My bf of 2 years has started showing a lot of interest in my sister. In fact he even calls her to speak with her and insists I bring her along when we meet.
Sometimes I feel even my sister enjoys this attention from him.
But I cannot take it anymore. Who should I confront, my sister or BF?

Be open and broad minded person.

Confront no one. Sister is your own blood , talk out your apprehensions to both about pros & cons of it of its realty.

U shud stop feeling insecure & acting selfish.. if ur BF is taking interest in ur sister, then both u girls shud share him equally.. dnt put him under pressure.infact both u girls shud perform oral sex on him at the same time..kepp the fellow happy yaar. his life is f**kd anyways once hes married !

Hi Neha, leave your BF and make ur sis understand the all delima...u have to care for her more then a cheated man...

Neha plz finish your all relation with your BF because he is not able for any relationship.His thinking not wide so plz try to understand situation.His counshes only due to product of use&throgh.

if u dont mind ,i can take care of u r sister

u should speak to your sister at the first place she should stop entertaining ur BF

u should speak to your sister at the first place she should stop entertaining ur BF

It sounds like he's been taking my advice...ahaha hahahaha hahaha...sorry that was really mean...k...the only person you should confront is yourself...and ask yourself why you tolerate a guy that'd rather bone your sis! Are you that ugly that you don't think you deserve monogamy and security in a realtionship?

Leave your BF right now he is just playing with you Both! Better watch Aap ki Khatir lolxx

Not all happenings in life are confrontable.

Just forget both of them, and remember:

"IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING, SET IT FREE, IT COMES BACK ITS YOURS IF IT DOESN'T, IT NEVER WAS".

Talk it out with him and her.. It might sound difficult and uncomfortable but you have to do it if you want to know the truth!

its very bad dear

Problem we men are we are adventurist & opertunist

you are lucky you have found this out about your Bf in time.

He is a two timer, dump him. The only thing that you will get from this relation is pain.If you still hold this relation you will regret it all your life.

Your sister is quite insensitive and very selfish. The idea of her enjoying the attention makes me sick.

Introspect the relation you would like to have with your sister in future. Some people enjoy screwing up others relations.

Live for yourself first, every man for himself and God for all.

Why does he want to meet your sister if he is with you for 2 years? Is he the kind of guy who thinks, 'saali.. aadhi gharwali'?? He's being a jerk. Kick his ass.

Well, according to me you should confront neither of them. If he is interested and she is responding, then really you are in a no-win situation and by confronting them you are not going to fix the problem. It is not as if they will admit and apologize and everything will be hunky-dory again. On the other hand, if its just innocent and neither of them has any bad intentions, then by making a huge deal out of it, you will be spoiling your own image unnecessarily. The next time he asks you to bring your sister along, tell him calmly that you cannot do it as you do not want your dates to turn into baby-sitting events and your sister is capable of taking care of her own social life. Ask him if its a problem if you do not bring her to any of your dates anymore. If he starts making a fuss, then drop him like a hot potato. On the other hand, if he just shrugs and leaves it at that, then perhaps you may need to rethink your suspicions. Similarly, try to tell him that you are not comfortable with the idea of him calling her all the time. However, be aware that they might decide to do this behind your back anyway. So, end of day, you need to examine how strong your gut feelings are and go by them. If you feel its bad, then tell both of them and break up. Keep your dignity intact. In such situations, there is absolutely no point in screaming and accusing them, noone is going to get your point.

Stupid, talk to your sister first as when it comes lust women do not care the family and siblings....so talk to her first and understand what is in her mind. Talk then to him and understand what is in his mind.

See if both are meeting secretly as well with out knowing you.



After that take a decision which you feel fair to everyone.



If you try to control both of them you will seem to be despo and both of them could dump you and openly continue to have affair in front of you.



So first understand the ground reality and act accordingly.

Dont be emotional here.

Your second paragraph tells it all "Sometimes I feel even my sister enjoys this attention from him". Take off the blinkers and look at the reality. You are in a no win situation. Drop that cheat of two years like a hot potato.

You will take your mother with you also if your boyfriend insist on it I guess. Dumbo.

Talk to the one who u think would listen u faster !

You should confront your bf not your sister. She is not the one who is insisting going with you nor she is calling your bf. Your bf is a 'two timer'. You should confront him and if he doesn't stop this nonsense then drop him. Even after two years of friendship he is cheating on you then how will you trust him in future? He will definitely do it over and again. He is like a dog who likes to put his nose in everything be it food or filth.

Hey Neha as far as in my knowledge he just admire your sister......Dont get upset .....talk to him as to wats der in his mind. Wat I would suggest is that be faith full towards him n try out somethin so that he gives attention to you only.

Neha U Just take out this from ur mind.Don't be in wrong intension ok be cool

Leave your sister alone Neha. I am with you.

the bf will leave you for your sister

the BF is only something wrong. How he can do this

You have a very weird sister

You should just tell your sister to back off from your boyfriend.