Hi I a dating a guy since last 15 months. We are sharing a very good relation. We do fight or argue like anyother couple.
A couple of months ago i met my Ex. We ended up in a mutual note . And we were together for 3 years.
We talk over the phone every now and than. He too is having a girl friend.
But i am not clear that talking to him now would ruin my present relationship. I am confused ... Heart says that it is fine you both are mature and can judge the situation well but mind tells a different tale... Guys i seriously need to know Should i continue talking to my Ex or not?

I think you both are mature & there is no harm to talk but you both need to not involve more in each other issues. just general talk would be good.

In my opinion, you should keep a distance from your ex. Not for you or you ex. but for sake of both you respective relation. Even if its OK for you to talk to him it will be very uncomfortable for your respective partners. Even if they don't express there will be a feeling of insecurity around. And that's a normal basic human nature. People have the affinity to do an error because they are confident they will never. Since from you query there is quite a visible element of confusion/doubt, its better to just move on and concentrate on you present relationship.

I am not sure whether it is sensible , but how much time you are having in your life?

Why not. There is no harm talking to your ex. and why should this ruin your friendship with your current boyfriend of whom I am sure you are not sure of. Perhaps there is some element of attraction in your ex that keeps you talking to him. You are still young. Just have a lot of friends and have a good time. It is possible that after sometime it will eventuate that you are really not in love with your current one and it is only infatuation.

You gut feelings say YES & your mind doesn’t agree with your heart.
It’s good you listen to your heart but I suggest you to concentrate on your present relationship.

It is better to drop with your EX. Continuing your relation with him reflects that you're still interested in him and If your present boyfriend knows about this..........? You'll have no answer to support yourself. As stated that your Ex also has a girl friend.......why then he wants a relation with you again........So be firm when you take a decision. Never be wavering.......................



Regards,

Solomon

Dear Tamanna, Just think for a while/day/week, what can you gain/achieve/benefit from revival of this "almost dead relationship"? I understand, everytime, the answer from your INNER VOICE/ CONSCIOUS will guide you rightly. And whatever opinion you may have but the fact remains this that a person never 'matures' in the 'MATTERS OF HEART' even if one is "laid to rest for ever."



History speaks that "Reasons of Heart are almost always deceptive."



Your wisdom is knocking rightly, don't drag your PAST back into your peaceful PRESENT life. BURY THE PAST and move forward confidently and with HOPE.

Girls are cheater. I know that. So u are wrong.

if u are true to to your heart please tell this matter to your present boyfriend. and ask your heart also are u ready to handle a situation worse than this? if yes than go ahead but if not u will only be making your lives a hell. so my dear friend please talk to your present before talking to your ex. take care

yesterday is history , tomorrow is mystery,today is a gift thats why it is called the present ... dont think about past you will only bother yourself

Well it totally depends on you. If you are clear abt your feelings and your current Bf is fine then I don't see any problem in talking to you Ex... Cheers

No Tamanna you shouldn't .. why to complicate your life dear

Tamanna are you seriously over your Ex??? If you are what are u confused for and whay are you feeling sad... You might have N number of male friends... So why to worry abt this one... Just be clear about your feelings for your Ex.. Never keep your present Bf in dark abt you in talking terms with ur Ex.. This is my advise for u

Dear I think there is no harm in talking to ur Ex... When you both are committed with ur Gf and B/f what the harm in talking then.. You must know where to draw the line...

hmm Tamanna dear... It is quite a confusing situation... Dear I think you should not talk to ur Ex... As I am sure ur present BF won't be comfortable with this idea... Obviously anyone would feel uncomfortable in the matter of Ex's ..