed should be careful and take enough safety precautions. I think this sentence in itself gives lots of info for the people to interpret.
To support my argument, I am sure many people might have heard this survey.
A man went to a funeral and found a nice woman who he didn't get a chance to meet. What should he do to get to meet that women??
You will be surprised by the answer that majority of the criminals gave. Their answer was to kill a person who attended the same funeral.
Now any person with a sane mind would never have thought this. Either ways, have fun guys.
If dress or clothing is the cause of rape then there should be no rape in our villages specially in northern parts where most women wear sari and even cover their heads and faces. Some moron police officer in Toronto blamed dress for rapes and the whole police department got rap for his stupid suggestion.
U just try to wear short skirts i believe u will get gang raped in 1 months
The discussion has never been that this is the only reason however it always increase the possibility of the same.
Following others in regard of the new trends is just a habit of showing others that how much they like the new fashion. Remember it’s a glamorous world ‘a big market’, where everybody is busy with their own thinking and we all are the drunken human beings with the thick layer of glamorous colour in our eyes. Hence, parameters must be declared in our mind for the right justifications.
Not only a policeman in Toronto but also a judge in his ruling in US put blame on woman for dressing up as slut. Bot got into hot water, police in Toronto and the judge in US apologized for their rude and unthoughtful remarks. Do people think that women in those countries where they cover themselves from head to toe in a burqa never get raped? Silly, rapes do occur where no part of women are exposed.
I don't want to say yes but yes. The problem is not skirts or filthy dress but where are wearing it. If it's in party where security is good.. all people are educated and don't bother about the filthy dress then it is Ok. But 99.9%, the places are not like that we have to deal with different kind of people and you need only one assaulter among 1000 people to blame on mentality of all men.
It's Depend upon mentallity, we know very well about IAS Officer Rupen Deol Bajaj Case nd IPS K P S Gill,
Sabhi Educated , Party hue....aur kya hua...........
dear monika in scart womens look very hot and sexy ,so no any man can control ourself so this type of occurance are fully responcible femail person like womens
If you take a piece of meat from a butcher's shop without covering it then you will notice all kinds of dogs will follow that meat piece but if the meat piece is covered then very rarely a dog might follow out of curiosity. Why uncover and show the meat/flesh part and arouse the animals that is inside a man. Be smart cover yourself, don't mistake feminity with sexy. Feminine is respectable sexy means well it will lead to sex i.e. forced or voluntary.
Dear Dev AnandI like your comment
If you take a piece of meat from a butcher's shop without covering it then you will notice all kinds of dogs will follow that meat piece but if the meat piece is covered then very rarely a dog might follow out of curiosity. Why uncover and show the meat/flesh part and arouse the animals that is inside a man. Be smart cover yourself, don't mistake feminity with sexy. Feminine is respectable sexy means well it will lead to sex i.e. forced or voluntary.
WTF.. u think women to be a piece of meat????..for your kind information.. dogs have more smelling power than vision my dear....
No ,not yet all,
it is the mentallity of male towards the female it should change not the dress
Men who can control their mind should not tell others what to do.... if you cant stop your shitty thinking of gazing the girls then how can you tell them what to wear and what to not.. the serious topic is that even the parents are not teaching their children how to respect others... especially girls and elders..
its nt just issue of wearing skirt.. even jeans is taken as to be offensive.. why??? the shitty dominating nature of man will not change unless both the security and education system is not changed.....dressing has nothing to do with it.... but mens fkng sense of virility does leads to it...
???..can u make it clear dudiee..
If you know that it is the nature of men.. then why your are changing the clothes of women.... why not mentality of men???
What education system are u talking abt??? IMF chief raped a hotel maid recently..Isn't he educated???It is the evil nature in every men which leads to it...
