I am a very religious person but my husband is not. He often makes jokes about god infront of me even though he knows how I feel.
This has started affecting our relationship mentally, physically and emotionally. How do I get past this?

just ignore.god takes care of everything.believe that.

plz do pray for him too, god has given u double assignment to pray one for urself and second for ur husband, u a lucky person god gave u so nice responsibility..jus u think & believe in god, God is omnipotent & omnipresent.

just leave him the way he want and you also starts pretending that he has good thought ,he be surely surprised to see you this way n i am sure he d stop all this ..nonsence..everything has an end so ...just make him to the orgasm level ..

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See! First of all figure out, does he respect you or your feelings in other aspects of life or not.....If answer is yes then just ignore his behavior but if answer is NO...... I am afraid to say you are in trouble. He only cares for three persons in whole world. It's him, him and Mr. Kapoor. However this world is full of this kind of breeds of people, you are not the only one who is suffering. Put up your honest effort in order defuse the situation before giving up.

Religion is a touchy subject. It is wrong for your husband to ridicule your faith and dieties. It is mental immaturity. Many people show their superiority by ridiculing anything or everything specially religions. Your husband must show respect if not to your gods but at least to your feelings if he loves you. I believe that no religion is better than the other and no culture is superior than the other. They are just different.

Why didn't ur husband tell you before marriage that he is an atheist ?Then there would have been no issues. Religion is important for getting a good life.

Archana Dear,

Take it easy. Your husband does not understand the importance of being devotee. Please take my words, one day in your life will come, when he would be bound to bow his head before GOD's idol. He is unaware of the fact. There is a supreme power ruling this entire universe your husband might be thinking when there will be need, he will bow his head and he does not need at this time. When he says something about GOD, just ignore him.

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Here is this God whom you are with and you can see and feel him, and sleep with him (your husband). You married him and promised to remain loyal and be a good wife.AND there is this God you only believe in, never seen, never felt. You tell me who should be your God? And even if your husband makes fun of that GOD, don't worry, he can take any shit people throw at him! Remember He is GOD!

I stay in a place full of stray dogs and they bark whole night. (I am not joking, it is the truth.) In the beginning, my sleep used to get disturbed. Now I am used to it.



If you are really religious, try to ignore his behavior. He may be good to you in many other ways. You will get used to it and so he will. Do not spoil your health and break your marriage for this minor matter.

Your husband is an asshole.. You should try to make him understand how it is effecting you and the entire family. Hope your husband mends his way..

Strange that is causing problem. One should not make fun of other person's opinion. Probably, you should try and explain to him that you both have different opinions on God and that both should agree to disagree.

If this doesn't help, just ignore what ever he says about God. Try to change the topic when he starts making jokes on God.

ur relation is so...week.....shouldnt broke bcoz of sall reasons...

WHEN YOU CAN HAVE DIFFERENCES WITH YOUR HUBBY IT MEANS YOU ARE IGNORING HIM SO GO FOR ANOTHER

HAVE AN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR

my question on this ...when we trust god for all means ..trust for all..husband ji not out of the word "ALL" ..GOOD LUCK

plz do pray for him too, god has given u double assignment to pray one for urself and second for ur husband, u a lucky person god gave u so nice responsibility..raam raam ji

Archanaaji god has never been the rift of anything, god is ultimate power, man has to trust it, its the another matter how a person accepts the god, i.e. either after suffering a lot or normaly, u trust god for everything then plz do trust for this thing too, as much as he ll oppose god as much as god will live deeper and deeper in ur pure soul...jai ram ji ki

Well Archana, these thoughts or believes can't be pushed on someone. All you should do is stand for ur self. The next time ur husband make fun of ur believes you need to tell him that i don't belive the way you believe but still i don't make fun of you. I give respect to it so, the same way i also deserve the respect for my believes. Always remember if you would stand for god he would stand for you.

Your husband is an intellectual person.

As it is you have many Gods so he must have got confused as to whom should he actually follow or please. Then he must'nt be ready to absorb the various services and help your Gods take. So he also must be confused as to how can Gods be so like a human; 'helpless'.Gods in your religion gives room for more and more confusions rather than solutions as many intellects now a days beleive.

So instead of following such Gods why don't you both search for a true God; who leaves no room for fun???

