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Key to happy relationship: Weigh less!
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Pacman Gs i agree ..ur wife need to be thin but not size 0 maybe 28 inch waist. more
Neha Singh this is an obsession wid the glamor industry, no scientific fact. ive seen very healthy girls, chubby, happy, and so very sexy when they highlight th.. more
Topic owner: Eva Young:
As per a new study be it the committed or an open relationship, both the partners are happy and satisfied if the woman weighs less than her partner. So, women feel confident and loved because they know their man still wants them.
Now, my question to all the women reading this discussion is do you agree with this study & would you really go for dieting/slimming to lose weight so that your man is happy?
Anuthe Anu
let alone women even men wouldnt agree to it! looks some dumb research report like the ones the give in newspaper. My wife's heavy and I absolutely LOVE it.! in every aspect
Avinash Gudapati
It's All upto 2 people & their Heart Beat.. if they are really true to each other, if they have other intentions in mind.. none can help it
Jagdish Kamble
Dear All,
It is true. Every husband wants to see his wife a maintained woman. Physical love relationship also must in family life. But husband also must be try to become happy his wife with personality maintained.
Dear All,
It is true. Every husband wants to see his wife a maintained woman. Physical love relationship also must in family life. But husband also must be try to become happy his wife with personality maintained.
Teena Sharma
All i can say is it depends on both hubby's and wife's personal choices..they shud do every possible good thing to kepp the relationship on..anyways maintained weight is good for health in long term as well.. its always good to be fit..
Teena Sharma
NO I dont agree with this...i m quite chubby mom of 2 kids..in marriage from last 9 years..my hubby likes me the way I am..weight is never a issue..
Ganesh Shenoy
ur hubby is resigned to the fact that u will never be thin...if u take initiative and join pretti slim or any weight loss program and work very hard he would love it if u lost 12 kgs...
Rajinder Sandhu
Learn to enjoy life, Do not measure other's specifications ...you will be more than happy. The moment you stop comparing uski saree meri saree se jyada safed kyon... you are winner... Markets know the mantra so they created these type of formulas even TV Shows are full of such useless programmes.... forget about all this nuisance of marketing strategy/ myths/ mantras and learn to enjoy life even in your bad times...Have you seen even labour women enjoy their time with their family..if they can why not you...May god bless you all
Rama Paladugu
Who wouldnt want to look healthy and good, given a choice. Doesn't matter,People who are not healthy enough or are properly fit, as long as they like each other, but yes, when the healtier and better they look the confidence levels and the feel good factor increases. This does not mean who are fat are not happy. But, the same happy people if they see themselves getting healthier and fit, indeed will be more happy.
Ganesh Shenoy
ur right..if ur fat and happy..then if u lose weight u will become happier..
R Singh
please stop to watch and read this types of things. A healthy woman look nice and beautiful. In open relationship there are no commitments,(free items does not have choice) so you can not authenticate that what they like in each other.
Darshan Yadav
you're right. i support ur viewpoint.
Neha Singh
this is an obsession wid the glamor industry, no scientific fact. ive seen very healthy girls, chubby, happy, and so very sexy when they highlight themselves.. I am fat and I luv myself and many men love me.
Hemant Bhat
Man will not tell you the truth. The fact is that he gets attracted to slim women. Man sees, by nature, a woman by her figure more than by her brain. If the husband praises his wife even after she gets chubby, then he is good at handling his wife. This does not mean that he is unfaithful to her. A satisfied husband loves his wife and also respects her as she is. But if the wife maintains herself properly, it adds tremendously to his sex desire and satisfaction. If one sees his parents marital life happy, then automatically he or she strives to work out a happy marriage.
It is the pregnancy and joy of happy marriage that makes most of the wives become healthier. Ours is a conservative society with little scope for socialising. Therefore, philandering is not as rampant as it is in the West. With woman getting assertive day by day due to exposure to social life and working life, both husband and wife may get attracted to opposite sex. Such attempts leads to guilt feeling later on. But the danger is that the shame is only once.
Ganesh Shenoy
people love to have fat friends...they make them feel better about themselves...but for a wife to be fat is a nightmare for a husband...stop living in a bubble and lose 15 kgs now...
James Karl
Neha: Maybe your hubby wont tell you but if he's unhappy with ur weight or anything else... then it can have some impact on ur relationship. he may not love u as much as he would hv done if u were slimmer. think about it
Eva Young
@Neha: thats the spirit. i also dnt understand how does weight matter. if ur hubby loves u the way u are the marriage is already blessed.
Pacman Gs
i agree ..ur wife need to be thin but not size 0 maybe 28 inch waist.
Pacman Gs
i already have a gorgeous wife..
Ananya Rathod
Mr Pacman: Dude get a reality check first and then start hunting for a gorgeous wife
Pacman Gs
who doesnt want a gorgeous wife..or for that matter which women does not want john abraham or hrithik roshan...
Nupur Tripathy
oh really? what difference will it make?
Nandita Sharma
My sister is fat, 86kgs and her hubby loves her and they are enjoying their married life blissfully for last 5 years. this study is just a waste.
Ganesh Shenoy
if ur sister loses weight and becomes 68 kg her husband would love her more....and the sibling rivalry between u and ur sister which is not that intense now will become super-intense...it will be a nightmare on elm street for u if ur sister loses weight...
Nikhil Arora
i dont agree. if u are saying this from only SEXUAL point of view, then maybe to some extent, wife's weight may matter but otherwise this is a sheer myth and has no relevance for couples
Arjun Negi
wow? are you serious? i would make a point to tell my wife that she should get into shape. maybe it wud help our married life get some better
Madhavi Jain
i dont mind. if it can keep my hubby happy and add on to my sex life, i wud surely go for it
Pacman Gs
the old adage goes like this... u can never be too rich or too thin....hubby will love if u take initiative and lose 15 kgs...he is not going to stop and beg u that dont lose weight...
Rebecca Lewis
i would never go for any dieting or slimming after reading such baseless studies.
Pacman Gs
maybe bcos ur already thin...or ur too fat to be bothered...
Birjis Qadr
i want to know is there any theory behind it? or any medical backing?
Shahnaz Khan
such a stupid study. these are petty things. cant affect the relationship in any damn way
Pacman Gs
it cant affect the relationship true...but if u lose 15 kgs it will make the relationship better....please stop living in a bubble..try to come out of it and face the real world head-on...
Priyank Jain
Am agree with Ms. sohini ..... It matters when you go for different kind of positions .
Sohini Tripathi
@Shahnaz: what are you saying? come on, this is so true. a wife has to weigh less than her hubby, as this helps them in their lovemaking moments, which i turns lead to happy marriage / relationship
Kripa Parekh
Why only women? why shouldn't men also control their weight to lead a happy married life?
Engineer Smart
Kripa, you r the first whom comment I found here most logical and appropriate.
Priyank Jain
yes true.. we shall also keep ourself fit and strong to have healthy and pleasurable moments with partner
Jia Sen
I am really worried now because my guy is leaner than me and Will be ale to keep him happy and satisfied? pls help
Engineer Smart
Don't go on his outer look, may be he will more stronger from inner side.
Priyank Jain
you will... dono worry :) just try fullfill his fantasy