Hi Monika..It leads to rape..atleast a gaze with eyes...but depends on teh person too...A survey in UK suggests 70% of parents doesn't like their daughters wearing skirts..U vl defend saying its comfortable which I do agree...but take the risk if u dont really want to get raped..;)
Ashish..U r misunderstanding..I din mean to say that the word rape is a silly thing..I know very well how much it affects a girl's mental attitude and her image in the society..How will u see 2 girls of same age one in parda and other in short skirt?..It does make a difference in ur eyes..dnt bull shit by giving philospophy..Infact its not capitol punishment it should be the one as in the movie 'I spit on your grave'..Guys who rape deserves what is shown that movie..Go c it if u didn't..I am a good tennnis fan..To b honest when I watch ladies tennis I do enjoy the game and the short skirt..and no men will deny it..If u deny then u r smthn odd to b picked out...All I wanna tell is that girls should not give chances..If u are in a western country no one cares..But if u wear it in a village in India it does make a difference..So it depends on the guy,the place and the dress...cheers..
Shehzad Hamza...you take that word rape very casually...its not so simple word as it seems in spelling. the heinous crime needs to dealt with strong laws and capitol punishment.... don't give useless comments.. if you cant make something better.
This is absolute nonsense...the same kind of logic used by the Taliban to justify all their crimes...maybe you should check if that police officer was also a member of that group..!!
Have you seen men dressing like women??
then why should women dress like men? copycats :P
Yes possibility of a girl to be raped more who wearing shorts or skirts
Wearing a dress is purely matter of choice.In a civilized society
obviously there is a freedom what to wear.jst wearing a mini skirt or by any means seduce a man to indulge in rape?this z actually a barbaric act.it s a mind set of the few wicked men.
My question is that whether all girls do believe in 'Indian Culture' ...?? If yes then why do they not follow conventional clothes ?
I have one more question to all girls how many of you wear skirts or exposing type of dress in front of your parents??
Why girls wear saree during marriage why not miniskirts?
You all girls may say that it is fashion of wearing miniskirts,what happened to the fashion in front of parents and marriage like occasion?
Why do all girls believe in exposing stuff??
There is limitation, particular in India,on everything.So follow the rule not the trend.
I must say I am lucky in this regard, my husband is not sick like the police officer in question. He allows me to wear any outfit, no matter how much skin it shows. All he says is I should be comfortable in what I wear and where I go. I am married to him 6 years now and we have a kid as well, but when anyone see me will not believe that I am married and have a kid. That’s coz since he doesn’t stop me from wearing anything. I have also always tried to maintain myself only because when I wear a sexy outfit, I should have a fit body to look good in that. Most of the men have extra marital affairs, forced sex, rape and all nonsense, because they do not allow their, sisters and wife/girlfriend to dress up according to their wish. So even after getting married, the men will be like hungry dogs, when they come across a sexy girl, dressed up in a revealing dress. If they get to see one, they will go after her and try to get her by force or fraud.
The other reason why my husband allows me to wear anything that I like or I am comfortable with, according to him is in his own interest. He supports and advocates my hot, sexy or even provocative dressing for that matter, because (according to him)
- When I have no restrictions to dress up, I will maintain my physique in a better way than a lady who has restrictions as she will be aware that her body will not be visible under the dress she wears, so no matter even if its out of shape.
- If I look hot sexy and attractive, his attention will not be diverted to any other lady around. This according him will help him in long run to say connected and committed to each other.
- He says that being around a sexy lady like me dressed up so attractively, helps him be and behave like a gentle man when he comes across any lady, that’s is unlike other men he will not be running after them like a hungry dog as he already see every day, his wife wearing a mini skirt, low neck tops, sleeveless dress, transparent tops, tube dresses anything for that matter.
He allows me to wear anything, I swear anything even when he is not around. All he says is that I will get some unwanted attention some times, but he is ok with it and feels that I can handle it. For the men who feel that women dress provocatively, to show off their skin, I will only say that yes we do show off but it will not be for all. It will be In specific for a person, in school, college or even at work place for that matter, whom the lady will like or love and all this she will do only to get a small compliment from him that you look pretty today. But men will never understand a women physiology.
