Ours is a serious love affairr, but we haven't had 'It' even once! 'Coz my bf of 2 years believe waiting for sex longer, as in when we will be married only then will strengthen and deepen our bond. Though I also understand him but off late i have started feeling sexual about him, I want to cuddle him, love him tease him..but he is so determined and strong on his front that i am unable to convince him. My friends have confused me all the more they say there is something wrong with him. I am so very upset. Don't know whom shud i speak to?

babe try this..the next time u guys r alone in a room..strip off all ur clothes..let him see u naked..if he is turned on den he will make luv 2 u..if hes unperturbed then the mothrfukr is gay...u shud dump his faggot aas n search a new guy !

hii anjali...tumhe to khush hona chahiye yar...he is soo determined to sex after marriage...varna aaj kal to phle sex karo n sadi pe???

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Hi Anjali, there cud be many reasons, some of them I will elaborate but first I'll tell you that plz dont have any doubt that this guy loves you from all his soul....

now coming to the reasons and resolution:

1st reason that you have already mentioned is that he is very strong on this front which is rare nowadays so cherish it.

2nd point is that he loves you so much that he might be afraid of hurting you and your feelings, you know what I mean

3rd point I guess he is too emotional about you and that's why he might be insecure and afraid that if he could not perform well then you might dump him and he definitely does not want that

4th Point you have not mentioned if you ever tried to seduce him, cuddling and teasing is normal in the relationship but did you ever try to go beyond that and if yes then what was his response. try seducing him you will know by his response if he likes it or gets irritated.

if he likes it but still stops you then he is strong but if he gets irritated and does not like it at all then you need to confront him. you can tell him that you respect his decision of not having sex before marriage but you also need to knw why he gets irritated. I making love is not only having intercourse between a man and woman. you still can enjoy being together and teasing & seducing each other without having sex.

This would build up the desire in your partner slowly but steadily I'm quite sure.

try these things and let me know...

I wish you all the luck and hats off to you for discussing such a personal matter on a forum

Hi Anjali, there cud be many reasons, some of them I will elaborate but first I'll tell you that plz dont have any doubt that this guy loves you from all his soul....

now coming to the reasons and resolution:

1st reason that you have already mentioned is that he is very strong on this front which is rare nowadays so cherish it.

2nd point is that he loves you so much that he might be afraid of hurting you and your feelings, you know what I mean

3rd point I guess he is too emotional about you and that's why he might be insecure and afraid that if he could not perform well then you might dump him and he definitely does not want that

4th Point you have not mentioned if you ever tried to seduce him, cuddling and teasing is normal in the relationship but did you ever try to go beyond that and if yes then what was his response. try seducing him you will know by his response if he likes it or gets irritated.

if he likes it but still stops you then he is strong but if he gets irritated and does not like it at all then you need to confront him. you can tell him that you respect his decision of not having sex before marriage but you also need to knw why he gets irritated. I making love is not only having intercourse between a man and woman. you still can enjoy being together and teasing & seducing each other without having sex.

This would build up the desire in your partner slowly but steadily I'm quite sure.

try these things and let me know...

I wish you all the luck and hats off to you for discussing such a personal matter on a forum

Hi Anjali, there cud be many reasons, some of them I will elaborate but first I'll tell you that plz dont have any doubt that this guy loves you from all his soul....

now coming to the reasons and resolution:

1st reason that you have already mentioned is that he is very strong on this front which is rare nowadays so cherish it.

2nd point is that he loves you so much that he might be afraid of hurting you and your feelings, you know what I mean

3rd point I guess he is too emotional about you and that's why he might be insecure and afraid that if he could not perform well then you might dump him and he definitely does not want that

4th Point you have not mentioned if you ever tried to seduce him, cuddling and teasing is normal in the relationship but did you ever try to go beyond that and if yes then what was his response. try seducing him you will know by his response if he likes it or gets irritated.

if he likes it but still stops you then he is strong but if he gets irritated and does not like it at all then you need to confront him. you can tell him that you respect his decision of not having sex before marriage but you also need to knw why he gets irritated. I making love is not only having intercourse between a man and woman. you still can enjoy being together and teasing & seducing each other without having sex.

This would build up the desire in your partner slowly but steadily I'm quite sure.

try these things and let me know...

I wish you all the luck and hats off to you for discussing such a personal matter on a forum

To catch a monkey you have to be monkey yourself, play your your own game and let him see, you will get your answer.

Anjali you decide first you want him for life partner or sex patner

Hi Anjali ! Don't worry. Time is the biggest medicine.

well, if your bf isnot a gay and if he loves, then why didnot he have sex with you? Is he frigidity???

He may be Impotent and the solution is that you should come to me, n i'll give u an unforgettable 69.

dont fear inder is here

Hi Anjali,

If you really love him,do not worry.After all waiting will definitely be good.In our land there is a saying-if you can wait till it boils it will definitely be worth it...

