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Gopala Chintakindi I donot know about others and I donot want to talk about other men. I am not ready to commit and I donot want to commit. So does that mean I am scare.. more
Santosh Ramachandr.. No Jia, what you say is not true, this is something you definitely cannot generalize. You cannot say all men are like this or all women are.. more
Topic owner: Jia Sen:
God created Men and women differently. So the way they express their feeling would be different. When a woman loves someone she can scream her heart out to let the world know about her feelings for the man. On contrary, for a man commitment means loss of freedom, the complexity of relations and struggle to maintain it. So when a guy is asked about commitments he either gets goose bumps or he would run away. Share your views on “ Men scared to commit”
Girish Ingale
this is all crap... there's nothing called as COMMITMENT...there's only 1thing when it comes to relationships...i.e. mutual understanding. No man can loose his freedom if his spouse is understanding and trusts him...same goes vice a versa... and let me ask all the women a question here... why is that only men are pointed with a finger when it comes to commitment ??? Is it that women are any-time ready to commit ??Is it that only women are the one who sacrifice their career and dreams and all that crap ? IF any woman here has a answer to this question ... we can continue the thread. !
Gopala Chintakindi
I donot know about others and I donot want to talk about other men. I am not ready to commit and I donot want to commit. So does that mean I am scared to commit. No,in fact, I do not want to commit now, I am not scared to commit. I am only looking for the right moment to commit and I am planning for it and preparing myself to face all the responsibilities that it brings. We must not generalize that all Men scared commit. In my life I came across many men who planned very well and then commited. They and I am not scared.
Girish Ingale
u are absolutely to the point Gopala ... cheers for u !
Gopala Chintakindi
Hi Satya,
Yes, I also understand that women of today can support men and take up responsibilities and I personally salute women who do so and respect them. What I mean to say is, you see as soon as I got a job, I donot want to commit. First thing, in my case commit means saying ok for marriage..so after marriage i want her to feel like home and give her happiness, love and joy, i maynot be able to fulfil all her dreams but will try to fulfil atleast few that I can. So before commit will want to do some saving..this just a example...like so i have few things which I wanna do before commit..like atleast get loan and take dream home for her..take a car for her...
Just a question, if you ask her working women to commit for a guy who doesnot have job, spends money alot, still depends on his parents...what does the working,well settled, the supportive gal will say?... i will be surely wait for your reply..
What I said is just my personal feelings and what my life taught me. I never intended to argue or prove you wrong Satya and if you feel so I am really sorry. It shows I am not good in English.
Bondalpaty Satyawa..
Yup...!! Most of the men don't like to commit until they are well settled with their job life's.... they think there will lot of responsibilities later lying alone on their shoulder's.....
But Gopala u also need to look into that tat these days even women work. They work to support their husbands in addition to taking care of household responsibilities alone which men most of the times escape to take care of .
Santosh Ramachandr..
No Jia, what you say is not true, this is something you definitely cannot generalize.
You cannot say all men are like this or all women are like this. In certain cases the guys not ready to commit and there are lots of cases where the girls not ready to commit.
Whoever is not ready to commit will get goose bumps when asked to commit, boy or girl. But the point I am making is this is case based, to make a statement like all men are not ready to commit is unfair. Definitely Men are not scared to commit to the right women.
Sunita H
True! You can't generalize the nature of men and women as typical. This depends totally on person to person and without any regards to gender. I have seen some guy who were ready to commit and take it to marriage. While there were some girl who used to do it all for temporary fun and vice verse were also there. But god really save from these commitment-phobic people.
Kripa Parekh
Well Nupur, its a universal truth that men are scared to commit... and there is no point is arguing Mr Karan
Govardhan Ks
Since women want money and status... Men have to think before they commit.. There is nothing scary.. making and breaking a relation doesn't take much time i guess..
Karan Ahuja
Well well well!!! Looks who is talking.... Girls are themselves not clear about what they want in life... Half of the time they waste in judging the guys ... and then they talk about commitments!!! hahhaha Its all so funny to see that girls blaming guys and calling them irresponsible...
Nupur Tripathy
True for a Man commitment means loss of freedom, they will have to stick to one partner... the biggest reason why do men turn their back on Commitments
Gopala Chintakindi
We can never say that is true for all men.
Zafar Iqbal
Hi Jia, its too partial to say that only Men are scared of Commitments... Women too have their own insecurities, trust issues before they really agree to get into any commitments... So why to blame men only...