To all the men out their, who feel women who dress up proactively, are bit**es and will sleep around with anyone, I will only tell that is not true. I will not talk about anybody, I will Talk only about myself, I have never had any extramarital affair or interest so far. My relationship with my husband is so wonderful, that I do not need anyone for anything. I love my husband.
How much skin it shows?.Well why after being married you can think of doing anything like that.Someone who is young,unmarried it is understandable although it should be avoided.But after being someone's wife,daughter in law,bhabi how can you people think anything of that.Is people going to access you if you're modern from how much skin you display?.One thinker had rightly said "the most educated people are the most uneducated ones".
Madm aap to kuchh bhi mat pahno apka husband khush to nacked raho karo hame kam se kam dekhne to mil jayegi kesi hai apki
shweta ji kapde tan dhakne k leye hote hai rahi baat aapke husband ki to unke samne to aap kam kapde pahene ya na pahene koi fark nhi padta lakin tan ko bina dhake public k bech jayngi to koi esa mil hi jayga jiske ander k shatian ko aapke kam kapdo se jhankta shareer jaga dega aur fir.....................
damn..you really don't know what we are talking about here do you and why are you so desperately trying to prove yourself. Its not about you or your husband. Its true that some women wear such dresses to get appreciation from someone or attract someone she likes or health reasons but there is a high chance that you will get hurt becoz of these. So, take your husband with you whenever you want to show yourself.
hello shewta...
I need a answer from you....."भारत में बेटियों को गर्भ में ही मार दिया जाता है",क्यों ???
कई जगहों पर बेटियों को पैदा होने बाद मौत के घाट उतार दिया जाता है, क्यों ??
वे तो मिनिस्कि ;र्ट नहीं पहनती है .......
Plz reply
U all speak about skirts now,the countries where skirts are in common use even before 30 years......had no issue search to the records of the countries like Sri Lanka,Singapore so on>>>>........skirts are the official & school uniform before 30 years....went good>>>>>every thing depends on the mentality of the person who makes the crime....nothing else.....& the situations .......no girl / lady can't be raped without the acceptance of the bad of the worse.......
Why the rape stats is so high in Afganistan where women wear burkas? On the other hand, there are lots of nudist beaches in Europe but cases of rape are very rare. Much rarer than in India!
medam can u tell me where u read that most sape in afganistan. i think u r not reading proper news. rare u will find that rape in islamic country. in europe and america how much woman in safe go n check. their r living like animal life. without marry they surviving life. without marry they agree to born child. y woman want to wear skirts. remove that also. nobady look them ok. if they wear proper dress then everyone give them respect. they will call sister aunty like that otherwise u know that wat man like.
medam can u tell me where u read that most sape in afganistan. i think u r not reading proper news. rare u will find that rape in islamic country. in europe and america how much woman in safe go n check. their r living like animal life. without marry they surviving life. without marry they agree to born child. y woman want to wear skirts. remove that also. nobady look them ok. if they wear proper dress then everyone give them respect. they will call sister aunty like that otherwise u know that wat man like.
Then wat u are suggesting HERE... Paru
No way! Skirts have got nothing to do with the rape it’s just easy to open up compare to jeans or trousers.
It is the character, power and opportunity that make a normal person a rapist be it man or a women
So for girls and boys please do not stop wearing nice flashy cloths but save yourself by using intuitions and avoid being in a difficult situations like late night outings, excess drinking, dark corners and also not trust worthy relatives unless you can handle the consequence with full strength.
