My boyfriend is a outgoing personality. So when girls are flriting with him he will first of all ignore it and then starts reciprocating and if i questions him he says that he is just being nice. How do I get over this. He says that it not called flirting but its my jealousy when i see him interacting with other girls? I sometimes feel that he is taking me for a ride. All men are same! flirt. and they can never change this attitude.

I would say that you are a bit jealous and if you don't get over this, you are going to have more problems when you get married because it is not easy to dump your husband like dumping your boyfriend.

hi,



yes immediately without loosing any time.the person who does not understand love and keeping befooling others can be very dangerous.instead you develop heathy habitsand spend time in developing your carrer.

vishnu chopra

why cannot you become a big flirt to see how he reacts??

Don't run after him but attract him towards yourself that he starts running after you. He is not your sole property as well you are not.Hence you may leave him and start with another one.But sweet lady,please be kind enough to analyse your's innerself's right or wrong,reasonable or unreasonable)Thou you can not change the basic nature of man who is born with animal instrinct and now many many girls too have the same insttinct lesser or more, time depends.

boys nhi girls flriting karti hai

u should dump him badly

So you want to dump your boyfriend because he is just flirting or jealousy...first ask this question to yourself.. and then you will know answer...some amount of flirting is ok..but too much that can even make you feel angry and awkward then there is a problem...and is your jealousy worth of losing your boyfriend..and one more thing..is this relationship is life long or just till pre- marriage so that you can use the EX word...if it is yes, then enjoy as much as you can and when you feel its time then just move on and find your love...if it for life long like marriage thing..then start talking to him..the only way you can change him is to talk with him..tell what you feel..if he loves you and respects your feelings..he will change..and being a man...stopping flirting is not at all a big thing once you have a lovely girlfriend/lover with you..

BETTER IGNORE A PERSON WHOM YOU DONOT LIKE AND DOT TRUST.EARLIER IS BETTER FOR YOUR LIFE SO THAT YOU DONOT FEEL ANY HURT/ SORRY AFFAIR AT A LATER STAGE .LOVE IS A LOVE AFTER ALL AND LOVE ONLY TO A PERSON WHO LOVES TRUELY TO YOU..

My sister has been in a relationship for over four and a half years now and loves the guy too much; but the problem is her boy friend abuses her a lot and at times beats her up too, but she is madly in love with him, what should she do ?jj

As you have said your boyfriend is an outgoing personality. I think he has a jolly nature as well. What I suggest to you is that don't take this thing seriuously & don't be negative. Its a part of his nature.

Dump or not its the later issue first let him know how you feel when he flirts with other woman. Its in human nature that one can not feel the pain of others unless one experience it.So give him a tit for tat. Just start ignoring him in front of other guys then only he can understand what you feel if not then dump him surely.

Dear Megha,

Why don't u thank God that u r not yet married to this boy friend of yours. I am REALLY PUZZLED, why can't you decide a so simple problem of yours? If every thing is visible to u what makes u to ask this question or think twice to dump this casanova.

First stop using ur heart at this junction of your life and instead make use of ur brain (believe me, it is a free gift from God), i think it will take a few seconds to show ur boyfriend his right place. DUMP YARD.

Answers to your questions -

"He says that it not called flirting but its my jealousy when i see him interacting with other girls?"

Well, tell him to get a reality check and correct his bearings. If he cant, then tell him it hurts your self esteem when you see him 'flirting' around ( whatever he may call it). If he still doesnt get the clue, then what are you waiting for? Dont just dump him, DUMP him. Ensure that he remembers this for life .

"I sometimes feel that he is taking me for a ride."

It depends on YOU whether you want to be taken for this ride. So talk to him once, get your concerns out, if things work then fine ... else .. send him to HELL.

"All men are same! flirt. and they can never change this attitude. "

-Dont generalize. Not all men are flirts. There are men in this world who respect women , treat them as equals, give them all respect that is due. One such person may well walk into your life, and then maybe you will realize how wrong you were, to judge all men in the same yardstick, simply because someone you loved did not cherish you, or respect you. Grow up young lady. Just because you brushed your hands on thorns doesnt mean that God forgot to make roses.

Lady, sometime you don't realize what you are doing. Its not necessary that he is flirting, he might be thinking that if you can why can' t he also.



I suggest follow the great words of a known personality " YOU HAVE TO BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD'



All the best



Himanshu

if u r really serious in continuing relationship with him, talk to him. if he really loves u, he should stop, or else he doesnt care about ur likeness. In latter case better part with him

what the hell are u thinking friend?throw this man out your life .teach him a lesson .If u love him truly it will be a painful decision for u. but u can"t live with a man like him.you will face difficulties when u will take decicisions about him in your coming future .but put your ears to your heart let your heart speak everything.and please be obedient your heart. i will pray to god for your relationship.Take care friend.

A friend is having full right to be friend of others ,also.I cannot under stand what is the problem. Is it a friendship or keeping a friend!

my advice would be dont 'get over it ! thats so stupid, why let someone get away with hurting you? but really, if you flirt around as revenge it probably wont make any difference, he already enjoys talking to the other girls anyway? tell him how u feel. Give him a chance but if he blows it, get rid of him ASAP

Sorry!! But its a fact that in the majority of cases flirting doesn't stop, but these guys make sure to do it in ways that they know are damn near impossible for you to figure out. I know this is a painful bit of reality, but it's reality nonetheless. I'm myself a victim of this and dealing with this issue with my boyfriend at the moment, and the problem with me is that I'm very forgiving and very patient. I love him for him, with all the pains. Hope this helps.

I tell you girl, Men who are flirts, generally remain flirts for life!!!!!!!. May be it doesn't always lead to physical encounters, but it can, and usually does, result in stepping over the line at least once.

well, It's difficult to answer this question. It sometimes depends on the guy. Some guys flirt with everyone. Some guys flirt only with the girls they like. The nature changes when these guys enter a relationship. They might stop flirting and develop some other characteristics. but in your case as you ahve said the guy doesnt stop flirting so i think its time taht you have a open heart conversation with him and may be if he is able to convince you then you can decide accordingly.. right:)