Two years ago I met a man on a social networking site (non-Indian). He seemed to be a very decent guy and we became very close friends,discussing everything under the sun. Later,he got married and is now a father. A few months ago,he confessed his love for me.I was quite surprised and tried to reason out with him.Eventually I limited our talks from everyday chat to once a week.His absence made me realize that I too loved him.I admitted this to him and now we are in a relationship.He even proposed to marry me.Though I haven't seen or met him personally,I trust him a lot. Am I doing a right thing? Please help!

Bitch please...that guy is only trying to get in ur pants..he aint gonna marry u..hes married already..hes jus looking for sum free p*ssy..hes probably fed up of his own sex life n is lookin for new excitemnt which u cn provide..dnt get me wrng girl but this is the bitter truth..u need 2 wake up honey .

Feel your self lucky and forget him. this is the only answer

Watch this movie called "Trust" you'll learn something important.

Kasish Dear,

Kudos to you, how can you ride on two boats, Without knowing a person and his personal details, how can you give your loving heart to someone you dont know and you have not met him, Please do some homework before leaping into a well, where you will drown and there will not be anyone to rescue you.
Do not trust blindly anyone just by talking, you will be only one feet away to get betrayed.

Just forget it dear. try not to be close friends with the opposite sex by discussing everything under the sun. That is what leads to closeness and then we cannot forget that person cos we shared everything with that person. Closeness comes by staying with a person day in day out. The closeness which you experience when communicating over the internet or any other media is artificial. So try developing good friends with whom you have studied or worked and don't get close to anyone or else again you will fall into issues like this. Find a nice guy with your parents approval do a thorough check on him and then only get married and when you get married and stay with him, you will understand what it means to be truly close to someone. Also it is not necessary to discuss everything under the sun cos no two human beings will share the same view and disputes could arise. Discuss everything that is relevant to you and your partner's interests. ok take care and God bless.

will you marry me??? wt ur answer ... No ( I think so). Just tell him u r also married and see the difference...LIfe jio ji bharke na kisi k JI(heart) se khel k

will you marry me??? wt ur answer ... No ( I think so). Just tell him u r also married and see the difference...LIfe jio ji bharke na kisi k JI(heart) se khel k

ya miss seth never marry or love to a married man u know at any stage of life he can leave you because you will be her 2nd wife with no legal or social rights .... Now you are young but u know life partner ki jaroorat budhape me hoti hai or jindgi kharaab alag ho jayegi is liye uska khyal dimaag se nikaal do or get enaged to good un married person and get married with him

Do what your DIL says..........

NON-INDIAN, as if Indians are untouchable, how pathetic. Go ahead and F%^&K off , don't cry out here. This is a trend these days to ridicule Indian males as if they have r@pe$ them. Whats the big deal, you screwed him for 2 years and now when you NON-INDIAN has had the cake , he wants to eat the plate (you) too, what the hell, go ahead and continue where you left.

Love is something beyond logic, this phenomena is an example of past life relations which is why we carve instantly for some men so don’t be very logical and rational about it. My advice to u is to follow your heart in this matter and if things turned bad regret later, rather not follow ur heart and regret for life time as love never comes cheap. U may find the light.

If he does this to his present wife he lives with, how do you know he will not do the same with you (if you decide to get married) - whom he has never met! If he is unfaithful in one marriage, how do you know he will not repeat in his second marriage with you? How do you he has not done this before with other women? Do not ruin your life for the sake of "internet love" - besides he may be saying fibs any way!

I know of a girl who fell in love on the net, and decided to finally meet - to her surprise and horror, he was very different, he only wanted to have sex with her, and leave her!! Don't waste your life, or ruin. Common sense must prevail. Besides, if he is married, you are breaking up a marriage by consenting to go with his folly. How would you feel if your future husband did this to you after you married for a while? what you sow now, you will reap later!!

The Love is a basic animal instinct, which results in mating with opposite sex to reproduce next generation of concern species.The Human beings are not exception to the same .However,a long term their association as a couple differs from other creatures,due to the concern individual expectations and acceptance of opposite sex traits. unless,individuals reconcile with opposite sex adverse qualities,the relationship will not be cordial and continues with conflicts forever.

Hence,choose your life partner, not based on merely SEXUAL INSTINCT OF LOVE as a prime factor,instead look at the comparability to sustain a longer duration of relation ship based on the dependability to care each others concern of happiness and sorrow forever.

Don't make wrong commitments without knowing your fiancee in person AS MOST OF THE DIVORCEES KEEP regretting THEIR MISTAKES of their decisions made earlier.

Just keep in mind that net relationship and love, many a times is very halo and untrue. developing the love towards somebody needs physical presence of the bodies and souls. love grows in heart and can be read in eyes of the beloved bodies. True love makes the bodies mad towards each other.love teaches the sacrifice and its something devine feeling in hearts and souls.True love is something distinct from the lust of sex and bodily attraction .True love is rare in todays culture. peoples nowdays are became very selfish , everywere there is lust of sex and love is rare. your BF might hv boared and disappointed with his wife,that is why he might want you. Though he is nice guy, you should disconnect all the relations with him and should search a suitable indian soulmate around you who will be truly more loving and caring for you. May god bless u with lots of intelligence and love.

He is confused and he is making you confuse. First you came in his life but he was looking for something else so he got married..Then he may have not found what he was looking for in his wife so he turned to the closest one available.. Seems, he is not in love with you but disappointed in his marriage is making you feel that he loves you. He is just needy. The person who can't take charge and responsibility will never stand by with you too.. Take control of your life and do not allow other's situations control your life.