Archana, Yes it hurts, when somebody like Husband mocks at Wife's God, but who is responsible for this, You only. Because the God whom you are believing/worshiping may be of Gold, Silver, Wood, Mud Statues and Pictures. Naturally, he will laugh and mock at you, being educated and well civilized believing/worshiping Demi gods certainly makes one to laugh and mock. So, first you search for Real, Loving and Living God, then certainly your Husband will never hurt you, but he will also start believing in God. If, you want to find the True and Real God, then please try to find Dr. Srinivas Battacharya and ask him, he will guide you in the right direction. May God bless you and guide you to find Him.

The prayer is feeling like good life..God is always great..

Every thing is going under supervision of GOD. so leave the all matter on GOD. He will help you if your mind is closed to GOd

God is in many forms. Change yourself. Love is God, Charity is God,Helping poors is god, Nature is god, Sea is god.Just go through Geeta you can know it has lot of forms. Just change your attitude. You cannot change others better to change your self. Just try !!!

insteed of doing welfare , humanity , most of the people wasting their time in god. better the people u tilise their valuable time in work, job, love,humanity,mercy etc.

Nobody can be sure of this "God" stuff. Those who believe in "God" cannot prove it and those who don't believe in "God" cannot prove that God does not exist. Its up to individual to decide how they want to live.

But one thing is sure to have a partner of the same believer otherwise relationship does not go well. That's why before marriage whether arranged marriage or love marriage one should make sure what is the partner's belief in this "God" matter.

Many times girls or boys continue to carry on family's religious stuff (fast, puja, baba and swami stuff etc.) without thinking whether its right or wrong.

I personally believe in the existence of "God" but I don't believe the religious stuff like puja, havan, baba, pujari, swami etc. at all.

Especially the commercialization of the temples, increased importance of baba, swami cult people is worrisome.

So bottom line is that you check your religious activity and if it is too much then put some break on that. Your husband may be joking about "God" to reduce your fear of "God" which forces you to do the religious stuff. So think positively about your husband's jokes about "God"

hi Archana handle the situation in a simple and devine way, how is that ? its simple, just controle ur senses and don't get nerves when he is making jokes abt god. just ignore his words with a smile, this will solve your problem.

and my personal advice Belief in god is good but please make sure that it is within the boundry

god is every where, he is supernatural power for us. he can be krishna, alha, jesus. This the way of god make human society to grow. All this are the super mighty's power. we all are part of god. So be cool and calm. Tell him god is like plane water, whatever color u mix it takes that color. what ever the shape u give it takes that shape. So it is u and he to decide what is good.

GOD cannot be mocked . But Husband is also a gift from GOD.

Pray for your husband religiously and GOD will show you a way . HE is almighty and will change his heart / mind and bring him to senses .

in marriage your love has to be unconditional and this will change the man you want to change

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Archana ji- Pranam,

Thank you for positing this question. You just ran me down the memory lane!.

I have lived with roommates for a big portion of my life. By the grace of almighty; i've always had atleast one roomie, who happens to be an atheist or an agnostic. On the contrary I am a devout Hindu.

My atheistic roomies are really close friends as well and they have really helped me become better devotees than any other devotee I have come across.



I was always made fun of for my devotion. In one such incident I was asked what good is it to do so much puja and why am I doing it. I was asked why I spend so much time for God and rituals. That is when I realized that I was spending time on such activities instead of devoting myself to god. From them on my devotion grew leaps and bounds. Everytime I do some spiritual or ritualistic activity my devotion is now more than it used to be earlier.



Here is a thought that helped me get past similar concern:

You being a devotee, i don't think I need to mention it, but here it goes "God will test us for our devotion".

No matter which form of the Bhraman you worship, he will test you. God is right now testing you by instigating your Husband to poke fun @ you and your devotion.

He is the Prerana and chetana within each form of life and can test us in any and every form we can imagine and in unimaginable forms as well.

Let the fun that your hubby makes be your source of inspiration. Can you imagine posting such a question on the web if not for his comments? Do you think so many devotees would have come to your rescue if not for the lords grace?

Every time your husband makes fun of you, remember that it is your beloved god who in the form of your husband is kaing fun.

If you look @ the great quote from Gita by lord krishna

"Bhramaarpanam, Bhramahave, Bhramagnou, Bhramanahutam........"

He is in everything, he is everything. Now if God makes fun of himself, what can we do?

The God in the form of your husband is making fun of himself in the form of you. He is making jokes about the things he makes you do. So what is wrong in that and how can it hurt you?



