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Gayatri Goswami why are you only pointing that out to women, it happen with men too, husbands who have wives at home, flirt, propose and do extra marital more than w.. more
Supriya T Jagtap Aditya, what gayatri said is also true.. only pinpointing married working women and not married working men is wrong.. dont u think so?? Ok .. more
Topic owner: Aditya V:
This is become common and for discussion and to know all your opinions, Now a days to meet the living lifestyle both man and women in a family have to work, I would like to ask, why do married ladies get carried away or influenced by their office colleagues, fall in love, have external affairs, when they are married and have a husband? This is not the case always, I do not mean anything in particular for all women who work but seen in most offices, In this way men would be very happy mostly, it is like strawberry's and jam, they spend whole day with each other in work or due to lifestyle or fashion or what ever may be the reason, but it is something which been happening, now i guess the % has increased. I would request all to show your comments and your thoughts. Note : I would like to say, nothing against any women. This is only a discussion...
Mleccha H
Men move up the corporate ladder doing hard work and boss buttering.Women have a weapon more.Their body. Women move the the corporate ladder sleeping with male collegues and bosses.Case in the point:Chanda Kochar slept with KV Kamath to become ceo.Both had an affair in ICICI
Supriya T Jagtap
hey thats not right always.. all women who are ceo n at hgh post need not have slept wid their bosses ... plz dont say such wrong words.. some women might have done that does not mean all women do the same to b ceo n etc etc... chanda kochar might have slept wid k v kamath may b bcoz they had an affair and love each other.. its their personal matter that does not mean she became ceo just bcoz of tht.. her body is not the sole reason.. its her talent n qualites too.. so u better not pin point to all women in general.. got it?
Ravi Sharma
First security then luxury then passion. Applicable to both sex. All is quite natural.Although both should be faithful to each other.But ..... what to say is difficult. Fast changing life style and respecting to your ownself only for all pleasures is the root cause. Once you start living for your life partner,you enjoy life with security, love and affection.But the condition is both palm claping. two way expectations of faithfulness is required.
Vikram Sharma
What are you talking ! Is it true ? Alas ! I am not in any office ! Now serious ! This is an indivisual matter and once behaviour is guided by indivisual traits . If you want to enjoy and are 'bored' in your own thoughts may be you are involved with work companions and if you are having clear mind and clear objectives not to be involved ,then you are running home for your kids after office and if husband is lucky ,wife reaches home thinking of how to make ' own husband ' happy .
Jing Jing
well, one hand cannot make a clap so if women have an affrair, men are the same.. and even worse as far as I know...
Aditya V
Agreed...both are equal...in the influence
Girish Ingale
We have heard that it was said by them of old time, "Thou shalt not commit adultery"; But I say unto you, That whosoever looked on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart, which goes vice-a-versa as well !
Men and Women are partners in crime , since non of them can clap with 1 hand !
Aditya V
well said....
Naveen Verma
Aditya ... i can understand ur view...in fact few more people here might understand ur view...but starting a discussion pointing specifically to men or women creates a notion, perception. U shud better ask "Do Women cheat?"... .... response to this question kud be more sensitive compared to aggressive responses as it is here....people feel bad, offensive....since we all knw.....not every women or men cheat....it is jst a trait of a person, be it men or women.
Aditya V
Agreed....Naveen
Suresh Nair
affairs in offices are a common scene nowadays since the life in office is entirely different from life at home then why we should mix up the thinks when life still moves smoothly inspite of having affairs and bla bla bla.
Suresh Nair
planning a weekend is in our hand dear one should plan it in such a way that both will be balanced.
Aditya V
@ Suresh : thank you for the time. Do you think one should get influenced with ones colleagues in office, even though the life at home is different and office is different ? Life will move smoothly but why have such life, where you are not able to balance both when it is a weekend ? Kindly comment.
Supriya T Jagtap
Aditya, what gayatri said is also true.. only pinpointing married working women and not married working men is wrong.. dont u think so??
Ok coming back to ur discussion, the women who work and are married and fall in love may be do not have any values or character.. normally not all married working woman have an affair with their colleagues.. it can be the case with the wife sitting at home ideal without job (housewifes) too.. for having an affair u need not be working in an office..
For the married working women who are influenced by their office colleagues and have an affair with them .. they must be doing this not becoz they spend whole day with each other in work or due to lifestyle or fashion or what ever but mainly becoz they must not be satisfied by their husbands mentally, physically or sexually, though some women may do it for their pleasure reasons as well.. aditya you cannot just generalize about all women by having just cases of one two women.. not necessary that all working married women may have an affair with their colleague.. my mom also works past 25 years she has office colleague as her frnds but she is not influenced by anyone or is not having an affair either.. ur perception may be only for few typical women whom u must have seen doing such thngs.. but please dont generalize about all women by seeing few who have no moral values n character.. for whtever reason or whtever...
Thanks
Supriya
Naveen Verma
I agree with supriya..vud like to sum up in one line....
Wat a person do never depends on his gender, it is the kind of morality they have and learnt for years......
Aditya V
@ Supriya : Firstly thank you for your write up, i will keep in mind not to generalize, Sincerely My point was to only look at the point from a womens influence and the possibilities, not to generalize, my mother is working since i was a child, sure that would not be possible to generalize, same with your mother.
Back to topic, I met a gal, she was married and she has come from some place which is not a metro, she found whom she met like influential on her, she had fallen, it is not that she is bad, she realized within no time as her husband was a bank employee and simple, where as she has seen some typical metro guys with fashion, style and talking, that had influenced her, Mind you not bcoz the guys were rich, only becoz she had been carried by the charm for few moments, she once broke into tears, now i meant influence is bcoz of lifestyle variation, geo centric atmosphere, the way you talk may be different from a guy from Bubhaneshawar or for that matter any city.
This is one point which I understand, i was looking for some similar ways to analyze, this is not common, it is not general, not all are the same, now what do you think ? I was looking for the reasons for such influence.
Gayatri Goswami
why are you only pointing that out to women, it happen with men too, husbands who have wives at home, flirt, propose and do extra marital more than women
Ravi Sharma
Gayatri you are honest and brave person with clear expression. I do agree both way faith,love and affection.Not to blame female only.Because female are attracted to male and that male may be any one.So if a woman have extramaritial relationship,other man is responsible.Because in India same sex attraction is not so common.
Girish Ingale
I agree .. !
However, if men cheat for lust ... women cheat for the thrill/adventure or as women say ... for " fun " !
Aditya V
@gayatri : I agree, I picked up women as that is uncommon, what you have mentioned is right. The reason for pointing out women is for discussion, no hard feelings against women, i feel if your comments looking at one angel would give me a better understanding towards men also....why men cheat is common topic, but why women get influenced is my way to look at a different side...which no one else but a women can help in pointing out.....
Supriya T Jagtap
agreeed..