While majority readers have clearly identified the point and analyzed correctly; you still may be in dilemma. The easiest way to clarify it is to look at the situation from the other side of fence by putting yourself in his existing wife's role or anticipating such happening with you from yr. hubby if you are / were married.

you are not actully wrong so tk it easy kk njoy

you have not done anything wrong.Live life kinsize and enjoy it.

you have not done anything wrong.Live life kinsize and enjoy it.

Did you say "YOU TRUST HIM A LOT". If he can marry a girl after actually starting a long distance relationship with you, father a child with her and is now ready to dump her for another woman (you) then I'm sorry - this hardly fits a definition of a TRUSTWORTHY MAN... Stop fooling yourself. What is the guaranty he will not leave you high and dry for another woman after having fathered a child or two with YOU?

Love the post from Dipti Kumari...Interesting point of view and a practical way forward. Right or wrong is all in the head. We as adults should know what are the consequences of our actions.

this is not a love. u can touch with as a friend for ever but if think merry with his so stop ur emotion

Are you nuts? He, decent?He have only 1 thing in his mind.''SEX''.He want some change. If you want to be his 'toy', go ahead. I am married, and When a married woman make passes at a me, honestly, I have only 1 thing in my mind, that is 'Sex , although I have never ventured out after my marriage.I will never even dream of deserting my wife and kids.

This guy want have some 'bonus' out of your past friendship.At your cost. In your inner concious too, it is just sex, baby.You are not aware of it. Why ruin your life for his adventure?

it is not right thing......

if ur relation is spiritual !!

if i read this post few months back then surely i would have been questioning you. But now i myself is in same situation, the only difference is that we are not commited.. so enjoy the moment and trust God. There is always a way out, do what your heart says so that u shd not regret later.

love is very beautiful. he is love you or not............check, than take next step.

if ur husband do the same ru accept that.

i am still wondering how can a woman being knowing fully the guy is married comes in frey or gets attached to guys like this

He is a two timer and you are trying to be a home breaker. If he can deceive his wife then he will deceive you also. Stay away from destroying your life.

This is my opinion.so dont mistaken me.

1st of all he married then he having his family his wife is also love with him so its not good for u all.

leave the chat and just talk to ur friends take ur mind on some other things to engage.

like movies, songs, films, games, friends, parents etc,

thank you!!!

have a nice day...

ok. first u met him and talk in person. After few months, if u think that he is right men, u may tell your love and accept him.

Ms. Kashish, my personal opinion is stop entertaining (talking) to him. Break all relationships now. Sooner the better. If he was divorced that would be another thing but presently he is married and has a baby. Sooner you break away the better for both of you.

This is common especially among Westerners, who get involved with girls from Asian countries. They go there, get married in that country and enjoy with them for a while, then leave, and go back to his wife and then again keep doing this every year. The girls in Asia think they are married to this man exclusively, and even have children with them, then after many years find out the guy was already married in his country.

Imagine the same story happens to your parents and your dad proposed another women after you born & your mom loves your father deeply and wants him at any cost. while, your dad is in no mood to listen your mom.. what will happen?

yours is a short term attraction that arises due to your free time but not out of true feelings from deep heart and atleast now if you realize the mistake and regret, It will save both of your family without being hurt or else Foreigner(His) wife and your parents Hearts will Broke, they will feel bad and got losted. while, the kid who misses daddy will never forgive you for your mistake. Pls, stay away from him, don't break their family & don't hurt your parents. you'll get a good suitable single men just wait for few more time.

I have noticed people who are unfaithful to their spouse will not be faithful to the new spouse either. Do not fool yourself thinking he loves you. He may at the same time love many other women (like you, in different countries). If he marries you in India, he may not divorce his wife and child, and he may keep you for his time in India, and may have others in other counties - and still married to his wife in his country. One man I know caught AIDS like this, and his own wife divorced him when she found out. Multiple partners is the best way to catch AIDS. I live in a Western country, and I know what goes on here. Sadly India wants to follow all 'western' because it is 'better', Bollywood is copying all Hollywood, and influencing a whole nation negatively in the process - destroying families, relationships, lives of so many who follow the fads. Look at the fruit of such decadent Western culture - in families, youth, society, and everywhere else.

No. You are doing the wrong thing.

You have not mentioned what is your age? From which country he is? In western countries, they marry in the morning and divorce in the night. Indian culture and Indian law does not permit this and does not encourage this culture. if he marries you, will he divorce his first wife? Or, he will just promise and make use of you? Are you prepared to live as the other woman? How much you are sure that he will be sincere to you? what if he has roaming eyes? Will you tolerate if there is another woman in his life? Are you prepared to share your man with another woman? I think, you need psychiatric counseling.

he is a married man.....he got a kid....think this from his wife's point of view ...why he was not interested in you earlier ...or b'fore his first marriage....what turn him now to think of u as a wife...even though he is married....friendship is ok...but...think b'fore urtake any action....

he is a married man.....he got a kid....think this from his wife's point of view ...why he was not interested in you earlier ...or b'fore his first marriage....what turn him now to think of u as a wife...even though he is married....friendship is ok...but...think b'fore urtake any action....

Only a fool would make a decision on the basis of this kind of a relationship. First of all he also is married. It is devastating to have to do it to your partners (both partners). You never know if he is a man, woman, she-man, or he-woman or bi, gay, or what kind of a person he is. Heard of another girl met a guy on the net, fell in love, and finally decided to meet -to her horror he was a he-woman (lesbian). I live in the West, and welcome to the modern Western sexuality.

How do you know if 'he' (she/he-she) would have you for long after marrying, or just come over for a month or two and enjoy sex with you, and go back, never to return!! You then are left without a husband, married to a stranger (for sex for two months) and stranded. No one else in India would want to marry you- think before you decide. If you want to ruin your life, this could be a good way to do it - and ruin other's lives in the process.