I am sorry for the long reply, but this thinking has helped me grow immensely.



Sarvam Sri Krishanaarpana mastu .

1) Perhaps he is annoyed about the fact that you are too religious. Sometimes some people don't like other being too religious. Not everybody can be religious.

2) He being your husband, you will have to find a compromising way of handling the situation.

3) From your name, you seem to be Hindu. Hinduism is a very broad and tolerant religion. It doesn't necessitate you to be rigourous in your day to day religious activities.

4) It is okay even if you have bhakti in your heart. You don't have to show it in front of your husband.

5) Study the philosophy of hindusim and not the religion of hindusim. Religion is about way of life, philosophy is about spiritual and mental development.

6) When you study Hindusim in proper perspective, it asks you to be tolerant about thousands of beliefs around you. No one belief can be accepted as 100% correct, but each one is correct in its own way. That is the reason why there are thousands of beliefs which co-exists within hinduism.

7) In Hinduism God will see the devotion in your heart and your good actions in life. Somehow doing prayers is not necessary. Even if you feed a poor hungry person it will be like a good prayer. Even you help a needy person, it will become a prayer in itself. you don't have to follow any rituals, you pray in heart it will be accepted as a valid prayer in hinduism. Remember Meera, Shabri and others. They did not follow any specific rituals, but still were considered to be most loved by God.

Hello Archana
I am very religious and God fearing person. My heart is open for you. You can walk in any time and I will close my doors and keep you in my heart permanently!
Oh God..please don't take it seriously! I was just joking seeing your pretty face. Well let let me tell you this:
Temporarily you start neglecting GOD. Don't do any religious activity and always be behind your hubby to take you out and make him to spend lavishly.Start neglecting and telling against GOD and make him to listen to your all bad comments about God. When he ask you tel him the same answers that he once use to give it to you. You will notice that he will talk positively about the GOD and you catch him to accept the reality of GOD!

Hi Archana,

I agree with Rakesh Raturi is saying, make him understand their is no matter if he hurt you by saying this because now negativity coming in your relationship which actually more important then this god topic, first you have to settle this then think abt others !!

you should know god can do what you canot do.

There are so many person in this world who think that he is great than god.

So, in the relationship of husband and wife some times thoughts can be differ so do not take it so seriously. The day u not do pooja ur husband will ask pl continue. Every one scare with the power of god.

Does it matter much to how worship God and what other think of it. See in his eyes and tell him that you love him as much as you love your God. After all our relationship with people determine what relationships we have with our God

u have only 2 option: ignore his words or talk to his/your parents regarding this..

See I feel if u worship god..try to do it privately not in front of your hubby..all hubby's want their wives to be modern..but still u can make him understand through brahamkumaris..they have very scientific and modern approach to god..

Dear Archana First u relalised them how important god in our life than also he not improve.Dont response on him

Dear Archana Ji



Being a Nastik (Disbeliever) is like a Rocket moving to unkonwn direction and aimless destination. All religions belive that a Super Power is controlling the natural phenomina , the whole universe and its creatures. If he still dont understand leave him alone and let him follow his own way. But I am proud of hearing from you being, god fearing and of course pious , I am sure, and I will pray for your husband to turn and remain Slave of the Almighty. at this stage you Relax and be peaceful. Almighty will show the right path to all of us. Good Luck.

Just ignore his comments because u have to live with ur hubby not with god

Dear Archana Madam, I can understand how it feels when someone, especially loved one, makes fun of your feelings. I shall suggest you to turn a deaf ear to these. You are a believer in God, you must keep faith in Him. The Supreme will punish everyone for their deeds. There is no escape in the court of the God.

to be unreligious is ok but to make fun or make other feel about being religious is something which is not good and create negativity in the relationship. you should make your understand that his approach towards god is not good specially talking negatively. make him one thing clear that you have no problem with his not being religious of believer of god and you accept that he does not believe in god but at the same time he should respect your feeling and at least for you sake, he should accept and respect your devotion towards god. he should participate in every small or big religious activity of yours just for you and his family instead making jokes about god. he must realise that his jokes hut his wife most and his every negative remarks about your god and devotion hut you deep in your heart. i think you will have a open and clear discussion on this with your husband, he will definetly understand and give due respect to your feeling. after all you are his wife and he love u. archana, this is all my personal experience . i m also nonbeliver on god but my wife is religous. i had been through this situation . believe my this will definetly work for you. try it.