Boredom,depression and a miserable life with your spouse is better or choosing a partner of your choice in a temporary live in relationship.

I was going through boredom, depression and miserable life or I thought so. It was the figment of my mind to justify my carnal desires. I did create a world of happiness in my mind and thought other woman will provide me all the pleasures I was dreaming of. I must say that it was a greater hell I had ever imagined. I was blackmailed, financially ruined, beaten up and humiliated in the eyes not only of my wife and child but of my parents, siblings, relatives and friends. I dug that hole myself and fell in it. Nobody to be blamed for it but myself.

Seems like you are hell-bent on fulfilling your fantasy and will do ever which way to have an etra-merital affair. Here you are simply looking for reader's nod. Why asking? You are master of your desdtiny, make it or destroy.

if boredom depression and miserable life is due to ur spouse then one shud try changing ownself as per wht spouse needs or atleast talk with the other spouse and discuss it so tht spouse may change as per ur needs.. its a mutual understanding whch can remove boredom n depression.. n can avoid miserable life with ur spouse..



As per me .. chooosing a partner of ur choice in a temporary live in relationship is similar to the word temporary only.. once its gone again boredom n depressed life is on ur way.. so i personallly wud never suggest to go for temporary live in relation n such partner.. instead try to talk to ur spouse to make ur permanent relationship better n happier.. thats my way to solve problems if i had been in ttht situation...

Mr Ravi,,,,before saying broedom and all those things and make them valid reasons for an affair..i guess first u must ask how much role you played in it..how much effort you did to remove them and change your partner as what u wanted and how much u changed as ur partner wnated..i feel affair is never and ever justified even when u r married and un married.. if at all u donot get sexual satisfaction.. i guess it is more better to go to call gal ( respectable word for prostitution ) then have affair and u cheating ur partner and the gal with whom u r having cheating her partner..since affairs ruins many lives and sex via call gal ruins few and few is better then many..thats my feelings are

Dear ravi ji, When you go on tour, out of your city, you eat different type of food but when you come back to your home and eat hygenic and simple food then you feel relexed. This is basic difference of spouse/live in relationship.Also as a husband if you go for relationship out side, have broad mind to tolerate the same from your wife.Would you able to tolerate the fact that your wife is keeping relation out side?

ahh again the same topic to b discussed?? Ravi this topic is already discussed in some forum out here in this group if am not wrong, please check may be u wud get ur answer needed...



Thanks

Supriya