What if you meet someone online , and we went out a lot and liked each other and come to find out I was cute but not pretty enough for him, then he tells me he's breaking up with me because I don't have a car or a house , and everytime a woman dumps him, he comes running back to me.. I can't handle the roller coaster of emotions but yet I know how I feel for him ....I

Hi Leessa, any progress in ur life..what decision u took..

Hi Leessa,



I am priety much sure that you must dump him. Move on. You will get your perfect partner..Be in good spirits and you will find the one whom god choose for you. I am saying that you must dump him because of what you said.. you liked him..i feel you started loving him ( maybe I am wrong )..but you see from the things you said he is not true lover/friend...since if he truly loves/respect you he must not see those things ( not having car or house)..he must see how lovely you are and must care for your feelings...he must emotionally support you and he is seeing in materialistic pleasures from u.....when he says you dont have car or house he wants to depend on you..infact he must be the one who must provide you those..i strongly feel he can never and ever support or protect you truly. He is selfish..so you must be also little bit..in this matter..tell him that you got fed up with him and you need to move on since its your life..you gave him chance...you are true....he is not the only one in ur life..u will get ur perfect choosen one..

It is not a question ! To be decided ,allow him to enjoy his lifeand if you want to be a part of his spree, be and enjoy the life.Everytime ! Howmany times! At all if it is questionable then , it is an issue to be given thought and decided.

Firstly Leesa, meeting someone on line and going out with him is a dangerous proposition. You seem to be a silly girl just calling for trouble. If this guy who dumps you because you have no car or house is after your riches and is a good for nothing fellow who will never work to support his wife. If he keeps coming back just give him a kick.and tell him that you don't wish to ever see him again. A woman must always uphold her dignity when confronting a man or he will take you to be someone that is loose and cheap. Move on Leesa.

If he is coming back to you every time he is dumped by someone else it means : -

a. He's using you as an emotional backup

b. Hes taking you for granted

c. Like it or not young lady, but he's using you

Whats the point of being with someone when he cant value you, or who comes back to you only because he is jilted by another ? Don't you feel 'used' ... ? Please .. spare yourself the trauma, and look beyond him.

Dear........



Not everyman is a cheater...............or not every woman is a cheater...........It is a continuous process to learn loving either friends, relatives or enemies. Though it hurts often........we love something from that..........Its better not think about it and try for a new relation.

He is not worth your feelings. If a guy run away from you because you don't have money and come back when other woman loath him, you are just an option for him and that guy don't have any respect for you too. But if you have any self respect then just kick him out of your life.

Dear Leesa relationship develops with faith not with car / house / money etc. You are waiting for what ur friend is finding money maker not a soulmate. I feel it's not hard to forgive him since u find him. So forget him & continue ur joyable life>>>>>>>>

Relationship cannot be succeed based on money. it should be based on the faith, loyalness & dedication. so all things are in front of you..n now u have to decide what do to do whether to live with a person believing more on money then u or the person to whom u like.......be practical in life.

I know its hard for you to break away from him. Every thing takes time and don't be deppressed.

Dear Leessa, It is really painful to read two words 'EVERY TIME' a woman dumps him, he comes running back to me... and slightly less painful another two words are 'CAR AND HOUSE'. WHAT A DISGRACEFUL MAN HE MUST BE AND HOW COME YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HE THINKS OF YOU? PLZ COME OUT OF THE 'MILLS AND BOON' SYNDROME. EARLIEST THE BETTER.

rather than taking a decision all of a sudden...talk with him and get the damn situation sorted out... life is very precious sweety , dont waste it behind guys , prove to the world that you have something in you...which is a lifetime achievment

First of all that guy don't love you. Second the most important & valuable thing for him is MONEY. You have to stay away from him. Just try to control your feelings for him. "Everytime a woman dumps him, he comes running back to me". You are like an alternative for him. He knows that he is your weekness.