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Is dating is same as love
Other day on a post in here I saw a person posted something that made me to ask this question. Is dating same as being love?. I personally feel they are different. But for one question that involves being in love with two people at a time..that person said that it is not wrong with dating multiple people at same time. So just wanna ask you all is dating and being in love same?.. I feel personally NO..so what you say guys..
hi gopala.. i m not very sure if this question came to ur mind by reading my 2 posts.. well i personally feel that dating is just knowing which partner would b matching our wavelength n would b perfect life partner for us.. while love is an intense feeling whcih comes from heart.. dating n love are different.. some people date just coz to have a g.f. or a b.f. for name sake.. they dont need love.. while people in love dont necesarily go on dates to express their love.. correct me if m wrong.. and also let me know what made this question come to ur mind if u think suitable to tell me..
-supriya
Thanks for your reply Supriyaji..
thats ok gopala no need to say sorry u havent hurted or anything like that... anyways i liked ur views.. keep posting
Hi Supriya,
I didnot get this thought because of you. I saw a message in one of the post for which you are not owner. After seeing that message I just got this question and I wanted to see how people feel about it. Yes I also agree with what you said and believe in it. Dating is just knowing people and little bit fantasy but love is true intense feeling. I donot see loves needs dating. Yes you are correct people donot need dates and goin out to express love...but I feel now a days this generations feels so what your say on it?.. I donot see dating is needed...and why this question came to mind. Frankly Supriyaji, it is not you. In one of the post for which you are not owner one person posted something which made me to ask this question. I am not pointing to that person or arguing with it.. It is just I want to know what people really feel and educate myself. I am 29yrs single alone and never dated anyone..i donot have any true friends ( especially gals )...so love is far far away from it and my life experience sometimes make me feel that may be in am not eligible for it.. thats why just wanna learn people thats all. You are not reason and I appreciate you for asking me. If you feel that you were reason and unknowingly if I hurt your feelings or made annoying and angry..i would like to say THREE beautiful words..
I
AM
SORRY
receive/give feeling are part of the process that you are in love..
People date each other to gain, receive /give love i.e.
dating is to sustain love for longer times
Then what about married couple especially in 30's..I am sure they donot date like going out on romantic dinners.. but they love their partners each other more than people who do dates. I just want to know why does youth put dating and love together. I am sure in previous generations there was no dating but they had love in their life.
This is new Western trend and culture and Indian have become mad after this open culture to satisfy egos for a shorter period.Better one should avoid dating /love with may people as it will make the life hell.It can give pleasure for short time till one marries and if the dating and love continue after marriage one will spoil the reputation and life to hell as no one in family would encourage this culture of dating and love with many. ..
I also agree with you Sir
not at all.we should not compare love with dating
love is a experience which lives with you forever but dating is a thing which is only going to hurt you
Eevn I also think so. Just want to see how many think same or they give their own reasons... since now a days here I come across few posts that makes me think are people thinking in right track or are we to developed to follow our morals


