Hi guys, i m abt to have an arranged marriage
but i'm scared
since i think love marriage is better
can u guys tell me
which one works better?

according to me both r rabish thing in Luv marrge''tum khud kuan me ja rhe ho ' or arrange me tumhare ghar wale tuimhe........... okkkkkkk

i thikn u should do Luv or Arrange one by one then>>>>>>>>> >>>

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Hi arranged marriage is better

Most of the arrange marraige are sucessful hope your too best of luck and best wishes keep in mind that u r goin to get a HE-MAN and sure your life will be a heaven

both r good its depend upon u .............wat how 2 manage ur relations ...........an if u hv bf than go of love marriage............

Hi Kripa,



First of all, all the best for your marriage and I wish you all success in your life.



I donot know why you came to conclusion love marriage is better. Infact, recently I read a news, in India there are more number of divorced love marriages then divorced arranged marriages. Which one is best we cannot say one single answer. It depends on couples..but whether it is love or arranged marriag..what makes marriage successful is love among couples..each must love, care, respect your partner..provide emotional, physical and mental strength..that is what need...it is not that only love marriages are successful or arranged marriages are successful..if your hubby is open minded you can do whatever u wanna do with your lover ( if you were in love )...so dont think abt it..just enjoy your love / arranged marriage

well i don'g think so which one is gud or bad,, it all depends upon u whether u go for compromises in yr relationship or not,, and if u go for it than it runs smoothly other wise is there is a twist in yr relationship phir chahe love marriage ho ya phir arrange marriage,, but there is a gud chance in love marriages yaaar,, bcoz u know the person very well in that case compromises should be less,, take care

thats similar to asking what is sweet ... sugar ya gudh ...it depends on your views

we cant define that which one is better but both of them their own benefits. But I believe that love marriage is better than arrange. we have to live with our partner. we should have right to choose our partner and we are the only person can decide better.

dear i think both are good at their places!!!

but in love marriage you'll be escaped from the traditions ""the riti rivaz"as well as the fun u will surely have if u go through them,however if u chose ur love for arrange marriage that will be graet!!!!!!

well its all abt your compatibility yaar.. whether its love or arrange.. compromises are same whether its love or arrange... but there is a advantage in love marriage that u knows yr partners very well and there is no case or misconceptions.. well baki u all know that Shaadi is laddu pachtana to padega he is liye khao chahe phir jaise bhi ....

as long as both can reach the maturity and try to be friends more and husband and wife -less. the relationship can be good.

You never can say which one is better. i have seen love marriages going end and same with arranged. but more lovemarriages. when we are talking about arranged, our parents or loved one r the big support for us. they will try to make their best to get help but in love marriage, u will be alone with your desions. i am married so i am telling with experiense. in every marriage life you must be flexible. no one will ever be same with you so have to accept other person as a ndividual. mostly i have heard that opposits alaway atracts but in long term it is very difficult to survive. both should have more then 50 % same thinking. this is very important and i wish you figure out his likes and dislikes before you get married to him. never give information to him what is ideal match for you..always listen him first! i wish you the best of luck in the future.

Rather than thinking of the choice the of kind of marriage to be love or arrange, you should concentrate on the compatibility with your future husband. Since if he makes a great husband and if you people are compatible and comfortable with each other and find a good understanding within yourself then arrange marriage is no less than love marriage. Just try to know him better.

Marriage is marriage! Well this is an approach! That the girl is selected by parents and elders.Other approach is that you look for and decide which girl fixes in your 'ideas' if she agree and you marry her you are successful and . If she refuses again you can be successful ,look for another one and if you donot find ,still you can be successful ask your parents to arrange one girl for you and forget the past and be in love.

Yes, I do agree. I've done Love Marriage & yes I can say proudly that it is better than arrange marriages. I've seen one case of arrange marriage which was broken cause of some reasons but stil, Love marriages are better.

hey, i think u shud jst stop thinking which one is better...both hav there pros n cons..common thing is that both tie u in a relationship, which is beautiful.rather thinking which one will work and which one will not, jst concentrate on current scenario and try to make it better. relationship, luv or arranged, need commitment and interest. it is a process. everything will be fine if u concentrate on the process rather making a conclusion urself or based on others views. Congratulation buddy .. u r into one of the most beautiful relationship now...N-Joy

yes because in arrange marriage , one important condition is remain that is love. its kind of compromise.because u have to love her after angagement.

NO.LOVE MARRIAGE IS NOT BETTER THAN ARRANGE.I STILL BELIEVE IN ORTHODOX ARRANGE MARRIAGE WHICH IS ARRANGED BY OUR PARENTS AND ELDERS.I BELIEVE LATTER IS LONG LASTING.........

i agree . love mariege is better than arange marrige its no anyone its hobiees its interst and no to each other is better

no matter it's arranged or loved marriage,after marriage hw u understand each other and how u support each other in bad situation that's important.after all in both love and arrange marriage u hv to do adjustment. so my dear friend plz dn't scared.............just enjoy ur married life.

It doesn't matter whether it's love marriage or arranged marriage. For any marriage to be successful, you have to work on it. Unless you love someone else, arranged marriage can work for you. And if you enter it, give it your 100%.



Love, trust and respect are the keys to a successful marriage. Even in arranged marriage, get to know the guy first. Arrange meetings, hang out together and you'll know whether it can work.

It doesnt matter if its love marriage or arranged marriage, its compatibility that matters. Compatibility between the boy and the girl, and in india compatibility between families of the boy and the girl is also necessary for a happy married life.



You dont have to be scared, tons of arranged marriages work and tons of love marriages fail and the converse to, it doesnt matter whether it is love or arranged marriage, what matters is how well do you give and take respect, trust and love.



So relax and have a lovely marriage.

In love marriage you know the family and culture well in advance so there is not issues related to adjustments

It doesn't matter whether it is love marriage or arranged... what matters did u find the partner suitable for you..??

When you think love marriage is better no need of asking about arranged marriage!!

I feel that for some people arranged suits well and for some love.. and dont ask which one works better?? it sounds as if you are looking for a job!!!

I think Love marriages are better as you know the short comes of your partner... At this time when there is alot of stress professionally i am relaxed that i know my partner well and i know that my partner will support me unconditional....

No I don't agree here... Love marriages gives you an edge over that you know your spouse's likings and dislikes well in advance....

Yes Kripa i agree with Saraansh , Arrange marriages are far better than love marriages... As expectations do not die....

Hi Kripa, I had an arrange marriage and I think i am lucky as my frds who had Love marriages they are not happy... :(