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Is pre marital sex fine?
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Padmini Sharma It should be a matter of personal choice and varies from person to person. In West for example noone is interested in marrying a virgin, on the contr.. more
Suresh Nair naveen don't you think of some exciting experience before marriage then why not to agree with the topic you have created and with whom it's.. more
Topic owner: Naveen Verma:
Guys there was a lot of hullabaloo when some actress (i guess her name was khusboo) said pre marital sex is fine. yesterday, she got relief as the case was dropped. Guys please feel interested to discuss this with me...Is it really normal and fine if we do sex before marriage? remember partner kud be the "to be wife" or someone else (friend, colleagues etc)....waiting for replies....
Jay Pandey
If it is matter of sex , I have one opinion if both the partners are ok , then there should not be delay..Then whenever before or after marriage.
Deepak Maheshwari
Though I do not have any opposition if the partners consent to have it, but it should not be taken as a tool of enjoyment & character foul play.
Franklyn Peter
Yes pre**** is absolutely fine unless and untill it does not have any effect on your current marriage or personal life. As far as your partner is concerned, if he/she is comfortable enough to share their past life before you get into a serious relation and both have the confidence to accept and move forward in life.
Sunil Gulati
just to share data with you all... in the indian cities, 60% of womens are not virgin at the time of their marriages...
Sunil Gulati
It is exactly like what you expect from your partner... if you do not want a partner who has already involved in sex, then its not good for you to be involved in...
if it is not a sunject of involvement of your partner, then go ahead and have fun, be safe!!!!
Jing Jing
depends on people themselves...
Naveen Verma
nice way to start n end the discussion....plz share ur views....wat exactly u think??
Padmini Sharma
It should be a matter of personal choice and varies from person to person. In West for example noone is interested in marrying a virgin, on the contrary in the East things are diabolically opposite. For some it is pure fun, for others it is sanctity.
Personally I will go by sex only after marriage and only with your partner , I dont recommend polyandry under any circumstances.
Gopala Chintakindi
"it was jst for some lighter moment for each one of us who visit this page... ".. just nice and respectable way to say we are making fun and having fun..
Naveen Verma
@Gopala....i was not at all making fun of the writer .....it was jst for some lighter moment for each one of us who visit this page...
Gopala Chintakindi
Girish..first of all I posted my comment here so it is my reply to her POST here not all entire blogs which she posted in internet...My views are to her to THIS POST ONLY...in her blog " Article in Times on PROSTITUTION" she explicitly referred to TOI and DATE and she didnot take credit for it..she just gave you details..abt that..this is not correct place to discuss..
Girish Ingale
Gopala .... actually the writer whom you are defending .. is a Copy-Rights violator ! All of her blogs are mere copy from some UK magazines and newsprints
Gopala Chintakindi
I guess instead of making fun of writer..it is better we talk about what she said...i feel everybody who has little bit common sense can understand what she meant even though little typing mistakes.. Padminiji....Except your Western thing.. I agree what ever you said and I respect your choice of being virgin for your partner.. all the best and hope you get nice one..
Girish Ingale
LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL ! !!!!!!!
Naveen Verma
@Padmini....btw wat did u meant by: "Personally I will go by sex only after marriage and only with your partner "....does dis line mean...wat m assuming rgt now...??? :)
Supriya T Jagtap
i dont agree with sharma but with naveen n gopala.. wht views they have put up..
Girish Ingale
Recommend ?
You don't carry in your countenance a letter of recommendation !
Polyandry ! No ones talking about genders here ! You better get your views/writings clear and specific !
Gopala Chintakindi
Why now a days ITIMES has becoming so much confusing...lol
Naveen Verma
Gopala agreed with sharma...i agreed with gopala and sharma, and supriya agreed with me and gopala...in brief....supriya u agree with sharma too ... LOL
Supriya T Jagtap
I agree with Gopala and Naveen
Gopala Chintakindi
I agree with you Naveen
Naveen Verma
I agree it is solely a matter of personal choice. Can't point fingers on culture since culture itself is generalization of similar personal choices of people. As it i said "An individual belief kud be insanity but the same belief by a community or more becomes a religion". If asked personally...then i vud prefer an after marriage sex. There r many reasons values dat i grew up with etc but one thing i feel is for smthing u want desperately .... more wait more excitement. :)
Gopala Chintakindi
i agree with you Sharma.....but after living in USA for few years.. I came across people who believe that their religion and church teaches them to be virgin till marriage and I really came across hot chicks..who confess they still are..atleast in front of me..I guess we must not point to cultures.. itis more individual choices likes u said
Gopala Chintakindi
I believe in one thing LIVE and LET OTHERS LIVE and at same time accept and face consequences of what you did in past..if you get chance have pre martial sex and if you do..please..please donot expect a virgin to be your life partner.. only expect what you can give but not whta you cannot
Gopala Chintakindi
Yes what Girish said is correct,..i am virgin and i am hoping my partner to be..but i left everything to god..we can get HOPE.. and what we get is in our faith..
