I am 45 year old single woman and I have fallen in love with a 25 year old boy. we want to get married.
But his family is not accepting our relationship. They all hate me.
How do i convince them that our love is real?

firstly..hats off 2 u woman..i salute u Ms Sen..women like u r d reasn i feel the world is a better place..now managing to fish out a guy almost half ur age requires skill & keeping him for long needs talent..madam ur my guru..f**k d world, dey wnt undrstnd u anyways, u guys shud do wat is best for u both..ms sen ur a legend ,salute !

If you both feeling so strong, why won't you elope to a new place and get married to start a new life as a couple raising your own family and one more important thing is, do it as early as possible or else, you won't have chance to have kids of your own as you are nearing 50's and remember, having kids together is a sweet memory of your love life. ALL THE BEST

its more of a physical need... forget marriage at this age.. just enjoy ur sexual pleasure wit the guy... if he is wit u thn he is 4 easy sex n money... no guy wil like 2 marry a older women !!

Richa, It is not at all necessary for you to get married, but keep enjoying with him on a regular basis, for first five years and then allow him to get married to someone and then also you can keep having good time with him, this is the best solution for you. maintain secrecy

you should not marry him. just enjoy with him. after some time when your sexual appetite is full , you won't feel like marrying him.

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FACINATION FOR YOUNG BOYS IN MIDDLE AGED WOMEN IS A VERY COMMON THING

PYAAR ME AGAR PAANE KAA HI BHAAW HAI TO WO PYAAR NAHI....KUCH OUR HAI

facination for young boys in middle aged women is a very normal and regular thing, plz analyse it on other grounds too, those grounds are of very much importance for responisble and accountable life, love does not mean that u could have thatthing in ur pocket. good luck. PYAAR DENE KAA NAAM HAI LENE KAA NAHI,

Richa-ji, why do his parents hate u ...is it b'coz of your age or there r other reasons as well ? As for ur love for d boy almost half ur age, do consider all pros n cons ( as also brought to ur notice in this post) before taking d plunge as only d two of u can take a final decision, it being a mutual love affair !

OLD WOMEN ALWAYS ENJOY SEX WITH YOUNG STUDS. THAT'S NOT LOVE.

Richa, I think you must've had enough of free advice and think you should take a call. However, please think about the ups & downs of this relationship before you take the plunge. I hope and pray that you are able to take the right decision/ make the correct choice. All the best...

By this time you must be secured enough financially. Then I don't think it leaves any room for any thought. I don't think you have any problem going ahead.

If you get some good thing for your heart, do not think any thing more. Just do it.

If it works out; Fine; else you don't anything to lose.

Live Life King Size.

Don't think of convincing any one. See if things turn your way, else forget it. Age should not be a deterrent where human beings are concerned.

a ha hahaahahhaa ahahaaa....rob a cradle much? k...this is gona be harsh so brace yourself....this guy has no clue as to what he's doing cuz he's jus a kid (apparantly)...still, if he is ok with settling for someone way past their expiration date, then I say you go for it....cuz ultimately, all is fair in love (n war).

well 20 years gap is a lot,what will happen if he finds a partner same age as him, which more likley can happen. To be honest you are waisting you time wih him, look some one in your age group and you will be happy

Richa, nothing stops you legally from getting married. Keeping everyone happy may not always be possible. So its a choice you need to make: should you bother to keep them happy.



Its a Cheeni Kum scenario, where you're almost as old as his mother - you can try and talk sense into her. If not, just decide between you two, and go ahead.



Also, think about how age may realistically play into your relationship. What happens when you're old enough not to be able to move / are bedridden and he is at the peak of his life. What do you expect him to do? Stick by you? Not waste his life and get remarried? What?



Mix brains with heart, and then take a decision.

Richa,Love and marriage both are different thing.You many not marry the person whom u love but u have to love whom u marry. and on your problem you should give time to the guy and u also as it may be infatuation or something else.so you sud wait for more understanding and how things are manageable in future

Richa, Falling in love with someone, if genuine, is beyond ones control. It is a helpless situation where no logic applies. Having found yourself in the thick of it you now need to move on with it. I'd advise you not to have any big expectations from your marriage. Take it one day at a time..He is young and apart from emotional bonding, he may need something more than what you have...So give him the space but ensure he always comes back to you. In the worst case, always be ready for the day he will walk away. At the same time, be mentally prepared to convince yourself that it was great as long as it lasted !! No regrets...

Love has no barriears of age go ahead.

What you intend to embark on requires immense sacrifice, patience and understanding... I think you should snap out of love and play devil's advocate to yourself as you know your relationship with him. Besides someone needs to play devil's advocate to your partner as well, I don't doubt the feelings you both have, but about thinking it through part I am not sure...



what ever the case maybe best of luck you guys... !!

u gotta dispel the fears of the family members about the 45-25 syndrome by telling the truth find out watever fears tey hav nd clean it up... even if they r stubborn bout it well u guys are not minor anymor...

Ms. Sen, it's your life....your call...dont see why and how it should make any difference to anybody?

may its love for you but i am sure he only want to use you, this relation wont work

thats best ...if you sure that real love then do without any doubt...do not listen anyone....acc to people love means sex thts all....kick all rascals n live great exemplary life...

