I need advice for a close of my friend who is married for last 5 years. Her husband has got some serious problem because whenever they fight or have an argument, to take revenge and out of his anger, he forces her into having sex with his other friends. She is very disturbed. She doesn't know what to do about this. Should she file a police complaint or take divorce from her husband? Pls friends, suggest something.

This is unheard of - could be fake - made up story, or something very 'fishy'!!

This won't happen even in Somalia! or Pakistan!!

This is completely illegal and complain to the Police

file a police complaint and joote baja sale ko

Firstly..there is no real friend. the "friend" u hav mentioned here is actually YOU..we both knw dat..so no need to be surprised. & secondly. ur husband is a psycho..get a divorce ASAP..u shud never be forced into doing anything tht u dnt approve of..especially sex..so muster up the courage girl & slap him in d face with ur divorce papers. if he threatens u then lodge a complaint wid ur local police stn..tke cre Damini

Get a divorce as early as possible..this relationship already dead and no use to save it any more...what she would do if tomorrow her husband kills her by blaming she is cuckold in public...

Ask your friend to get divorced at earliest There are many good people still left in the world and she will surly get some one earliest.if she is good in nature and kind hearten as well care taking lady

complain to the police

complain to the police

This is a cooked up story by Damnini. 5 years??? she doesn't know wht to do????? Readers, better to wind up this discussion without further comments. This is peppy spicy topic cooked up to get readability. By TOI staff??

This guy should be jailed - he is a pimp, definitely not a husband! Please tell a few friends - they will teach him a lesson - if you are scared to go to Police and jail him! Do not sit back and do nothing - it is a crime, and can't be ignored! deal with him ASAP.

Well counselling is the best option.

if it not work then I guess a police complaint on harrasment should be done along with filing divorce.

Well counselling is the best option. I guess a police complaint on harrasment should also not be ruled out.

Everyone is more inclined towards what was happenning after the "fight or argument".

@Author, First of all ask your friend - why they are having such disputes that lead to fights/arguments. Provide medicine to the root cause and for sure i believe there will not be any issues around.



hubby behaving that way is definitely against LAW. It can lead to mental trauma on both sides, if police/courts involve in family disputes.

many people advised to file complaint and divorce him, which i feel that the respect of both sides are left to air.

Having said that, I suggest your friend to record the dispute/arguments and his mis behavior.

For sure, you will be surprised that she doesn't get back to you with such proofs, without which filing cases and getting divorce can't be achieved.

If she could really get the evidence or proofs, she can go ahead with whatever she feels correct. Because she is the own judge of her own future.

His is a pimp, not a husband! He must be reported, or else let the neighbors and friends know, they will teach him a lesson! Such men will not last long. I know a man who did like this to his sister, (but never to his wife), and he wanted to make money out of her!! he did not last long - there is a God who will defend the innocent, if the law does not catch up with them, and if society does not deal with them! Ignoring such a matter and compliance is deemed condoning, approving and helping him to do it - if those who know of it do not deal with him.

There can not be another thought except coming out of such relationship. The second is she should come up her own.

Before taking any action she should try to know the real region why her husband forcing her to make sex with other person. And try to solve his problem. I think this is the best way to become out from problem.

Mem,Pl.divorce immediately to this useless husband.

ya........... Divorce is the best for her

Its is Old story,,,,, nothing extra masala !!!

when ur hubby sees u enjoyin g with his friend he never do this again

Better you consult to a good psychiatrist about the problem.

dear damini your problem seems to be very complicated i would suggest you that dont go to police it would effect your reputation you should give your husband as much pleasure as much he wants thats it is the only solution i sees

Change dirty husband. becuase, if you sleep with husband friends. than you loose your faith, digitanity etc. so, make up your mind take strong descion and don't fear. if you are right then no body harm to you. All the best!

