i follow this only...jst wanted to knw..whether girl luk for option or not??

just finish him, find out another one... go ahead,,.... do not look back, passed is passed...yeah, at first i feel very bad,... but i know tomorrow will be another day!

if u r in love with smone ... by heart....to an extent that u hav stopped looking for options...but ur partner didn't....wat vud u feel ven he decides to end up with u for someone new jing???

Good said Vikram.. I like your views

I donot want to drag and make myself fool ..i am out of here

well....i guess i jst wrote my views....'over emphasizing' is certainly done by someone else here...who is using dis word repeatedly....keel pe jitna hathoda maroge...wo utni gehri jayegi......I guess discussion board shud be discussion board rather a platform to argue on views ...... every people hav there own personal approach towards life n all other things.....

whatever it is personal choices...thank god i never try to dominate one and start feeling hate for one section and sympathy and over emphasize other section...hehehehehehe

point taken gopala....it is a mere different people different approach scenario....I do take side for gals...coz guys do try to dominate gals....Lets end it here.....

Naveen.. thanks for frankness and I welcome it....I am also want to get out of this never ending discussion..before that want to make last arguments..if you see my below discussion..the first reply I said" gals and boys both do".. and I donot know clearly and simply more than I can put..Second, I was talking about you OVER EMPHASIZING WOMEN..that what bothered me.. your first post below I quote you.. ".boys r actually weaker compared to gals internally. if they fall for a girl n she ditch him..it is rather quite ..difficult for him 2 forget her n wat and why she did so? there r evidence...u must hav seen guys cursing gals if they ditch him...dey r actually trying to show dat dey r not affected...m not saying gals don't get affected...bt i believe and seen dat girls r damn superior ven it comes to cope up with the situation constructively".....and in rest of other posts you just overly say that men are weak... that really does harm to some self respect..LAST AND ALSO LEAST...".it is never one sided..."..below post you said that..but in all other post you over emphasize one section of people..which is bad to all and society..society must be balanced and everyone has their roles...

My belief are simple..women and men both are equal..success and failure depends on individual cases and everyone is unique...we cannot generalize and say that one section of people are more stronger then other section.. thats what I was trying to tell..i am just out of here completely..

Sorry for sounding so harsh....

Gopala..u seriously making me feel like m myself very complicated....sorry but seems my post are very confusing for u....agree i started this discussion that "Do girls look for options?"....u know y i started....coz I m not a girl and i can't understand girls psychology. I just wanted to know..whether like boys (i hope u agree with the point that boys too look for option)....do girls too have the same approach...it was just a curious discussion. It is not like if i have posted such a discussion here , this means I am anti-girls. I accept a girl mind as much as i accept a guys one......and kindly before reading my posting , re-read the post below it..for which i hav replied.....and friend I totally codemn the thought that u mentioned here which reads "MAN makes a WOMAN MOTHER..not WOMAN MAKES WOMAN MOTHER...MAN makes WOMAN greater..".......If a MAN makes a WOMEN MOTHER...then a WOMEN makes a MAN FATHER too.....it is never one sided.....don't want to discuss further.....and I m out of this discussion board.

nice reply Girish

@Naveen... I liked your reply and want to put few things in front of you...in this world everything has it owns place and its significance.. thats why God created them..and same to man and woman..we must not OVERESTIMATE WOMAN..

First of all you ask whether gals have options.. for which supriya gave great answer by gal.. for that you OVER EMPHASIZE women..for which I just put few points..sticking to same point that is LOVE and MARRIAGE.. for which again you argue back with some other different points MOTHER SISTERS and again you make women superior with pregnancy...buddy just stick to one point.

Mothers are important and I accept it and she is above all..even god. but I am not with you when you just say WOMEN are superior and gave mother example..you know one thing MAN makes a WOMAN MOTHER..not WOMAN MAKES WOMAN MOTHER...MAN makes WOMAN greater..

The need of this hour in entire world that I feel will give some hope for women who faces alot of problem is ...men must realize women are equal..women must also realise men are also special and important..OVER ESTIMATING women will not do good for them

Finally, I cannot understand what do you mean by this buddy.." imagine urself doin household work....u vud prefer dying rather (don't take it literally) ... 4gt this .... in most of the household relations between the male member r never very sweet...but they still go together ...y...?".. how can you say in most of house hold males relations are never sweet... me preferring dying rather than doing household..no not at all, in fact my family had mom, dad and 3 male kids and I was last one..you know when my mom was sick..i did from cooking to clean bathrooms.. my life taught me one thing ..my family and my friends familes where there are no daughters.. the bond between male kids and dad and mom is more.. we males just come together when our mom is sick or on one surprise weekend w treat her like princess and we do all work..

