Am i the only one who has felt this or is there anyone else who also feels the same? Over the period i have noticed how the definition of love has changed. The wish list that consisted caring, loving words has changed to handsome,rich, bank balance...bla bla. nowadays before dating ppl want to your bank balance. Strange but thsi is true. love has become a word to be read about but is not there in life. money or credit has taken its place.

Hi Piyali,



first of all it is very necessary for you to figure out if u r really in love with the person or if its just an infatuation. people tend to grow and this growth brings in maturity, which is really important and cannot be ignored. with this maturity you also become practical and then comes in existence this chart of demands. it is perfectly normal one day or the other you will have to accept the fact that love does not fulfill all your demands there are other needs in life as well that are to be met. and yes looks does not matter at all points of time. so chill.....

well may b, but u cannot paint every body with the same brush.

because dere r people who hav different set of values

love is blind. u cant c it.only u can feel it.

the ego in human beings makes them materialistic...suach as i am this one, i hv this power, i am a big man, ...such things are in every human in my opinion except...i am human being i am everything...this is wat ruining the love...and love has become tool,,,so sorry for hard words

It depends on situation, Moreover Its upto you, as how you perceive. however, yes, to some extent its true.

i don't feel so what about u dear?

One cannot live without money in this world my dear. The social status of a person is determined by how rich he/she is. Love cannot buy you the luxuries of life. This is the age of commercialism. You are judged by what you have and not by what you are.,

Hi

LOVE NEVER CHANGES, IT IS U CHANGE FOR INSTANCE LOVE-MEANS HUM-TUM (u & me),love is always pure

@ Piyali,
But true lovers remain as pssionate as ever. It is just the perception of one person

Initially when we fall in love with any one whatever u said is the case but when the relationship comes to the next level(marriage) the families(especially of girls) want the otherone to be rich with good bank balance. So True love is very hard to find. I am still searchin for one. May be you hv met yours true lover. bye

You wise and intelligent. you have realized the true worth of a persons love. God will give you the best partner. This is my message to you as a person who has seen life from many angles and for a long time.

Im very impressed.

Raj

You are the most sensible person I have seen in this group. You will find the right person who will take care of you or even die for you. Piyali your thinking is in the right course.

Raj

It’s great to hear such thought. But if we go through the life, we will face different words like love, credit which is having different meaning and scope. If people are start relating each other, life will be jumbled and miserable. Here, Money and credit have different aspect and keep it as it is. Love is focused on feeling and relating 2 human beings, love does not assess any being. So if we bring the money and credit in love, it will be like assessing each others like we will get a grade. Yaar, it’s Love … a feeling of soul … so feel it, It’s a beauty … bring it in life … don’t relate/compare it with other.

One more thing, every people have a sweet dream depending on his past experience and the environment and his/her like-dislike depends on it. So nothing wrong there … there are different people. We should accept it and go to fulfill our dream (what looking for and how to achieve it)…

Dear Piyali,

It is nice to know that some of my feelings are shared

by others like you., I agree with you that our extremely

materialistic outlooks are manifested in our love and sex life also. As a result we are unsatisfied most of the time and go on changing partners in search of more wealthy person.

I will love to here more from you.

With best wishes

Suman Ghosh

Love goes out of the window,when a couple is hard pressed for money.

Love is sweeter and appeals to our senses with intensity when tangibles expresses itself in its grandeur.

Oh love goes anaemic the moment there is no money..

would tend to agree with you .in this mad rat race materialism has taken over everything including love

Piyali jee in last line u wrote ," Money or credit has taken its(love) place" am not agree with this very line kindly remove it (It shows negative thought) it doesn't suits u (Positive thinker,Money can not become love.Because it is gods gift to human being where as money is made by human beings(Who r not God).If somewhere its seems like that, than please do not link that love was there, Only lifestyle was there.Lot of examples are in society that just for love people have left the entire empire of of thousands of crore of rupees.

I am not advising but suggesting. When Love word is used, than it indicates that there is no exchange value is there its exchange value is love only.LOVE is very big word.If somebody is asking for other things except love in exchange than that should be termed as DEAL/Agreement (Not Love).Love shapes life and other things shapes life style.There is very big difference between life and life style

these days u need to ask "what is love ? " and this is a fact ... money talk love walks !

nowadays before dating ppl want to your bank balance...Well, that isn't love. Love is pretty rare these days, people are too materialistic (greedy is the better word) to love.



What people are capable of, is lust and / or compromise. In India, r'ships are more often compromise.

Yes days have changed and people especially more gals in matter of love have become practical. Before caring and respect they want security and happiness that riches bring., looks, ghadi, bla bla bla.. but i donot believe every gal is like that but many are like that now a days

Love with loyality is most important catalyst in life. Today people dont have patience and girls particularly run after glamour and money. Same is true for boys too. Sex and lust is temporary but love is all about caring and being happy in beloved's company. Its simple, if you are loved by good person you are happy, that makes you confident and successful. If there is no love, despite hanging to rich man, man will eventually cheat, cos there is no love. Love is most important thing in a relationship. Money comes and goes, but if soul of your life is love, any amount of money can be earned.

I believ everyone here is money minded, but there are soem people including me who seek only love. I am waiting for some one who will love forever no matter what happens

Exactly, if money is flowing freely then you are happy and in love but once you don have it you get frusterated and it shows in your relationship as well.

There is nothing wrong in giving credit more important in a relationship after all its a bitter afct of our lives taht money is the most important part or has become a necessity of our life. Nothing comes free so does love

No you are aprtially right taht yes nowadays people give more importance to love but there are many people who believe in true love, hope for true love and give true love. Not everyone is amd for money.

You are absloutely right gal, all now taht everyone is asking for , praying for, hoping for is MONEY..