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dear Anjaki u have serious love affair,in fact love is nothing but attraction,it may be due to sex, or looking good wealth,need etc. this is the rule as every rule has exception ,therefore it has also exception ,some people never think to have sex with their love .or he is thinking in different way ,one cant evaluate human conduct, u r the right who can understand him if u r having that type of capacity,so if u want to have sex ,then marry him as early as possible

There must be something wrong with him.. Otherwise no man will miss an opportunity to have sex.

anjali ji;;;love happens wen we starts respecting feeling and personality...u r so lucky u got so strong bf..otherwise its rare to say no to...plesae understand ur bf..respect his decision..n support him..by doing this your love bond will bcome more strong and no doubt ur bf will admire u for ur support and it will work for whole ur life...congrats again u hv a self-determined person in ur life...good luck..convey my best of luck to ur bf tooooooooo

tel him ,i want to see your errection only ,if u will see errectioin , then tell him ,i want to see your sperm, than it so easy to get sexual enjoyment

Hey, love is an essential part of life. It's not a game . Now a days to get a true love is a very rare thing. N u r having one. Again emotion n passion , both r part of a love. Emotion,trust,care,honesty are an essential part. But passion also very vital. Sex is one of the essential part n parcel of love. Sex brings lovers more close to each other. U have said your Better half is not serious about it. It's a good philosophy of his to have sex after marraige. But life is full of turns. You have to change decision n philosophy time to time. I don't know ,as ur friends have said, If he has any problem or what. Try to persuade him n make him understand ur feeling. Hey don't take any decision in a hurry .....

Anjali u decide whts more imp for u? sex or love? if sex is imp than u better move on n find a better partner who can have sex wid u before marriage n if u choose love then u wud respect his decision... ur bf is not wrong the problem is in u.. ur sex hungry.. he is not lesbian.. but u want sex so u can sleep with anyone u wish to so u decide wht u want sex or love?? n ur frnds are the most cheapest in this world coz they suggest wrong things to u... rest is ur wish.. sex is more important over love then u go sleep with anyone.. else control urself.. or tell ur bf to get married asap so u can hav sex with him... post marriage

yes your friends are right, there must be some thing seriously wrong with him, with my knowleadge a man wants to make love on very first date, if he can help it. Ask him to seek Medical Help,or both of you go to Doctor together, with your love you can help him if he really got the problem. Last option don't waste your time with him,Move on

soory maine kabhi sex nahi kiya hai aur nahi koi meri girlfriend hai ? to mai us baare me kuch kah nahi skta jub karoonga tab kahoonga ok thanks

if u r so desparete for sex better u get marriage n njoy.

u r lcky to get such a person,

might be sure sm thing wrong as now days even on firts date guys think of sex.

he must be impotent

yuck!.....absolutely..I think you should recommend a therapist (all one word) and move on.

You are coming into your own (quite frequently by the looks of it)... you need to find an outlet (no pun intended)

HI Anjali, you are so lucky to have found him. You should worship him. He is the best thing to have ever happened to you. He feels nobody has seen future, should you two part for any reason, you shouldn't have any problem in marriage and after marriage

Anjali I think you are lucky to have such a guy who love u not your body he love u with soul not with....... in this case 90% chances are that this person is a thorough Gentelman and rest 10% .......... He is strong and have full control on himself

I think nothing to worry

If you truly love him then you should also respect his wishes otherwise there are chances that you will surely lose him.

Anjali you should agree with him other wise you will loose him.

Anjali you should agree with him other wise you will loose him.

I dont think he finds you hot. Sorry but truth does'nt sound any better. Period. I think he finds you too overbearing and has second opnions (not too sure) about you. If he was to be a gay/defective he would not have been in love.

Yes.... Somewhere is confusing .......... b/coze in this time rare boy has same kind attitue like you b/f, you must dig out the issue or realty from b/f via some diffrent ways ....... hope u r enough smart to get what i am saying .... But anjali try undersatand him also may he is realy storng with his will power ...... so when try to get realy so please opt the accurate way by which u can got realy or your b/f has should bot realised ......... I can understand that in your age might be have some sexual feeling for him ... but keep in mind if u realy love with him then please faith on just b/coze of your freinds advised you might be lost good lover ...... so give him time and ask regulary by diffrent ways but please make sure it you love life try make stong bond with him .............



and let me know the same after this act may be you get advantage or i would more suggest you.............

First of think on it…
If the situation would be opposite I mean If you were not ready to have sex with your BF before marriage then what would be the answers of other people? Will they say you lesbian or not? Will your BF thought that you have some problem or you are lesbian ?
I think no…..they always say that you are right but now here few people are saying that he may be gay etc.
I may understand your thought but dear you love him and as per my knowledge you know it better that whether he has some problem or not. There is no solution of doubts. You openly discuss with you BF about sex desires etc.
If some one is not ready for sex before marriage, then does it means that S/he is lesbian or gay or have some physical problem?
I think no. My dear he may also think about you that you have only sex desires with him and you don’t love him as he loves.
I want to say that If you got someone really good one in your life then please don’t try to lose him/her because its really very tough in today’s life to find or to have good one/lover/partner/friend.
As I think as per your text that He is not gay and don’t have any problem. There are some others reasons you may feel as you have spent some time with him.
I don’t oppose your sex desires with him but talk openly with him and try to understand each other instead of doubting each other.