Ha ha ha..... Nice Topic though.... Come on boys.... GALS dont like to be heard truth... They are amazing and GREAT ONLY coz.... They are the Great Womens who gave us life... Understanding tat we will try our best protect them... Because of some ppl who RAPED...They think we all boys are great villans.. ha ha ha... But Each individual is different from one another... Gals ill understand wat is been told when their life is been put on that situation...just think of those women who have gone through this HELL.....WE BOYS WILL TRYING OUR BEST PROTECT YOU ANGELS... TAKE CARE... WHEN IM NOT AROUND...;-)
Its offcourse yes. If women show there body n man wil not atract that means that one not a man. And those man telling we not atract with this there r saying lie. Not every man but maybe 90 percent like that. You will never heard any girl waering burqa anybody rape her. See the between saudi arabia and america ratio about rapes. why women is wearing like this cloths. those women cover there body they look better than this one and they will got more respect by heard then this. prostude women r showing there body not a society good women
Those they r wearing this type of cloths they r ruined the society. now a days man not doing marry early because they got lot of thing with that. see how much pair sleeping together without marry. how man started to firlting them. can it possible without looking her body?
Yes, to some extent. Every civilized human being should cover his/ her private parts, which otherwise might tcause sexual temptation in the mind of the opposite sex. Provocative advertisements are also to some extent responsible, they have portrayed women as commodities. Hence what's harm in wearing defensive dresses but utilizing own intellect / smartness to attract the opposite sex
Every action of a human bieng is controlled by only two things- the hormone secretion which make him like some things and some don't and second is the moral values(person's character) which gives him a green light to attempt for anything or not.(offcourse there is a fear of legal punishments that comes by in some people but its a part of hormonal control).
Now its in the very own nature of every man that he gets attracted by beautiful women or a moman in a revealing dress(If someone don't then ask yourself "Are you a man?") and vice versa. Its like they just can't control the rush of the hormones in there blood. After that comes the action, everyone performs. There are people who are tempting to do whatever they want but the moral inside them don't allow them to. But there equally are the guys* who don't gives a shit about anything or any moral values(these are the ones u shld be affraid of).
Now the thing which led us to these question today is that the moral values of people is decreased to a large extent. There were times when we used to control our brain bt nw it control us.
So if you ask me "Wearing skirts CAN get women raped?". So yes they can totally be raped. Its not about which generation you are living in or what you wear. Wearing skirt will only increase your chances of getting raped, as more men will be attracted towards you.
So, you either leave your life on chances or use your brain or find someone who could protect you.
I am not against of wearing skirts or something like that but let me just ask you one thing, "Why do you wear skirts?"
and answer only after asking yourself two times these question.
*guys-can be a man or a women
No its not true!
Girl's clothes or dressing may excite a man but not lead to rape or sexual assault. It may be any clothing and wearing a saree is more beauty then skirt.But there are different kind of people in our country who takes it otherwise.
Lack of proper sex education and medical problem may be the big reason for raping a women.Specially our country's law is not so strong for women raping! I think the clothes are for wearing & the women must wear it, in which she looks beautiful & comfortable .Man is nothing without women & every man must respect them.Its big true that our country is not safe for the women.So every women have avoid and understand such kind of man.She has to take action against such man before the time.And parents are also advise their duaghters, to tell them misbehaviour. So they can improve their confidence,if such assualt happnes in future.
Decent look of girl always good. If they are wearing for exposing her body on social area, what means of that? It is natural that men get provoke by seeing provocative dress of a women.
The whole idea of the walk revolves around the fact that no woman ‘likes’ to be raped and hence, would NEVER call for it in any manner. The problem lies in the minds of the rapists and not in what women wear and how they dress up or walk. There is nothing wrong in wearing short skirts or low cut tops and walking in high heels wearing make up. The people who experience such sexual assaults are not to blame. The thought process of this male-dominated society needs to be changed. Not women, but men should be taught not to indulge into the act of sexual harassment and look upon women as independent people and not as mere objects of desire.
well nice question. absolutely right wearing skirt means women want sex.
