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Dr Arvind Jain you are certified or self proclaimed gay. if it is true so you libe with your boyfriend and disclose this matter to your family members and friends, .. more
Atul Sadrani Being true to yourself will give you happiness. Else you can choose to live a fake life...anf if they love you, they will accept your basic rights.. .. more
Topic owner: Romit Shukla:
I am gay and my family has been forcing me to marry a girl.
I cannot tell them that I have a boyfriend, it will break their heart.
I dont know what to do.
Bilal
either u have to break ur parents heart or u have to break some1s life its better u break ur parents heart that make sense to me
Sarvana P
first thing you should do now is stop tha marrage. how?
here is the way, ask your parents that you want a girl with 100 percent horoscope match and you stand on that topic very strongely ( getting 100 percent horoscope match is very very rare thing) for the time being do this... ok we will plan for the next
Armaan Khan
I dont know what you find in guyz! u already have it try somthng different dude!!! my honest advise
Anthony A
do not corrupt a womens life...just for your 'family'.....its going to come back...and you will be cursed...
Atul Sadrani
Being true to yourself will give you happiness. Else you can choose to live a fake life...anf if they love you, they will accept your basic rights.. and if they dont then those relation were never true..srry sounds harsh but its the truth...take it or leave it..
Jesse Lalnunhring
@Atul: ur being very realistic and i like it. if parents are understanding and open minded, they wud accept this.
Romit Shukla
They will disown me from the family..that is my biggest fear and i am very close to my family..
Dr Arvind Jain
you are certified or self proclaimed gay. if it is true so you libe with your boyfriend and disclose this matter to your family members and friends, if you marry with a girl so you will be in trouble for whole life. either live your boy friend or live alone. do not ruin the life of her. and whole family will disturbed.
Nikki Steggall
@Arvind: i agree here. he has to be first sure abt his gay inclinations.. whether he actually feels for boys or not is an important point. maybe it's just the peer pressure that has made him feel that he's a gay. also it's not fair to ruin a girl's life just because u cant confess the truth in front of ur family. dnt be a loser. get up and talk
Romit Shukla
Eaxctly. I do not want to ruin another persons life..but the pressure is immense from my family
Mallika Shah
have balls and tell your family the truth its the best thing you can ever do.. gay marriages are now legal in india.. my best wishes with you.
Sumit Lama
gay marriages are legal in india as per the law by Mallika, its not so easy to confront ur parents about the same. our society still does not accept this. had u been a lesbian,,, tell me wud u hv the courage to go up to ur mom-dad and tell them u love a girl?? answer this and u wud get an answer for urself.
Neo Prince
//I cannot tell them that I have a boyfriend, it will break their heart//
If you dont, you will spoil the life of some innocent girl and her family. Things will be even far more worse then. Don't be a pussy. Tell them. If you find it difficult, meet some counselor (marriage counselor or whatever) who can help you and ease up the difficulty.
Rohan Garg
good advice. romit, i think u hv to speak up about what you feel and who you are coz hiding the truth from ur parents and that girl (ur gonna marry) wont help in any way. pls dont spoil her life. ur gay - its not her msitake