Girish Ingale
Climate is what we expect, weather is what we get.
Hence , even if you are a virgin , don't expect your partner to be virgin !
Naveen Verma
right said...
Supriya T Jagtap
well said gopala.. i agree with u..
Suresh Nair
naveen don't you think of some exciting experience before marriage then why not to agree with the topic you have created and with whom it's not important but i think your would be should be avoided.
Girish Ingale
Feelings are not supposed to be logical. Dangerous is the man who has rationalized his emotions !
Naveen Verma
I too agree with u gopala....i feel there is nothing wrong in pre marital sex...but as i said above..i personally prefer....sex after marriage....might be same reason..moral.
Gopala Chintakindi
Naveen..in this case what I would feel morally correct is sex after marriage..even though your gal friend maybe your future wife..but there is always that MAYBE thing lurking around..
Gopala Chintakindi
well said Girish
Girish Ingale
Sex is emotion in motion !
Naveen Verma
Gopala .. in my case....my girl friend vud be my wife...altho m still single...
Gopala Chintakindi
Naveen..i agree with wife and would be wife.. but with gal friend i donot.. since many times now a days GF cannot be wife..
Naveen Verma
Thanx for reply Mr.suresh. Personally for me..sex is something dat is best ven done with feelings and emotions ....be it my wife or vud be wife or girl friend.....n no other girls. Coz i can only hav feelings for any of these three gals. And if i do sex with someone i don't hav feel for...then that vud be sex and not Love Making....I prefer "making love" rather having sex. n wat r exciting experiences? if having sex out of lust is exciting then i don't approve it.
But kud you please answer me on something that u mentioned. you said
my 'vud be'...shud be avoided...y?
Supriya T Jagtap
it depends on personal choice altogether .. live n let live.. i believe.. if ppl are fine with having pre marital sex then wht problem shud others have in it??
Girish Ingale
Sex is a three-letter word which needs some old-fashioned four-letter words to convey its full meaning.
Naveen Verma
Supriya....u already had a partner.....i mean r u in relationship....OMG....n i ws in fantasies for no use...LOLLL ..kidding......Thanks for my query....it ws jst out of curiosity...n like u...i too prefer going for the said after marriage....n u r really lucky u got a partner who does not insist u....it is really good and appreciative.. ....
chal my log off time now...c ya...tk care...everybody here..bye
Supriya T Jagtap
Naveen now when u have asked me this dont be sorry for it.. to answer ur question.. i wud say that i personally wont go for pre marital sex.. as i have some values and morals set for myself.. but i was talking in general terms if a girl and a boy are fine with it then why shud others make a issue of it? all of us knows whts good and bad for us right? its individual choice if one wants to go for it then one can.. but i wont go and i am 101% sure that my partner wud also never force me for the same atleast NOT BEFORE MARRIAGE.. as he never did till now... v both are just in relationship as of now.. he respects me .. hope this answers ur question naveen..
Girish I didnt understand what u wanted to say by ur statement below.. plz explain if possible..
Regards
Supriya
Naveen Verma
True girish.....LOL
Girish Ingale
When a man goes on a date he wonders if he is going to get lucky. A woman already knows.
Naveen Verma
Sorry for asking and hope u won't feel offended but since u r the only girl replying here....can i ask ur view...being a gal, vud u mind it??? plz ignore if u don't want to...i know one shud not ask gals question like this.
Girish Ingale
“Sex is like snow, you never know how many inches you're going to get or how long it will last”
Supriya T Jagtap
Really an awesome reply girish...
Girish Ingale
Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions.
Gopala Chintakindi
Well said Girish
Naveen Verma
Girish...u r such a interesting guy buddy....
Girish Ingale
I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them.
Naveen Verma
elaborate please....
