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Love losing over credit?
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Debashish Acharya I believ everyone here is money minded, but there are soem people including me who seek only love. I am waiting for some one who will love forever no.. more
Harpreet Singh There is nothing wrong in giving credit more important in a relationship after all its a bitter afct of our lives taht money is the most important pa.. more
Topic owner: Piyali Bannerjee: Am i the only one who has felt this or is there anyone else who also feels the same? Over the period i have noticed how the definition of love has changed. The wish list that consisted caring, loving words has changed to handsome,rich, bank balance...bla bla. nowadays before dating ppl want to your bank balance. Strange but thsi is true. love has become a word to be read about but is not there in life. money or credit has taken its place.
Raj Sen
You wise and intelligent. you have realized the true worth of a persons love. God will give you the best partner. This is my message to you as a person who has seen life from many angles and for a long time.
Im very impressed.
Raj
Im very impressed.
Raj
Raj Sen
You are the most sensible person I have seen in this group. You will find the right person who will take care of you or even die for you. Piyali your thinking is in the right course.
Raj
Raj
Deba Kar
It’s great to hear such thought. But if we go through the life, we will face different words like love, credit which is having different meaning and scope. If people are start relating each other, life will be jumbled and miserable. Here, Money and credit have different aspect and keep it as it is. Love is focused on feeling and relating 2 human beings, love does not assess any being. So if we bring the money and credit in love, it will be like assessing each others like we will get a grade. Yaar, it’s Love … a feeling of soul … so feel it, It’s a beauty … bring it in life … don’t relate/compare it with other.
One more thing, every people have a sweet dream depending on his past experience and the environment and his/her like-dislike depends on it. So nothing wrong there … there are different people. We should accept it and go to fulfill our dream (what looking for and how to achieve it)…
One more thing, every people have a sweet dream depending on his past experience and the environment and his/her like-dislike depends on it. So nothing wrong there … there are different people. We should accept it and go to fulfill our dream (what looking for and how to achieve it)…
Souvik Ghosh
Dear Piyali,
It is nice to know that some of my feelings are shared
by others like you., I agree with you that our extremely
materialistic outlooks are manifested in our love and sex life also. As a result we are unsatisfied most of the time and go on changing partners in search of more wealthy person.
I will love to here more from you.
With best wishes
Suman Ghosh
It is nice to know that some of my feelings are shared
by others like you., I agree with you that our extremely
materialistic outlooks are manifested in our love and sex life also. As a result we are unsatisfied most of the time and go on changing partners in search of more wealthy person.
I will love to here more from you.
With best wishes
Suman Ghosh
Pankaj Solanki
Love goes out of the window,when a couple is hard pressed for money.
Love is sweeter and appeals to our senses with intensity when tangibles expresses itself in its grandeur.
Oh love goes anaemic the moment there is no money..
Love is sweeter and appeals to our senses with intensity when tangibles expresses itself in its grandeur.
Oh love goes anaemic the moment there is no money..
S S Bisen
would tend to agree with you .in this mad rat race materialism has taken over everything including love
Abhay Gupta
Piyali jee in last line u wrote ," Money or credit has taken its(love) place" am not agree with this very line kindly remove it (It shows negative thought) it doesn't suits u (Positive thinker,Money can not become love.Because it is gods gift to human being where as money is made by human beings(Who r not God).If somewhere its seems like that, than please do not link that love was there, Only lifestyle was there.Lot of examples are in society that just for love people have left the entire empire of of thousands of crore of rupees.
Girish Ingale damn true kripa ! i agree with you ... money talks , love walks ! love's out money 's inn ..
Kripa Parekh I am not trying to put words in ppl mouth, but its a bitter fact of a life taht sadly love has lost its true meaning with people setting parameters and criteria to fall in love, today everything comes under this word love be it one night stand or lust or any feeling.. "we made love"... can u imagine?
Abhay Gupta
I am not advising but suggesting. When Love word is used, than it indicates that there is no exchange value is there its exchange value is love only.LOVE is very big word.If somebody is asking for other things except love in exchange than that should be termed as DEAL/Agreement (Not Love).Love shapes life and other things shapes life style.There is very big difference between life and life style
Girish Ingale
these days u need to ask "what is love ? " and this is a fact ... money talk love walks !
Amit7701
nowadays before dating ppl want to your bank balance...Well, that isn't love. Love is pretty rare these days, people are too materialistic (greedy is the better word) to love.
What people are capable of, is lust and / or compromise. In India, r'ships are more often compromise.
What people are capable of, is lust and / or compromise. In India, r'ships are more often compromise.
Gopala Chintakindi
Yes days have changed and people especially more gals in matter of love have become practical. Before caring and respect they want security and happiness that riches bring., looks, ghadi, bla bla bla.. but i donot believe every gal is like that but many are like that now a days
Sach Ka Samna
Love with loyality is most important catalyst in life. Today people dont have patience and girls particularly run after glamour and money. Same is true for boys too. Sex and lust is temporary but love is all about caring and being happy in beloved's company. Its simple, if you are loved by good person you are happy, that makes you confident and successful. If there is no love, despite hanging to rich man, man will eventually cheat, cos there is no love. Love is most important thing in a relationship. Money comes and goes, but if soul of your life is love, any amount of money can be earned.
Girish Ingale that might not be true every time.... but yes it is true every time with girls ! girls prefer sleeping (having sex ) with guys with money only because they get gifts , a financier for their expenses , which otherwise are not affordable by their middle-class fathers ... ! what do u say about this miss narang
Priya Narang if girls run after money then guys run after sex.. so i guess its fair enough!!!! Mr sach ka samana atleast mean wat your name suggests
Debashish Acharya
I believ everyone here is money minded, but there are soem people including me who seek only love. I am waiting for some one who will love forever no matter what happens
Girish Ingale united we stand , divided we fall ! wwe are sailors of the same ship !
Gopala Chintakindi Not only you my friend even me also and like us many boys are looking for..but as Aman said our search will go on or atleast we need to end it on compromise..hehehehehe
Aman Aggarwal Heheh then my dear friend your search will never end..ALL THE BEST!!!!
Kainat Mirza
Exactly, if money is flowing freely then you are happy and in love but once you don have it you get frusterated and it shows in your relationship as well.
Harpreet Singh
There is nothing wrong in giving credit more important in a relationship after all its a bitter afct of our lives taht money is the most important part or has become a necessity of our life. Nothing comes free so does love
Gopala Chintakindi Harpreet I like what you said . Samuel I also like what you said like Money is important..and I didnot agree with you when you said love vanishes in relationship...love is not just acting like koochi..koo..it is more then it...sharing responsibilities..let them know that you are there for them to support them emotionally, mentally, physically...for me when love vanishes then there is no point of relationship and even you cannot say and cheat your heart saying that you are in relationship with that gal or boy..if you are it will be good and fair if you just leave them instead of using them for money..atleast then we will be called humans not devils..
Samuel Longo yes, Big deal i say openly that i give importance to credit first than love in a relationship coz after a certain period love vanishes in a relationship . You cannot be always acting koochi-koo like some love birds. with rsponsibilities coming your way you realize money plays a vital role.
Nandita Sharma
No you are aprtially right taht yes nowadays people give more importance to love but there are many people who believe in true love, hope for true love and give true love. Not everyone is amd for money.
Aman Aggarwal
You are absloutely right gal, all now taht everyone is asking for , praying for, hoping for is MONEY..