You don't need to convince anyone. It's your lives, you both are the best judge. But the reality is this relationship in all liklihood is not going to last very long; but as long as you can both make it last, trust me it's gonna be HEAVENLY!!! Please do keep me updated. Regards and love - Padmini.

Well Richa, i don't think that anyone could help ya with this apart from ya and ur partner. So, all ya should do it sit with him and sort it out. The best thing by doin this would be, that ya would not be puppet of anyone's suggestions and since, it would be ur own decision ya would always respect it regardless wat the outcome would be. Enjoy ur life by makin decisions by ur own and not askin others cause people would not look the things from ur point of view. Have a gud one ahead.

Mother fuckers.Is your mother like this so you have to be?You have been given perfect example of mother fucker......

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Depends upon how broad-minded your parents are. Because its very rare case in India where guy always looks for younger girl. Both of you guys have to convince your respective parents as there is nothing wrong if you guys have fallen in love and love each other.

Its Natural to love boys of young age , if a Man can fall in love with girls less than their age Than why not women .love has no age bar thats why we say love is Blind ....Cheers

Richa Jee, Love is blind it is true. At this stage you are taking such important decision which has no fate. You have seen in many films and also in crime files, doubt/sexual unsatisfaction or any topic will raise the difference in your life and it will be very difficult to clean them. This is because that all these things have happened in a system as well as cultural system. Are you accepted if your father will do second marriage and all property to her name. Are you know that why Pandav and Kourve fight each other. The main reason behind that Raja who is the father of Bhishm had married to a lady who was nearly age equal to her sister-in-law(bahu).Similarly Raven wanted to marry Sita who was very young and also equal to her sister-in-law(bahu).In history there are a number of examples those are failed. I knew you are feeling himself very lonely and you didn’t anybody to pass you. Secondly your womanhood also may tell you how we fill our aim of human life. Sexual relation is a major part of a marriage and if any bitterness will arise between then our whole life will destroy like a dog who went in a pond to get the good food but he found that his legs has been in the mud in which he wanted to come out but he failed. My advice is that chose your partner around your age may he married/divorced and married. Because the thinking and virtually of life know more and its importance. A young guy may affectionate to another guy because you have achieved in your life what you want but he had to achieve. For example when you make sexual relation with him, if he wanted to lift you but he didn’t succeed. Reason may be heavy/attraction lose/you did not did respect his parents as he want/job unsatisfaction or there are so many reasons those I can’t tell you. Remember sexual relation between men and women is an only 2-5 min period but this period is depends upon your relation from marriage to that day. If you find yourself incomplete then you will find cavity to your partner which should be never filled.

Richa Sen I have heard Love is blind and you have proved that there is no harm in loving with a person half of your age. Points are that how secure will your life with your boyfriend if there parents doen't accept you. Will he be able to leave his parents and live with you, then your financial so capable they both of you could manage withou any support . Franckly speaking your boyfried want to have childrend of his own with you, will it be safer for you give birth at this age. The age difference is almost half. Is there any surety that he will not lose interest when you grow older then him, if he does so how will you manage. There are some of the question which you have to think calmly and take a decision of your life. I dont want you to spoil your life for the blind love. Talk to your boyfrient and discuss all the point and take a devison. All the best and good luck.

same condition is here

YES MARRIAGE MAINLY DEPENDS UPON SEX AND WITHOUT SEX NO MARRIAGE CAN EXIST FOR LONGER PERIOD

this is not love but infatuation. Nobody will accept 45 year old with 25 year old boy. Just have sex with him as long as you can but do not think of marrying at all.

Both u guys get out of India, go to a country which you guys can live happily. Indians can never be able to understand what you guys want/saying

1.I think so u guys should first have a trial sex to c whether the things move in your way or not.2.His he financially stable to take care of both.3.How cum till age of 45 u didnt find anyone,bcoz sumday this question might arised?

adopt him and have everything discreet. You are a giving type. Don't spoil your relationship for the sake of a marriage which has a tragedy in waiting.

Dear Richa, Bear some pain of parting with him now and spend rest of your life peacefully. Marriages anyways become stale after a while else 1000 of divorces per day wont be happening world over. i am not trying to scare you off but your own insecurities with such a younger boy may create a hell for you later. When in love, we overlook many things. Just a friendly advise.

He is just telling you out of infatuation and imaturity.Not advisable, my dear lady.Another 5-10 years you will reach menopause and most probabbly your sexual drive will not match with your husband-to-be's wants and needs. The chances are he will go out looking for greener and fresher pastures. You will not be able to bear that, will you?Then I don't have to tell you the rest.

Love is love & i think it is blind dear Richa G if u believe in true love & in ture relation then you get married my best wishes r alwys with u ....

Richa, your love may be real, but you should think of the future of both. you cannot have a age gap of 20 years and then have kids with a 25 year old. what will your children say? At this age, will you be able to bear children and nurture them till 18. Answer is known to you. Plus, your lover might divorce you after marriage, once he realises his mistake and feel ashamed in front of others. But, anyway it is your life,so best of luck and wisdom.