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Topic owner: Gopala Chintakindi:
The recent things that happened in my personal life made to ask myself one question DO WE RESPECT OUR FRIENDSHIP.
How do you show respect towards your friend..
is SAYING I RESPECT you is same as SHOWING respect.. so tell me all people how you show your respect.. lets make it good discussion..no personal attacks please..just personal discussion..
Sunita H
There is quote that says "A good friend is the one who bails you out when you are jailed and a best friend is the one who is sitting next to you in the cell and says - Dude it was a great adventure". The moral is we can show respect by always being with them in good or bad time and still enjoy each others company.
Gopala Chintakindi
Sunita..it been a long time hearing from you. I liked what you said welcome it and respect it. I also believe in what ever you said. But what I meant and started this discussion is for..you see there is difference between SHOWING and SAYING. we and most of us always and we do SAYING. I want to know what people will do or needs to do to SHOW that respect.. just as a intellect discussion not a court arguements...
Ravi Sharma
My elder brother confirmed that your wife is your best friend and may be worst enemy.As we take care of our spouce as a friend,we should accept all the good and bad things of our friend and respect accordingly.But try to get him/her appraise of their demerits respectfully, without hurting his/her sentiments.
Gopala Chintakindi
@Ravi..thanks for your comments.. i welcome it..
Suresh Nair
a friend in need is a friend indeed that's how we respect our friendship and more over friendship is what it's a single soul living in two bodies.i hope you have understood the things.
Gopala Chintakindi
Nair.. i understand what you said and words i hear and come across many times.. but u see there is a difference between saying and doing..i mean how you show that you are indeed for your friend...how you show that makes him feel respected.. to you talk with him/her when ever you need help.. donot talk when you donot need them.. keep them waiting..those things.. in real life..real things that you DO not SAY..I want to know how and what people DO in real life to FRIENDS..not just SAY..
Naveen Verma
Gosh wat in the world is goin on here....everybody, smhow, seems angry. Guys..relax. Ven something really hurtful happen to individual....he seeks answer. First he expect the answer from those who did it...but they don't bother to reply...wats wrong in putting the situation in forums. Gopala...ven i had 'that' bad experience i too felt the same...... ven my friendship lacked respect. But we can't do anything....the toughest job in this world is changing smbody's mindset. they decided to cut off....den let them...u played ur part honestly and this is wat that really matters. N i want to say ven dat thing happened to me....i realized who my real friends are......they stood by me...always...helped me..kept me happy...n thus my respect for them n our frnship comes out genuinely. I never say i respect them...this is smthing that is visible in our daily talks...ven one they need smthing...they jst call me up n order ask me...they never request me for help...they directly ask me...this way they respect me....similarly i ask them for help ven ever i need smthing...its the belief, trust that v hav developed in years to reach at this comfort position...Concluding my views i kud only say...we might meet 1000 of people but only few becomes our friends. I hope u understand wat i mean to say...
Gopala Chintakindi
Naveen...thanks for nice reply.. i guess you understood my intention of this post and instead of discussion all rubbish you just answered point to point.. yes I agree with wat ever you said and i also have and face those in my life.. it is just i want to put infront of all so that we can have discussion to know whether when we say someone as friend..do you just take him for granted and feel that he/she will be waiting and u will talk or reply when ever you wanted.. thanks for your open comments.. i respect it and welcome it...
Girish Ingale
WHERE IS THE PREVIOUS POST ? VANISHED ALL OF A SUDDEN ! THATS WEIRED !
Girish Ingale
once a mistake always a mistake !
Gopala Chintakindi
@Supriya.. thanks for editing post and i really appreciate it...i welcome it and to be frank it didnot mind it.. as i said unless it is personal attack i welcome all posts and for me it was never personal attack and you were just making ur point.. and eating up space..this and that.. i guess only people who are bothered are ITIMES.. unless you post rubbish and nuisance i donot mind..i will be waiting for your views on discussion topic..
Gopala Chintakindi
I donot understand why this discussion is going out of control.. as i said if you have anything to say on post you can say..come on guys..leave abt what you saying..if you have anything to say on topic say it....
Supriya T Jagtap
ohhhh no wonder i had to expect this to happen Girish..
Anyways now no issues hopefully after returning the FAVOR...
Thanks Girish
Supriya
Girish Ingale
so now you get my point ... what actually happens when someone passes a personal comment on you ! ... YOUR FAVOR HAS BEEN RETURNED ! THANKS ...
Supriya T Jagtap
well i didnt remove my post girish out of guilt or shame.. plz excuse me and for your kind info Mr. Girish I need not be guilty or shameful for anything in this world..
Gopala I actually was gonna edit that post as I had told u but some people feel that the website space is being eaten up.. thats why i removed it.. yes little bit out of anger but not completely out of anger.. and m not angry on anyone anymore and now am out of this discussion ....
Ending this discussion here itself..
Thanks
Good bye
Supriya
Gopala Chintakindi
maybe out of anger and hate on the person who started this discussion
Girish Ingale
removed it out of guilt , i guess ! or shame !
Gopala Chintakindi
I guess the writer of the reply had removed it .. i guess
Girish Ingale
iTimes is becoming a unique and ultimate place for craps !
Gopala Chintakindi
thanks for your suggestions/now lets see what other feels abt this topic.. u didnot say what you feel abt topic and what is ur views
Girish Ingale
ya it was better previously too but the fact what you missed out was to keep your personal life discreet ! Don't get me wrong buddy .... but a forum is simply not the right place to ask indirect questions ... which atleast a guy like me cannot understand ! :-) its easy to read between the lines !
Gopala Chintakindi
Girish...i hope you are fine now.. but still i stick to same discussion post...
Girish Ingale
i am focusing on the personal grudges part ! scraps, emails , IM's and all that shit can be discussed somewhere else ! Or else ... you and your below acquaintance of yours could take the discussion somewhere else ! what say ? why bore the rest of the members with your personal attacks.... was it not you who has clearly commented members to take anything personally ? Then how come all of the forum can see you and the below member posting your personal grievance out here !
You are simply eating up the website space my friend !
Gopala Chintakindi
Everything and every issue is CRAP to many and serious and interesting to MANY. It depends on which side of coin you see buddy.....
