i wonder sometimes..does female fidelity to her boyfriend or husband gets her more respect and love from her partner or spouse..is it true that a man cant tolerate his wife or girl friend to cheat on him...though he can strayy..why???

If he's cheating, he has no moral right to object her affair.But I believe that one should take the moral high ground and divorce their partner instead of trying to get even.

Miss Teena, It is very much true that men cheat more bt it is also the truth that women r not less than men. If a man cheats, it wud be for just sex, pleasure and fun. If a woman cheats, it wud b to kill her loneliness, a search for a kind shoulder and chivalry. Although there r exceptions, recently we've found they do for physical relations as well bt i dont believe it so much coz my understanding has been dat women r less interested in sex than in having just fun.

Forgive me if it hurts ur sentiments. Bye. Have fun.

MALE HAS TO TAKE THE LEAD SO HE WILL ALWAYS BE ON THE GUN POINT, FRIENDS WHEN UR AT GUN POINT THAN ONLY ONE THING WORKS, BE COOL AND STUDY, THAN GO AHEAD, IF U WILL INDULGE IN DEBATE, U LL MISSMANAGE URSELF, NO DOUBT WE RESPECT, CARE AND MAINTAINS THE DIGNITY OF FEMALES,,,,BUT FEMALES HAS TO UNERSTAND IT FIRST

If you are married, ask your husband.. If he can tolerate his wife having relationship with others, you can stray.

I wonder every man never cares whether his wife is working or not. He readily accepts her if she is working. He accepts her if she is a house wife.

But can anybody give me a example of any working wife accepting a nonworking husband.

Why?

Isn't it female chauvinism, or he doesn't come at par with their so called social status.

Whenever there is any fight, all men send their wife inside and confront the danger themselves, then no wife praises her husband, isn't it female chauvinism, and when it comes to criticism all men are the worst.

Why this injustice?

Are men only beast of burden. Face criticism and still go on bearing that weight.

We have women on our highest posts like president, Loksabha speaker. In every age and every time i can give you names of hundreds of women on high posts, be it ancient India, medieval times or pro independence, post independence or modern India. All channel programs in India are women centric, modelling agency is women centric, BPO in women centric, education Industry in women centric, just see the figures and facts, still women say that it is male chauvinistic society. We have thousands of examples when man fought for women, but can you tell me a single case in which a female argued for men' cause.

I don't oppose women or men. I believe in their equality but now the time has come when we should come out of our sleep and open our eyes for human being' welfare not man or woman.

Otherwise this debate would go for next 2000 years and nothing will change. Come out of personal envy, hatred and ego. Just give your voice to everybody's freedom. Your husband's freedom, your brother's freedom, your sister's freedom equally.

Even our laws require it. Wives expect their husbands to be loyal to them. So if husbands require the same, it shouldn't be an issue to debate.

However it's true that in our society women is expected to have more responsibility than male on this issue. The reason behind it is that, she is the first teacher of her child, the children learn their first lesson from her. It is her thinking that drives the future of a family. She holds the most important place in a family. It's true that a man can never boast to have a family, when a girl enters in it only then it is called family.

If you don't believe it, just go in any restaurant, mall, temple or any place all over India and see if any boy or even an aged person can be allowed alone in family section.

A lot has changed now. Now Indian women know their right. Women organizations have reached even the most interior places of Assam and Nagaland, every one fighting for women emancipation, this fight has been continuous since last 200 years without any break (From ancient time there are hundreds of examples of such women emancipation fights. The link broke only during some Muslim rulers.)
Today in modern metro cities most of the girls have strayed at least once and men know that, still they forgive them. However this is a bad practice, both should try to be faithful instead of complaining.

Indian society seems to be male dominating one...

Yes Tina G you r correct if a men caught with a women it doesn't matter but is a women caught in act..she cant..that male chauvinism

Teena,days are not far away relations will be fevicol joint.Now people are following western culture which is mattering for decline of relations.As we know in western word partners are changing like clothes.Hence avoid western culture.Be an Indian.

Still at core heart every man wud love her wife to be loyal to him..it really matters to man..

that is how society is currently..but in the future it could just be the opposite...gays were harassed 20 yrs ago ..but now it is ok..live-in relationships which were not ok 20 yrs ago are now allright...so as society evolves things will change...20 yrs ago women were not working but now quite a lot of them work...

Your Point is very critical.Actual both of the relation depends on trust.if lady partner say truly give informtion about her relation before her marriage.If male partner truly accepted than no problem at all.But we are living on such type culture this thing not allowed.So decision taken by both partner living with each other after this relation issue.

i think both married man and married women can cheat on their spouse...the only thing is the risk is higher for married woman than married man if caught...