Lately i have noticed my husband is loosing interest in me. Instead of spending time with he is spending his time talking over the phone. I have noticed he has been receiving some late night sms's also... Many times i have checked his phone but i have this guilt. Is it ok to spy on him?

It is bad to mistrust your partner or spy on him/her but it is even worst to keep your head buried in sand hoping all is well. There must be strong reasons to feel that way. Sometimes it is better to find out than playing ostrich.

Spying your partner is tresspassing through his/her world- and actually giving him/her a message that you don't trust. No way advisable or acceptable.

even same in my life,, my wife as loosed interest in me,, so plained to drop her..

Its time you bring this to the table. If its nothing your husband should not have a problem explaining. But if he gets furious then your doubts are fair.

But know this, things can go from bad to worse when he is confronted, so ask this question to yourself... Are you prepared to go all the way?



Marriages only work when both husband and wife make it work.. you cannot make it work in any other way. If you have kids then, put them before yourselves and dont make any hasty decisions. But defenitely talk to him...

hope this helps

Hi you have no reason to feel guilty. There is nothing "NOTHING" between a husband and wife which should be hidden, so even if you read his personal stuff it's ok. Marriage is more than just having sleeping and having kids and raising them. It's more of the life you both share every second of the day.

On the other note, you are saying he is losing interest in you. As a guy myself, the only thing I will say evaluate in yourself, Why?? Is it because he has some needs you r not fulfulling, or maybe not giving him enough attention he's wanting

think about it.

No need untill someone breaks the trust of other

it's not good dear!!!!!because the love needs more trust of u towards ur partner,if ur comitted then u should not even think of spy,think if he/she is also thinking of this thing on u what would u feel???????

there are 100 ways to commit a crime , 101 ways to get caught , 102 to get a not-guilty judgement ! and as it is everything is fair in love and war ! i say talk it out first ... nothing more powerful than words !

-2- contiunu----Ramayan men aek Line Hai """ Jahaan sumati Tehn Sammpat NaaNaa"" Is ko Samajh kar kaary karengi to kabhi niraash nahin hona padega -- bhatnagar

no this is not right. this type work is more harmfull to your husbend's wife's relation..

pl.read the ramayan and take solution for your problemes.thanks

You no need to feel guilty. After all you are doing this to save your marriage.

Is is not possible, that you maintain your relationship that, your husband trust you and tell you every good & bad thing in his life...I think its a beautifull idea that you will love to follow & find so many good things in life , as well as you will not require spying also

My Dear Niharika,

I hope you will be enjoying good health.I have seen your problem and would like to advise that the relationship depends upon trust and faith .I would suggest that you should leave your Husband on his ownway and let him enjoy in the manner he likes to enjoy.Ultimately if you keep your ego's and doubt in control and try to keep your husband happy without giving him a hint that you are in doubt about his activities.you will win him.Never try to spy as it will spoil your relations and destroy the good living.

I have posted a blog on HOW TO BE HAPPY IN YOUR MARRIED LIFE . in life style and in relationship too which you try to read .Hope it will help you much in keeping your married life happy.If opppurtonity comes,you may also request your husband to read this blog and seek hi opinion and also any other point he would like to add.Post me his points to add in my blogs.

WISH YOU GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY DAYS IN YOUR MARRIED LIFE.

All is fair is love and war.

No Niharika these emotional athyachar idea is bullshit... Well i don't think so that you should spy on him. Give him space in your relation. These things come and go... If you will spy it will be like inviting unneccessary tensions between you and ur hubby.

Well Niharika i would recommend you to go to Emotional Athyachar guys from Bindass TV... I am sure they can help you out

It is not bad at all dear. You have full right to know what is your partner upto.

No its not wrong Niharika to check on your partner's activities...if he is actually cheating you then i am sure you will have no reasons to feel guilty and even if he is not i am sure it will e soon forgotten episode of your life