This is fake! No real husband will ever do it! No man wants his wife to be even touched inappropriately by another man, he will kill the man who tries to have sex with his wife!- unless he is a pimp, and he is acting as agent, to make money for himself. No real husband will ever do it!! sorry, this is an unbelievable story!!

Is she nuts or wat? Get out of that house immediately.

talk to husband and solve it...

She Should file a police complaint & take divorce from her husband.

This is a complete fake story

are u planning to do so?

i am looking for a lady friend to chat

give advice her to enjoy it dear because her hubby provides her a lot of varity. dont be disturb enjoy it fully

damini what i feel yr freind should take divorse and get married to other good perosn instead of facing such a ridiculous problem.

Damini Dear,

This situation is very much out of control. your friend should take immediate action against her husband and file a divorce. Her husband is a ghost, how a man can do such a inhuman action before his eyes, he can be compared not even with any animal, Such a heinous act he is doing, how can he be excused for his doing. He does not know how to love his wife and keep fighting

This is very astonishing that she does not know what to do? Has she never discussed with her parents? This is incredible. Stll must contact Police.

This is very astonishing that she does not know what to do? Has she never discussed with her parents? This is incredible. Stll must contact Police.

This is very astonishing that she does not know what to do? Has she never discussed with her parents? This is incredible. Stll must contact Police.

Husband is telling and ur friend is going for sex with friends of hubby. this is totally fake story.

unbelievable story of a woman who's friend is using internet.

Fake case

First of all, get your friend out of that house to her parents or some place safe away from him..from what you describe, she is not in a position to take a rational decision. Then she should get some councilling/ medication for her to overcome this shock. As to the husband, once your friend is in a more balanced state, i have no doubt she will apply for a divorce at the earliest..and if your friend can prove that her husband has forced her into having sex with his friends, her husband and his friends will definetley go to jail for abetting/committing rape.

pahile tya baila vichara tila kay vatate tya nanter aaple opinion dya

Is she distrubed? or else..come on...she shd have complained immediately...den divorce...but i must say...she is pretending...

THIS IS FAKE STORY...

if she conface that she is enjoy with his friends a lot

he will stop to do this.

Discuss this with parents, report to police , file for divorce and claim alimony.

i am not doc but i can suggest her away

Marriage means a long relation. If she has faced such humiliation from 5 years now she must approach a

psychologist for a good counseling and same time she must contact the women's NGO group or social refrom group who can help these couple to make thier marriage work strong before it could break. If marriage is broken both will face a long term trauma which may be worst than what they facing now. God must give them a good understanding to real social need of life . Best of Luck .....

Boss,I dnt knw anythng like women council or court .Kill that bastard.Who dont know the value of a women.

Simple thing, file a complaint against him and get seperated legally.

I think, better to approach women's council first. They will take her through the right procedures to file police case. Moreover, she will have an edge with women's council officers at her side.



Or is she lying? can't believe

take him to pshychologist..

Dear Damini, I think that your friend should take him to a psychologist for a gud counseling. He needs a right counselor who can guide him for it.

This definitely is not acceptable to any human being, leave alone in a marriage! This must be reported and such a man (beast) does not qualify to be husband. Wonder if he makes money from his friend (by offering you for sex with him). This must be reported and police action taken immediately, and you leave him ASAP! lest worst things happen to you.

Yes! at the earliest. I wonder why is still waiting?

DO BOTH THINGS.

kill those bastards...

Without any delay, file a police complaint and also approach women's council of India for help. She should leave the house immediately and file for divorce and alimony. She should have done this on the first instant itself.

she must have take divorce and file a police complaint

why was she sleeping with his frnds ?? thats my question ..... how can she allow him to even think in that way ??? seems like she was enjoying 3some earlier but now few things are going wrong and thats why she is complaining

first of all let her take a decision to leave that mad man and she should take legal action against him.

Dear Madam, Going by your friend's account, he appears to be a maniac. I would advise her to take a divorce immediately. Going to the police may tarnish her image further as all details will come into the public domain. She can confide with her parents and then apply for divorce.