i m completing 2 yrs of my marriage...and my husband is completly a mumma's boy...which really hurts me a lot..:-( everything he needs to ask his mom..even whatever his moms says him to do he only do that thing...for every single thing he need to ask his mom...and his mom she is a clever and cunning and money minded...she is dominating, insecure bitch..i hate her...once my husband come back to home from work she is with her all the time.....no time for me:-( wht to do..i m hurt and fed up of her i want her to go away...i hate her.

aww.. dont worry babe..all u need to do is tke control of ur man..n the way to do dat is to perform oral sex on him for abt 2 weeks..after which he will crawling on his knees to to for more..then my lady ,the ball is in ur court

soon or later u will be a mom at that time u should ask this question to yourself i

the words u r using are itself explainatory that, how much space u have in ur heart for SENIORS, the person who hates anything can never get affection of anyone

girls should date first the mother of BOY if it is suitable then, they should date boys

Ms Swati.. I have a solution to your problem.. but I would like to know both the sides of the coin.. it often happens that people don't see the other side of the coin and get misguided.. if you really want the correct solution to your concern.. then just mail me @ "jonathan.rathnam@hotmail.com".... I'm sure you won't be disappointed...

arghh!!! why do people get married first and then find out who the person is thereafter? Didn't you date him first for a bit Ms Sharma? This whole fiasco reminds me of a cart trying to pull the horse..well, this will be a last ditch effort but try to be sultry n very sexy when your hubby comes home...hopefully, your mom in law won't be able to compete....and I say hopefully...ahah ahahahaa hahaha

If your sister-in-law have same opinion about your mother and husband what advise you going to give your sister-in-law

Accept your Mom_In_law is like your own mother then you will understand and i am sure then you will not hate her!!

Till the time SKUNKS like Mukesh Soni are alive; a woman cannot lead her life peacefully as she does not have any rights in front of their mothers. Why don't these bastards get married to their moms, if they cannot categorize between relations. Most men in India ARE of such types (hypocrites); and neither does your religions have any rulings or directives for the same. Best of Luck.

theses sort of things happens in every marriage , i think it is very difficult to change parents in this stituation ur hubby needs to be more mature and you need to motivate him. Agar aap usse or mother in law ko culprit bolengi to problem is going to aggravate only u need to take ur hubby in confidence and try to have ur point of view not forcely but lovingly.Yaar pyar se admi kuch bhi karne ko tyaar ho jata baas uske samne apni sas ki buarre na karke apni problem samjhane ki koshish kare

Don't be jealous dear. When you have children, you may also behave in the same way. Talk about this matter with your husband. An open talk will surely solve this problem.

Luv your mom in law as you love your mother.....and if you have a brother, understand how your mother would feel if your brother marries and listens only to his wife...poor guys...i have seen big joint families working so well.....why cant a guy love the mother (who is the reason for his existence) and his wife both equally?????

You forgot your duty, you are daughter to your parents in law, give them love & respect they deserve & see the change.

Golden rule is: What you will give, you will get in return.

I can understand Swati...but still he has mother who needs to be look after.U have a mother too and u will be a mother some day.Try to do the same thing what your husband is doing now.give more and more importance to ur mother in law so that u will feel happy ur husband will feel happy than ur mother in law will feel happy as well than u will gain the trust from your husband too and he will start liking.Dont try to go in the reverse direction of the water.But do everything from your heaart so that u will get full satisfaction and feel good.Initially it will be bit difficult but gradually u will love to do it once u see the result...Bye n all the best...

You all dirty crabs, how dare you to call our mothers bitches. Give respect and take respect. Who will believe todays surpanakas. Todays world mother is the only women we can trust in our life. You all surpanakas are gold diggers and your only motive is money .. sex money...sex and for this you will do anything. . As soon as you come to our life the first thing you are doing is kick out our innocent parents from their own house. You will file dowry, d.v and all other nonsenses against us and put us in jail. Still you are calling us mamas boy and bitches. Do you want us to be a henpecked husband who will dance at your tone. Shame on you dirty crabs. Wait some one will come very soon to your life also to call you witches and file dowry, d.v cases against you. We MRAs will teach you lesson very soon. Tit for tat...

it shows that ur boring and that's why he is not taking any interest on you.

