Friends, I am 23 and my 8 months old boy friend is asking for kiss and other masti and i have been telling him ,'NO PHYSICAL" and he says, ONLY SEX IS CALLED PHYSICAL and other masti like kissing , hugging is not called PHYSICAL, Please advice

OMG.. u a kid or sumthn..i say lose ur clothes the very next time u meet him & bone each other already..which world r u stuck in ..@ 23 u shud be doing it all styles wenever u get the itch for it... come on girl

which depend on u

This relates to personal preferences. It is up to you to decide your boundaries/ limits, etc. Hugging I personally feel is harmless. I feel you are the best judge.

Nobody knows when somebody will cheat you.When anybody cheats us then we feel sorry/mistakes.So try to avoid don't increase her passion to your limits because intitally we think/belive we can control the things and when the things beyond the limits/we can't say NO to him then we come in trouble. Friendship is good as did with our neighbours/other relatives but we never cross our boundries since we know our status,social relation and any things.

kiss, hug, pressing all the parts of sex, if u control not go over it than u can enjoy if u want

KISS IS IGNITION POINT OF SEX, IF IT IS DONE REST HAPPENS AUTOMETICALLY

WTF? I think you are too young to be even on the internet, much less the relationships page on itimes...having said that, you can do whatever you want with your body and your relationship. Not sure why you think that you must do what your bf says...unless you are a slave...and if he is pressuring you too much, dump him!

It depends on how both are doing

Its time you should get married.

If you start hugging and kissing, it will surely end up in sex. You are 23 and you should know what is good and bad. Ther will be no problem in getting physical if he is going to marry you. Otherwise, get physical only if you believe there is nothing wrong in pre marital sex.

you should go ahead and kiss him ... free of all inhibition... I'd go so much to say ... you should have sex with him also if he asks. In fact, when you two are all by yourself ...just take off all your clothes, surprise him as they show in the movis, and show him a good time.... then come back and tell us all about it here

Mr. Ved Prakash, where I wrote "physical relation is better before marriage" Read carefully and than think about the complete pargraph. Only than do comment.

it's ur choice 2 b physical or not !!but... hugging n kissing is normal now!! according to me..u r in relationship v monthss..toh ek kiss..toh banta hai bosss:):)

well his expectations are not wrong to be physically close to you but if that was something you 2 agreed when u started the relationship and you are not comfortable with it you can tell him that. its YOUR choice to make but physical aspect is important in a relationship and if anyone of u is uncomfortable you have to take extra care and explain it to ur partner tht u r not ready without hurting your partner.

What do you understand by the word "PHYSICAL" I think you do not know. Physical means - presance of anything. (The thing who has shape, size and weight, is called Physical Thing) Do you know to catch the wriest of anyone, first fingure is caught, not directly hand? First Fingure is in hand and slowly as well as easily can go to wriest and full hand. Did you got my point? I think in your case "no". He will start kissing, than hugging and during this practice, some day you will be so much sexsully exciting that you will force him to have sex with you. (during excitment you will never know, what is going on, but after finish, you will wake up and may feel wreck yourself). So before handover yourself to him, ask him about future course of plan, wheather he will marry or leave you after PHYSICAL relationship? if said yes, than ask him to arrange a meeting with his family at his residance only, not outside (in case of outside location dummy parents may meet you). Everything will be clear and you will be the better judge at that time, whether to handover yourself (your body part to which he like most) to him for play or not. Else enjoy together.

if you like him...and confidant about him....for marriage and sure abt it..accept...if u dont want to marry him...wanna enjoy than go ahead...if u r so specific one guy and one girl...than reject..

exactly you did take right way . 8 month is not enough for friend ship understanding

u do wtever u feel from ur heart,if u feel that ur BF is using u then warn him of leaving him if he continues to ask u for those masti

woh sahi hai

it is your parsnal matter but simply kissing is physical relestion

We simple say when you get into these kind of think. and if you feel like asking this problem over world world site. Do u want a certificate from people saying its good or bad. if we say you can go ahead and have physical relation with your boy friend Do u gonna do that. The bottom line is this if you you feel it wrong just step back before you go astray . other wise he will make you Convince for anything.. when i say anything mean anything

when they are in love since 8 months. why and what they are doing. prayer or worship to one another. i know they are not so honest. they have performed every acts of love. so let them enjoy.

when you are with him or her. that means you love each others. i agree when you are both young and living so if you have no physical demands so it reflects that either one may be impotent. it is a fire you can not suppress more. a time will come when you will be out of control so it is advisable that make a mutual understanding and enjoy safely.

no means no,,,,, if u have value of ur physical contact then , no,, if u have no value then yes,,, it is as simple as any thing else,,

no means no,,,,, if u have value of ur physical contact then , no,, if u have no value then yes,,, it is as simple as any thing else,,

How much damage can a 8 month old do ??

He is a BIG DESPO and wants to convince you with all the lame 'technicalities'. When the intimacy is not mutual, its perverted. Once he gets what he wants, he will leave you.

He is a BIG DESPO and wants to convince you with all the lame 'technicalities'. When the intimacy is not mutual, its perverted. Once he gets what he wants, he will leave you.

You must have heard the story "THE ARAB AND HIS CAMEL"? You are in perfect senses. Pl don't bother about 'modern attitudes' they are simply excuses for their loose characters/human weaknesses(which are disastrous in most of the cases)

In mordern age friend live togather without marriage for years and they do have safe sex. It is your personal decision how far you want to go with your friend.