Without offending the fair sex, I am putting this discussion here. Guys what do you all feel about the article that says Men suffer most when relationship breaks. It was published in the times of india. Plz go thru the link below:

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com /life/relationships/man-woman/Men-suffer -most-when-relationship-breaks/articlesh ow/6032651.cms

Please share your views.

well, it hurts like crazy coz men often tend to imagine their life with their gf. and when it comes to break-up, then girls aren't don't suffer much, the probable reason is that they thought that her bf would make her life like a princess.. but when he's not there now...then somebody else will come and do the same..But guys men are men..if they aren't serious regardin the relationship then it's well and fine..or else it's like hurting inside 'em and aren't able to express. It's like they themselves have prisoned their hearts putting a handcuff to their heart beats :(

Well I totally agree with you boy. A man might b strong in arms but is not that strong in heart as compared to a woman. He can handle any probs in life except the love of his life. For a man it takes ages to realise his last love but if that same girl breaks up with that guy, he is scattered in pieces. Coz the day he believes he loves someone he doesnt look ahead for anyone else. Its only that girl and no one else. But on the other hand a girl in today's world is more practical, if she breaks up wid a guy its always because she can adjust the situations of the guy's life. She needs a better life style more of a luxurious style. But a guy is still living in stone age when it comes to his heart. He starts late but when starts cant come over a break up soon.



There's a very famous saying i read " Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman. But luckiest is the woman who is the last love of man."



For a guy he might flirt a lot wid many females but when he dedicates his life to one, it is the end of flirtness.

Yes that is true and I believe that not based on some article or some story.. i believe based purely on my LIFE story...

That may b coz the Girl/Woman always can go to a well settled Boy/Man and b his GF/Wife n enjoy all his status. Where as men is supposed to get back to work and look for another girl who will not ditch him.

Surveys based on 1000 opinions in foreign country has no meaning in Indian scenerio. Here no heart is breaking nor any one is caring about it.Here in India there are several issues like education, water,hunger,unemployment,corruption and lots of presurre on each and every individual of any kind, that they are involved to solve their day to day problems. Indian husbands and wives are knotted so tight that they are emotionally,physically secured and loved each other.Where as the example of B/F or G/F breaking is concerned, boys and girls keeps many opposite sex as their b/f and g/f and do not care if any one goes or comes in in their lives.

Even I have praised the beauty of many women and girls but the effect of their attraction fades away so fast when i am busy in my family. My wife is so sweet, caring and loving that although i many a times feel attracted to many girls/women outside but as i return home, i forget all.

This is in Indian scenerio and all other results of surveys in foreign countries have nothing to do with indian culture.

yea read, its kinda strange, maybe they suffer cause they are suddenly devoid of the mental, physical and emotional comforts women give them, men suddenly have no one to take for granted so they suffer, there is nothing more to it

yes may be coz girls now a days are not that sincere in their relationsips they must be using and throwing their bfs just like they use handkerchiefs.. or may be men suffer most relationship breakups coz there is increase in expectations frm their end for their gf/wife or frm the other end coz they might not be able to fulfill their gf/wife desires n wishes.. one thing is for sure that if there is no mental peace n happiness in a relationship then that relation is better broken soon then carrying it forward for name sake.. it is obviously bound to break tht relation... any doubts in tht.. ??



one more thing is men pretend tht they are very stiff n strong but when relations break or if somethng happens to their wife/gf then they are the first who lose control n break.. they dont keep patience like women do n become very emotional than women when realtions break.. while even if such things happens wid women she makes it up fast n moves on coz she lives practically more n knws the fact tht too much emotional is not good.. anyways even if the relation is broken women have the wound n it remains there for years n years but they dont show up like men do by drinking alcohol or smoking or anytng else.. women knws tht they hav to get married if not wid the person they love but then wid someone else as this society wont let them live alone....

btw one last point to be added, now a days ladkiya bahut samajdar b ho gayi hai they dont fall into relation so easily with anyone and when they fall into any reltion they see to it that they keep relation intact n dont allow it to break under any circumstances.. efforts are more frm girls side isliye to yeh ab prove ho chuka hai tht men suffer most when relationships break hehehehe... (dont mind just mentioned the last point conclusion on my own just like that)



Keep smiling!!

Regards

Supriya