Hi Swati... Feeling very bad to hear about the situation u r going through. i have also been through the same problem which then finally broke up my marriage.... These insecure mothers cant leave their sons ever. i dont understand why they allow them to get married if they r so happy to play the role of their better halves themselves. And mostly its the boy's unmindfulness that he cannot manage the condition. And once a Mama's boy.. will always be the same. So not much chance of improvement in such situation.

i hate this term. gone through the same. forget it n forgive ur bitch. She is not worth ur attention. pay more attention to ur hubby hand pack him n then annoy him when it comes to her hahahahha take a chill pill. let them burn u need to relax

hi swati.. i gues what ever you wrote about your MIL , you wrote it in frustration and your husband not spending more time with you. as few of other friends suggested you two can go for short trip and there get more close and share your feelings and let him know that he needs to give you more time. but before telling all this to your husband you better be little close to your MIL or ur hubby may get you wrong.



another way would be you too ignore your husband fore few days (atleast act as if your ignoring him) when ever he is around keep yourself busy. when he try to be with you , you go and sit with MIL. do this for few days till your hubby himself asks you why your not spending time with him

Dear swati,

You need to do somethings, first of all dont abuse her. because after her son marriage she feel unsecure, so that she always keep her son withher. You also follow your husband way, you dont do anything without asking her, You spend time with your mother in law. Family life is full of give and take policy only. If you hurt your mother in law, it will hurt your husband also. Take him away for some outing. Show some other happy husband and wife .........if also he is not turn from mummas boy ... I will give great advise......to you write me to my email ......that is secret that i cannot disclose publically. webincometoday@gmail.com

First of all stop abusing your elders.... this shows your level which is going negative.



Secondly,,,, you can never achieve any person if u will react with poison heart specially against anyone's mother in the world.



You need to adapt yourself into your hubby's liking, number one her mother... love her mother without any condition, expectation, in presence, without presence.. automatically things will improve.



Every person has/have their idols if it is his mother then what is the harm in it ? Now don't think you also have mother and your mother also remains in limit etc etc... every person can't be same as other.



Boy always love her wife..,...if that wife loves his family members more than him.... u will automatically achieve him

I would respect you, if you admire and respect what i love the most. Its human nature. I know its asking for too much at this point, but if you evidently show respect to his mom in his presence or absence, your hubby would start respecting you as an individual. Also, If at all your M-I-L is bitching behind your back to ur husband, your husband wouldnt believe its true.

I understand you do not like ur m-i-l, but showing love and respect might help u. It sounds filmy, but its practical. U need a bit of patience to do that. Also, theres no time frame in this suggestion that in 2 months time, ul succeed. But, if u want to be in a win-win situation, this seems best to me. All the best

try to attact him to ur side n in night show ur love n affection... wth sexy dress up or etc....

Some guys never grow up but here being his soul partner U should try & talk the same with him also, 2 years in marriage is like new try n device certain methods to entice him in your room he anting to "come" near U just before retiring for the day. Hope U understood my msg & the meaning b/h the same.

Every boy is a mama's boy, but that does not mean that he can't be your boy, work for it, without hurting mama, because it is the motherly love of more than 2 decades that wont go soon, and yours is just of 2 years only, it will take time. Tackle every single game of hers with utmost care without hurting your h'band, that is the test. Come on give it a try, do not show your fear to anyone, that is your strength, if they get to know about your fear, than you shall subjected to more harsh treatment. Therefore tread carefully.

Is it possible that you and your hubby go on an outdoor romantic trip (preferably abroad) there u can very subtly (without hurting his feelings about his mom) convey ur msg. He will be away from his mom and will spend max time wid u. A good sex also can be a solution. Mainly, because it will get you two closer to each other.



One more suggestion would be, if ur husband has brother(s), u can somehow send ur Mother in law there for sometime.
But whatever u do, keep in mind that you do not lose ur head over his mom or utter negative things about his mom to ur husband, then it will become very difficult for u two to be together.
Respect his mother infront of ur husband, that might make him respect you.

u have to control him and u can do it if u thik

Make him your boy. It may take some time but not very difficult for a educated lady.