Oh really that means men who are wearing shorts wants sex too...telling not to wear skirts means why don't you guys start wearing dhoti and roam around so that we can also wear traditional dresses.
Naveen, I defy your Statement, see a woman clothes doesn't send any message of "I want Sex", there are better ways of expressing a desire and not absolutely through clothes,common stop being Ignorant as a child. Like every Man, she also has the freedom to the choice of wearing at least..
These discussions won't have end point. So waste of time. God has created all creatures and given their Limits and reservations. A Sheep cannot go in front of Tiger and could not escape by saying that I had right to roam anywhere.Same way the Women's had their own reservations of not doing such awful acts which invites men to do attack. Use freedom to take tight decisions not to satisfy your own wishes.
hahahaha..... awesome dialouge
good ans.
The discussion not about the Sheep going in front of Tiger.. discussion is about the Tiger chasing the Sheep
Girls Don't talk about lunatic men, coz they are insensible n age nevr stop raping a old/ child... But in case of normal persons like me, we are attracted to your low waist jeans, mini skirts, figure revealing cloths n etc.. So if u all do this how can a normal man can survive, pls do tell. This is not all women are not sheep they are cunning wolfs n they know when, how, where n what to do but sometimes they fail n this is how they fall victims.... Hope u all will appreciate this.... Thanks..
Beta Srinivas I think ur not a man and if u r then u don't have the balls and if u hav then u don't seem to be natural... So don't push ur brain in this issue... Coz wen any girl exposes then normal men can't stay cool.. Hope u understand...
Get a life man you are not normal at all if you stick your eyes under the dress of a girl
Well all public are fighting on the issue of women cloths like skirts etc... I my view, here is some points need to be considerd first before discussion:
first, All thoughts that comes in our mind related to sex is related with our character. Doesn;t matter a girl or boy what has wear.
second, some boys/girls are more desirable for sex so it doesn;t matter what opposit sex has wear skirt or else.
Basically its all related to our mind if we can not control our mind then we can go to be rapist or else. On other hand..In India the men falk is not yet too advance as westerns to see a girl into skirt..so they think that the girl before them is so open minded and we should do any thing what we want.
So both should need to change our views and also maintain the decency not only cloths but in our views also.
Yes of Course.Have you ever heard of a Burqa clad women raped ona public place?If any women will reveal then she's bound to recieve attraction
Mr. Mohammad justify all the rape cases in Saudi where the women is killed with stones.. its there in the world news to see..
dats a bullshit!!!!!! wat bout thoes small kid who r raped?????
Yup and remember when a 70 year old woman was raped in delhi, I am so sure she wasn't wearing a mini skirt
yup good point, what about kids as young as 9 months who get raped
All the women who's justifying wearing mean cloths... I just hv 1 question... All said and done like we can wear what we want etc.. etc.. what's the need to show half the bust and thighs..??
@ Satish.......Great replied to Roshni and Romita.I like your thinking and writting.
@Roshni... You have all the rights even not to wear anything.... I just wanted to understand the logic behind dressing scantily...If you feel good in showing why show only part show full.. Men will also have good time...and you will get lots of appreciation for your curves...
Romita.. I do not think that showning chest for men is something arousing for women...( May b wrong.. don't know women perspective ) But this comes from the school of thought that in villages almost all the men roam around bare body .... Now coming to my question... I still didn't get the answer.. what pleasure the woemen get in showing her assets... And as far as Getting aroused is concerned may be Men do get aroused by seeing women body more than women , and on the lighter note Indian men may not have the body which can arouse the fairer sex as compared to the Fab body our indian woemen have...
Romita.......as per your comment...indian women on coming days will wear bikni and walk on public places.
Satish tell me something, you guys also keep your shirts button open and wear the most low waist jeans.. has any girl ever come up to you and said pls don't wear such clothes in such vulgar way? so what makes you men say anything to girls? better keep ur old school philosophies with you only.
its not the need but the right to wear what we want and why is it an issue
girls should wear any kind of clothes but these should not be look like nothing. Nowadays on the name of freedom girls are wearing clothes that are only for name.