@Girish....thanx for such a nice compliment....and buddy...i do write...i hav a passion for writing..altho never treated it seriously. Lately like u, few other people has complimented me for the same....i guess i vud start improving my skills now...:).thanks

@Naveen i agree with your bottom post ! i surely do ...
about your below post... i will say only this thing "we cannot clap with one hand" this is a yin-yang theory here ... positive and negative... east and west... north and south ... good and bad... just like the way, all men are dogs ( for women ) all women are bitches ! ( for men ) ... this can have a counter side as well buddy ...

however , i must say , you express your views very well ! you ought to be a writer ! ( with a few improvements though ) !

@Gopala: imagine ur life with full of success but no companion (gal)? I didn't mean gals r superior. i meant in some ways and aspects gals r stronger.....Let me clear my thinking...I believe....girls and boys complete each other .... in some cases we are gud and in some they are gud .... imagine urself doin household work....u vud prefer dying rather (don't take it literally) ... 4gt this .... in most of the household relations between the male member r never very sweet...but they still go together ...y...? ever thought...it is the females (mothers, sisters etc) who fill the gap, create a bridge.....there is no one superior.....we both need each other....And friend i want share one thing....I need only one reason to mark women superior if i kud...n that reason is "keeping a child for 9 months in her womb....then raising him/her (surely with the mutual help of her spouse), and one fine day either that son/daughter destroy or fulfill her expectations". In between many other things can happen (m considering the negative) like..if her husband's family or her own husband does not treat her well etc...there r many 'kud be' factors for a girl....coz they leave there home n join a new home not boys. I will always consider a women superior Gopala...and please don't take it as sm kind of attack..it is a mere personal thought of mine.i hav seen wat a boy go thru bt at the same time i have also seen what a girl go thru if smthing bad happens.

@Naveen.. i just want to put few things in front of on the points what you said to Supriya's reply...it is not at all personal attack..just discussion

Being a boy I say guys are more stronger then gals.. guys can lose their love when a gal ditches him.. but only few will die or do some psychotic thing or become DEVDAS..but many guys will move on make a family..be responsible and face challenges and even though they lose in LOVE they win in LIFE battle...i am pretty much sure and 100% confident that many gals can never do that..

It is quite natural that yes it is difficult to forget and cure gals and you point all this and say gals are superior.. what i see that THE GAL IS MADE SPECIAL WHEN GUY LOVES HER.. just imagine if no guy loves any gal there will no specialty of gals..just think this..if a guy succeeds in his life and career believe me the gals family will come running to him and get married to her.. so i donot accept that gals are superior to guys.. please donot generalize such things being a guy..

yes when a gal ditches a guy..the guy is affected.. it is not bad part of guy or superiority of gal.. it is as simple.. it is that guys care more for gals and love more than gals do..

Here i am not saying all guys are weaker and all gals are superior.. it is just everyone and every individual is unique.. they succeed.. failure.. bewafai.. yeah wafai.. everything depends on individual.. not on a particular race or color.. we must not generalize things to entire section..

I like supriya frank answer and agree with it.. gals and boys both do..

supriya don't mind me using "u" instead of 3rd person.....i usually talk wid respect to 1st n 2nd person....:)

i agree guys do luk for options...but supriya...being a guy i can say...boys r actually weaker compared to gals internally. if they fall for a girl n she ditch him..it is rather quite difficult for him 2 forget her n wat and why she did so? there r evidence...u must hav seen guys cursing gals if they ditch him...dey r actually trying to show dat dey r not affected...m not saying gals don't get affected...bt i believe and seen dat girls r damn superior ven it comes to cope up with the situation constructively. U can break ur commitment with a stupid reason like u "now" are attracted to someone else..... it is so ridiculous! first u r hurting dat guy...2nd u r making him believe that he far less competent compared to smone else .... if this was always in ur mind dat u might luk for a better option later...then u shud not commit to him....y let him expect....

RIGHT

dosti mein no sorry no thank you , right ?

no sorry yar.....i hope u speak smthing....m waiting to read ur vision

i bro , i guess i didn't notice the aspect ... sorry

as i wrote..i face it n thus put it on discussion board girish...

Supriya, Options like they are happy with current guy in her life but still look for some better one.