How to spot a loser
Avoid investing your emotions and energies in time wasters by learning the tell tale signs to watch out for.
1. They badmouth their ex
Do you really want to spend time building a relationship with someone who isn’t able to forgive, move-on or let go and might end up trash talking you some day?
2. Nothing’s ever their faultIt’s just the losers who play the blame game preferring to be the victim rather than attempting to do anything to help themselves. Time to make your excuses and leave before they drag you down with them.
3. They can’t hold down a job
If it seems as though the person you’re dating is in a constant pattern of being hired and fired, alarm bells should start ringing.
4. They get their kicks by making fun of others
If their jokes are always at the expense of others and border on cruel, you’d better beware. Making fun of others in order to impress is a cheap trick and is actually a sign of low self-esteem.
5. They rely heavily on alcohol or drugs
You need to ask yourself why it is that they feel they need extra stimulants and what is says about their mental state. it’s not a solid foundation for a long-term loving relationship.
6. They’re on bad terms with their family and friends
If the other relationships in their life have all turned sour, you’ve got to wonder why. How someone treats their parents, siblings and friends is a very good gauge of personality.. So, if it seems their life is awash with broken friendships, betrayals and difficult relationships, you should see it as a very clear red flag..

Cool.! Thank God I don't resemble to any of those characteristics.But many girls are stupid.They are not aware of this.

I dont think anyone would like to be in any sort of relationship once you identify the first 4 signs. But the problem is getting to know them early enough otherwise it would definitely result in heartbreak.

very well said points Teena. I would like to add one more to the List . They are never ready to accept theitr fault . I beleive that we all can be at fault at some point or the other in our lives but what can make us a loser is our inability to accept our fault in any situation . If one never ever agrees to his/her fault tat is also a very big sign of a Loser

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