Just forget... thanks!
ITS 100% TRUE THAT DUE TO THE SHORT CLOTHES ONLY GIRLS GET INTO PROBLEM ,, MEN THINKS THAT SHE WANTS SEX , THATS WHY SHE IS EXPOSING HER SKIN , AND TRY TO FORCE HER TO SEX BY RAPING.
MANY OF THEM DO FOR SEX RESON ONLY - THIS IS TRUE
@ Neema
Kindly reconsider your thoughts...the point is that wearing skirts may be a reason that promote some wrong notion in mind that may further lead to rape not like that if someone wearing skirt want to have sex.....
Neema,,,why are you going on personal level. We are talking about public place women's wearing cloths. Due to sucht type of women's behaviour they are facing problems. Not our country only in whole world they are facing the same problem. So wear proper cloths, it is good for woman.
So do you mean your wife wears skirts whenever she wants to have sex with you? great way to seduce i must say!
Wow wearing skirt means women want sex, thats the kind of men we have in India.
yes they or some one else gets raped because women wear provocative clothes. If you were carrying Rs.1.00 lakh in a bag would you open the bag in public and start showing the money of course not it is invitation to getting robbed, then why do women dress provoactively. This has nothing to do with values and everything to do with common sense. there are lakhs of immigrants in delhi Mumbai who live away from their families and are sex starved
Some people here are missing the question asked or the question has not been asked properly.
The question asks: "Do you think... "can" lead to...".....The question is NOT asking about whether it "should" lead to.
Some responses to "can lead to" are only referring to whether wearing certain clothes lead to assault in some cases. It does not mean that other reasons do not exist. Neither do they mean that wearing some clothes will always lead to an assault.
Read before getting excited and jumping into comment.
Dont dress like a bitch who seduce the man to provocate.
Excuse me Mohammad Siddiqui!!! you mean men don't have anything else to do in their useless life but to create problems for women and make their life hell? try to respect a woman's beauty and not use your dirty thoughts.
Nupur,You cannot justify the girls dressing,as the priceless things are to be locked into a safe to avoid robbery.Its so simple as that!! Lesser cloths invites some of the animals amongst the men!
Shibu...don't you think you need to mind your language first before coming on this public forum and comment?
Yes it is correct, because men get provoke by sexy dressing, it natural. it is instinct quality in men. women dressing like slut, itself give hint that they are available. if women are not conscious of not to be raped, they can better dress good. it is like keeping a sheep in front of tiger & asking him, not to eat. women in India are trying to copy blindly what westerners does. in america thousands of rapes take place everyday. what the reason behind it. just have think over it. don't think from the mind of westerners.
Stop talking like a fool and comparing human beings to animals. what do you mean by sheep, tiger etc etc... crap! it's nothing about picking things from the West. Indians is also modernized enough to have their own standards in all ways of life.
Girls should wear decent dress.
@Tamanna.......You have all the rights even not to wear anything.... I just wanted to understand the logic behind dressing scantily...If you feel good in showing why show only part, show full.. Men will also have good time...and you will get lots of appreciation for your curves...
decent doesnt mean coverng everythng.....!
@Jagdish: can't indian men concentrate on their dressing sense and stop interfering in what women around are wearing. we live in a democratic country.. so let thetre be freedom by all means. thanks
Tamanna.....It is decided by Indian Men's culture. All mens are thinking same and it is good for all of you. Otherwise wear sexy cloths and invite problems in public places.
and who are you to decide that?
Bull S**t what about women get raped in Middle east in burkhas... men are pigs that is all
Ramesh, i don't think we need to argue on moral values here. no women gets dressed to provoke the sex starved men. it's the men who cant control their roving eye and stares at every women whether she's dressed in a saree, skirt or a burqa. being helpless or being with guys around is not a point here.
