My husband has started working late since a few months and sometimes does not come home till 5 am. Whenever I try to ask about his late hours he gets very angry with me.
I am very worried. What if he is having an affair. What do I do?

Missy...stop doubting ur man..confront him directly n ask this qstn..only then will ur mind be at ease..if u cannot confront him..den give him oral sex everyday for a week or 2 & cook him a good meal..trust me ur man will be bck home on time everyday craving 4 more..works everytime,try it !

There is no dream world...you might be right but amybe worng..first checkout what kind of work he have 9-5 type of all night project type...be a smart lady..u knows all if n but of your husband and you can findout if he is cheating you...from his bag, clothes, phone call details...credit card payment etc...and also discuss the same with him but not in a argument way put to show him that u care for him...

first thing in life is beleiving.if u had doubts,dont ask.u also go for a lover.

If you have doubts, then the marriage is already over...but hey, there are plenty of people who are ok with a dull, untrusting, and unsatisfying marriage...You are one of them, now...sorry to be so mean but someone had to slap the truth in your face..

no need to ask anything and in time n situation every human changes.if you force he wont change if he is cheating you really.so just wait time and he ll come back to you only

Trust is the base of cheating. Vishbaas na ho to vishbaasghaat nhi hoga. And no need to have any detective , just start to love your husband. Dear love can change anything. I am sure even if he have any affair outside, he will leave it for you. Its little difficult, acting like foolish lover. but in the end it really works. Don't do any filmy thing. Just start to love your husband. And remember Love means not at all se*. It means a lot of caring. Like mother & sister. Then you will see the magic of love.

Trust is the last thing .n dat too it should be discussed only between the couple. u r a stupid asking dis thng to whole public..

pls ensure firstly; May be he has started part time work besides of his known profession..May be he is doing for u; after observation u can act on...

stop having suspicion on ur hubby..first try to find the facts by talking to him..watching his actions carefully..what men hate the most is not trusting them..if u luv ur man by heart n trust him by soul..i dont think he will cheat you ever whereevr he goes in world..give him space respect trust love..may be he is really busy..trust ur man..think positive..

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IF AS A WIFE U CAN AFFORD NECESSARY LOVE & AFFECTION WITHOUT SUSPECTING ABOUT THE LATE COMING OF YOR HUSBAND AS A REASON OF AN EXTRAMARITAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYBODY ELSE, U BOTH CAN LEAD A HAPPY & PROSPEROUS LIFE

I got an Idea. Just make 2-3 enquiries to some marketing company representing your husband and give his mobile Number and give the best time to call during the hours of his elusive period.Later on follow up with these marketing guys.Or, call his boss and check his office hours.And if he stays till 5am, the probability is that he will not be asked to report for duty at 9 Am again. If he rushes to office after his night duty, then chances are he is having a affair.

If possible you can visit his office. But, sometimes, it may not be possible because all offices are not easily accessible (For example, if his office is in SEEPZ or a Factory compound like L&T with many gates then you will perhaps require permissions to enter the compound. So from where would you get that permission without your husband not knowing about it?) So basicaly it is easier said than done. You can possibly get acquainted with his colleagues and try to befriend them or their wives and know about whether there is office work load. But, here also some colleagues even after knowing about office affairs of your hubby may not tell you; but may actually hide it from you (as loyalty towards their friend that your husband is). So utlimately you may end up hiring a good detective. But, there is no need to worry. Detectives keep their work under cover and your hubby won't be able to know that you ever hired a Detective to keep a tab on him (as far as I can judge the whole thing).

Dear Nikki... A very common excuse given by a cheating husband is of working late hours in the office. If your husband has also started giving the same excuse very frequently, you can follow on this very carefully. You can keep a tab on your husband by calling during work hours. You also give your husband a surprise by visiting the office. Do not make it obvious that you are trying to keep an eye on your husband. Rather tell the husband that you wanted to go out for Dinner with him and wanted to give a surprise. If he is not cheating he will be glad of your thought or he might get offended, or abuse you or simply ask you to leave and worst of all he may not be present in his office, when you drop in suddenly.

In this case, if you come across with some facts, which God forbid, you would need to confront your cheating husband with proof. The best way would be to sit down with a calm and cool head and talk about it. Your Husband might realize his mistake and appreciate your efforts in keeping the relationship alive. Good Bless You!

If u cannot believe to ur husband it is better to divorce him. U woman never understand how man are compromising in daily life.

Does his job demand late working? When you ask him for his late coming, why is he getting angry? He should really explain the fact and get sympathy from you for the hard work he is doing at office. Daal mein kuch kala hai. Carefully grill like a lie detector to get the truth by circumstantial evidences. Never rub on wrong side. He may still become furious. Let us hope that he may not have any affair. Don't worry

nikki

hiring a detactive will not help.you have to trust yr hubby but still if you fiii yr hubby has affair with woman then go and check in his office surprisely and catch him.best way is give more satisfaction then he what expect from you.try to satisfy him sexually so that he can not think about other women.hubby can expect lot more things in sex which you may or may not like but you have to do which nature permits you.try and see the results.

Always "Trust but verify". Maybe try to call him on his office line (not mobile) and see if he answers. And if he does answer say you called him becuase you missed him (which you really do when he is working late.) Are you friends with any of his colleagues ? Maybe speak to their wives and see if their husbands work late as well. You'll be surprised what you uncover. Good luck.

you should not suspect him until you get any proof, first try and get proof then you directly talk to him.

I know, men have this very safe excuse to give to their wives.. that they're working till late in office.. but in real, they must be having fun with other women

have you seen any secret mails or phone calls or msgs in his phone? if yes, then talk to him instead of suspecting him. and if not, then dont mix up things. if he's a workaholic and comes home late.. how can u say that he's having an affair?

if this is happening once or twice a week then i dont think u shud make a fuss out of it.. there can be times when he's actually in office. dont act like a spy pls

Hire a detective agency they might get u clear answer, posting ue query wud only get u some demeaning answers.