I WANT TO SAY OTHERS THAT IT’S BETTER TO BE KEEP SILENT THEN CRITICIZE OTHERS.

Nothing to worry, give space to him.. Ve patience.. Till then do better work which is incomplete in ur life.. All the best.. God bless u.. Take care.....

its ur personal matter but there would be some reason for doing so try 2 understand

Keep patience dear. Healthy relationship doesn't need to be in hurry. Real Love doesn't need any criteria, any condition.It is his state of mind not to have sex before marriage so respect him for that.If you love him really,you will not force this and if he loves you really,he will certainly come to your point one day because if there is a deep love having commitment then sex will sure come naturally.Think aside and enjoy the relation dear. Love needs patience.

Hello Anjali,Please tell your boyfriend that only if there is real love will there be a real good sex encounter.You do not have to wait for so long to have sex.Waiting does not mean that "it" will be good.If both of you have the kind of warmth and the yearning ,then you will both find "it" so very good.Havent you seen the ad where the lady leans onto her man on the bike to nibble at his ears..It is not the condom alone but the warmth...

leave it and find another guy, who can satisfy you

pre marital sex is not good in our indian society,

if u r likely to marry ur bf, pl act as per his advice

if he is not convinced have with somebody u like don't stop because it like output necessary for ur inputs of food and emotions

sex is important it is like having akiss or coffee.With protection you can goto the border of sex and try to enjoy.Full enjoyment will come agfter years.First health should be all right.If necessary ur BF can have suhagra 50mg lower dose before one hr of action .His cock will sustain for hrs later and good pleasure physical

sex is important it is like having akiss or coffee.With protection you can goto the border of sex and try to enjoy.Full enjoyment will come agfter years.First health should be all right.If necessary ur BF can have suhagra 50mg lower dose before one hr of action .His cock will sustain for hrs later and good pleasure physical

i think its all about trust.

and sex desire differs from individual to individual.

stay cool everthing vl b all right.

If nothing is wrong as yr friends suspect, U are the lucky one to have such a nice frnd. Do not worry about that. That will happen automatically, if situation arises. Be happy.

ur bf is right

Keep patience dear. Healthy relationship doesn't need to be in hurry. Real Love doesn't need any criteria, any condition.It is his state of mind not to have sex before marriage so respect him for that.If you love him really,you will not force this and if he loves you really,he will certainly come to your point one day because if there is a deep love having commitment then sex will sure come naturally.Think aside and enjoy the relation dear. Love needs patience.

A true love never wants you or either your body it simply needs to be with you forever with no expectations, sex after marriage is no matter creates a stronger bond between the two proved scientificly and medically. So i appreciate the way your BF decided for your relation.I personally thinks you should respect this decision. My applauds to his decision...Also he is a very very nice guy so be with him always..

yes ,it is true love which never thought to have sex with the person having love it does not mean that it ist attraction but within early period it happen & is but natural , other wise i may say it is not true love but mere attraction

There could be one of the two reasons. Either your boyfriend has a resolute mind or he has different sexual orientation. In either situation it is better not to force him.

hi..Can anybody notice changing trends nowadays..men getting principled and women hurling for gratification...n figuring out him as having something wrong when its being not met with...Just one comment....He is great and loyal partner of lifetime..Dont leave him...baaki duniya ko aag laga do

He is either insecure about his features or just very principled. Dont know why u talk about it with him, corner him, undress him and ride him, any man in right senses will oblige, dont ask for it, turn him on, seduce him. If he still refuses, offer him a blow job and have him eat you out, dont have to engage in intercourse till after marriage. If he still refuses well masturbate infront of him, dont go over board, if he isn't a looser and happens to be a very principled person well he might dump you for being too much of a lustful slut.

I believe your bf is a nice guy. Very few will wait to jump into a pool when getting an invitation. Nothing is wrong with him, every thing is right in his head.

Dear Anjali,

It is not a matter of worry because something good becomes bad in hurry. U yourself are very much interested in life long relationship and "do sex only" can't create strong bonding of friendship. So first of all u should enjoy all experiences of friendship except sexual relationship. UR bf is right to a great extent.

If you are suspicious about his "stamina to have sex" then you should throw few intelligent challenges to him and let them accept . he will automatically fulfill your desire.

I agree with Sarah your bf is either gay or is having fun somewhere else, coz u don find such guys anymore. by the way where did u find him....coz as far as i knw all men are same n they only desire 1 thing from women that is physical intimacy.

Hi Anjali, I come from Europe and here we to have men and girls who chose not to have sex before marraige. Some of my male and female friends wear a bracelet to show they are celibate until marraige. This is accepted here as normal.

I think that love will break through and tell him you need love to reinforce your love for him. maybe he is gay and prefers men. I wish you well and please let me know what happens here or by a private message.

Sarahjane. xx

I guess its about personal choices more than whats right or wrong before you believe others, try and communicate with him on what you feel

anjali your bf is right you control yourself and don't listen to what your friends say be with your bf and wait for the day.

rare one, I must say either he is a very old fashioned lover or there is somthing fishy about it! Try finding out.