Dear Jaya, If a women dresses provocatively and excites people they are not going to rape her becuase she might have a couple of guys with her. The person is going to go and rape a helpless women even if she is in a burqa. Stop fooling yourselves and use common sense, values will not help you in a tense situation, common sense will or else go learn karate
Bang on absolutely right Srinivas, agree with you, maximum women in India who get raped are sarees and suits
right place, right time with right people please.....otherwise dont wear it to get raped or cause to commit adultery
Another thought of a sick mind, dictating women what to wear and when
All men commenting here are Male chauvinist pigs
The question is do you want to be raped or not !!
I strongly believe: Freedom and rights come with responsibility and NEVER without it.
Hence, while the rapists, the thiefs, the murderers, right to freedom and liberty SHOULD be taken away, the ones encouraging such things (like a man sleeping with his door wide open for the thief to come in) should know that they are the ones who will face the consequences of their carelessness.
No doubt women should have full liberty to wear any 'clothes'. But here the question is "what is clothes" -- are underwears also clothes? I beg to differ.
To answer your question: Rape can never be justified, even if the woman were to walk naked or for those arrogant women who walk alone at 2am thinking bad things cant happen to them. These women do NOT 'deserve' to be raped. The more important question is: Knowing the environment and society they live in, have they ensured to be careful, for their own sake? For at the end of the day, no matter how much one argues on what is right and not, it is the woman who will be traumatised for life.
Do some women wear miniskirts and see through tops to titilate the guys and seek attention? I firmly believe they do for this sole purpose. They will be safer, if they do so after showing an understanding of what environment/society they are doing this. The more closed/restrictive the society is, higher the 'probability/chances' of her getting abused.
In anything one does, one should be responsible - for their own sake and to enjoy their much deserved sense of freedom and liberty.
Monika: I said they do NOT deserve. Looks like you want to read things differently. And indeed provocative dresses are worn to seek attention. Dont be a hypocrite. Ofcourse by provoking they are *NOT* (repeat NOT) asking to be assaulted. Neither (repeat neither) do they deserve to be assaulted. But as per your question, "can they"...and here l repeat what i wrote above.
Trishna: I am very much in the 21st century. It will help if women come out of their view of a utopian world and begin accepting that there ARE men who are wolves and are waiting to hound women. And there is serious burden on men too...The question however was 'whether it 'can'...' and not whether it 'should'.
Thanks Mr. Barun Dhar for mentioning the category of women who DESERVE to be raped and who don't. And what makes you think that girls wear certain kind of clothes On Purpose? I don't think any girl would want to make any sexual advances to men deliberately. though for men, I'm sure, it comes naturally to them.
I think you people are living in 16th century and why all the burden of society and environment on women and you are justifying that men will always be wolves hounding women!
It is natural that men get provoke by seeing provocative dress of a women. The western men has become immune, and they hardly provoke. That is why, the western women fedup by the cold response from men. That is why they start "Slut walk" protest.
In western society one in thousands will get provoke. They are inviting their males to have fun with them by dressing in a half nude attire.
I guess you don't even know why the slut walk protest is happening Mr Abdul, also who are you to decide what women should wear and raping them cause they wear skirts is a sick mind's thought
To some extent, dress plays a role. You will not argue why those sexy erotic lingerie are very famous and has a huge market. Men are turned by visuals. When a man looks at the well built girl's calf muscle, lower thighs, etc., they surely get turned on. It's nature. You can't complain. If I have to open my heart, since I know deep in my heart that it's illegal, like most of the guys out there, I masturbated in private fantasizing bedding those girls whenever I come cross them. If I'm not cultured/feared abt law, I would have bedded them in reality.
Well Mr Bad boy if you can't handle you libido, a girl's clothes are no excuse to rape her right. You can surely bed as many women you want with their consent but have no right to rape them if they are wearing clothes of their choice


