I have thought about this a lot since I have a few friends who have done this - gotten married to their bes friends. For some, it seems to work great, but for others, it doesn't seem to work. What are your thoughts on this? Do best friends make good spouses too?

I think it's great to marry ur best friend because I believe that the realationship will have a good chance to work out... it's someone u already know alot about, and get along with...that also know u...it's pretty much perfect...it's easier to fall for. But that's just me...

Dear roshni whats wrong in it. one have to get married so whats wrong in it if you get married with one with whom u spend lot of time and know him very well. There is nothing wrong if you think it would be good to get married with him

Maynot be good always but sometimes maybe yes.every case is unique

Dear Roshni, I may enlighten you about your predicament. Marriage with a best friend, love marriage or arranged marriage, all marriages are something like akin to buying a LOTTERY TICKET as You yourself have admitted of successful and failures of marriages in your friends' circle.

And everyone knows, a LOTTERY is having many prizes.First prize is normally only ONE. But there are many more prizes and also some CONSOLATION prizes. AS every prize of a LOTTERY is marked for a particular person BY DESTINY. So is there some fate destined to every LOTTERY OF MARRIAGE.

You know most of the indian marriages are solemonised after taking all CARE of KUNDLI/ HOROSCOPE matching etc but you know DESPITE all these precautions there are failures, utter failures and some worst. But some get the FIRST PRIZE as well and some second, third and so on.... and MOST ARE DESTINED FOR CONSOLATION PRIZES. (AS I UNDERSTAND)



ROSHNI JI, it is every individual's GREED OF EXPECTATIONS one sets the goal of HAPPINESS. Have you ever hrard a song of AVISHKAR---- HASNE KI CHAH NE KITNA MUJHHE RULAYA HAI.. There as one song of CHITRALEKHA gives something invaluable ----MAN RE TOOON KAHE NA DHEER DHARE -(the golden words in this song are--- )"UTNA HI UPKAR SAMAJHH KOI JITNA SAATH NIBHA DE." Can you understand this philosphy? Marriage's BLISS & HAPPINESS is play of DESTINY. 'Bhagvaan ka naam lo and after taking all the utilising human' abilities of self and elders, JUMP THINKING " AAG KA DARYA HAI AUR TAIER KE JANA HAI".



BUT DON'T WORRY LIFE IS ENDLESS. PERHAPS YOU MIGHT BE WATCHING "NDTV IMAGINE'S RAZ PICHHLE JANAM KA" REALITY SHOW. WISHING YOU FIRST PRIZE AND HAPPINESS ALL THE WAY.

Basis of relationship is imporant.Who will be the best friends?Boys boys will be having common interest because they share common life style and most important they are free to pass theire time together gossiping and sharing views and talks about girls, and same and almost similar views and attitudes towards carrier in relation to future married life.But if it is a girl then my dear we are mistaken,simple aquantance and knowing each other we utilised to know each other more and we became" best friends" it was not friendship but a very cautious and practical love approach. Friendship is not romance!.

Hey there is a great difference between being a friend and a spouse. One of the key differences that comes up different between friendship and marriage is the interaction of families.



My personal opinion is if there is a great relationship between the best friend and your family and you and your best friends family then it would be great to marry your best friend.



However if your family doesnt like your best friend or vice versa then that will create problems in a marriage and the stress of that will even stress your friendship in the long run.



But If you love your best friend then of course all the above should not be thought of you should just go ahead and marry your best friend.

Love is a mechanism if it 'clicks'. If it is a human feeling it starts with friendship,.If you are noncommited you call it friendship if you are commited you ask for MARRYING.

True...ur best frn might nt be expecting wat u r thinking...frnship is one pure bonding..let it be wat it is..Pure. I doesn't mean that marrying your best frn makes it impure, but there is something special in having a best friend. n I personally feel it might affect a bit if we try to take to to sm other level.

It depends .In some cases love or marries ruined friendship. Once you get into a relationship with your best friend you will miss that friend in that person. The way he/she interact with you totally changes.He/she will be more of a responsibility than a support.

On the contrary some time it is best to have some one in your life who knows you the better than any one and understand your feelings.

It's a great idea! Bcoz the couple would be most comfortable with eachother!

I think it's very cute when best friends get married. In movies like 'Kuch Kuch Hota Hai' for eg. Also in friendships, there is always an element of love - one person likes the other ie. So if they end up together there is nothing wrong with that.

Well, I think it may not be the best idea. After all, a friend is a friend. It is a very different relationship that you share with a spouse.

I think it's a great idea. I know 2 friends who are best friends & have got married to eachother. Their rapport & understanding is all so good. They are perfect for eachother, bcoz they don't need to waste time getting to know eachother.