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Sugata S There is only one solution to abuse physical or mental is to walk out of that relationship. Of course one tries whatever is possible to save it b.. more
Jeffrey Dsouza It is so sad and heart breaking to hear about such a thing. Just inquiring...this issue is definitely shared with you by your sister. But is she aski.. more
Topic owner: Meher Dastoor:
My sister has been in a relationship for over four and a half years now and loves the guy too much; but the problem is her boy friend abuses her a lot and at times beats her up too, but she is madly in love with him, what should she do ?
Dhaval Bhatt
that's call love yar..........................
Kannika Tchobe
Yeah?...Because love is someone who abuse u and beat the crap out of u? Well thank God all men are NOT all the same, abusive, violent, selfish, ignorent, creeps then...
Kannika Tchobe
She should leave him ASAP!! Women need to respect themself and not allow any man to abuse them...Why does she love someone who doesn't respect her and abuses her? There is nothing about him that is lovable to me...he will never stop unless she finds her courage and dump him for good...
Dhaval Bhatt
nice ...................
be positive..............
Masattar Sattar
abusing is common but should be very mild but not by words..beating less than 1st degree is even not acceptable .. your sister loves the acts not forcefully it her wish but it will cost her.
K K
Meher: Very simple answer. Let your sis have sex with this abusive boyfriend with few scratches here and there. Walk coolly to any police station and file complaint of IPC 376 or to so many of the kiosks at every local stations named women, child and elder abuse. Get a medical checkup be ordered and the boyfriend will live in hell for several years to come. PM me to see how you can earn for the torture and abuse.
Sufymast India
ASK YOUR SISTER TO LOOK FOR A CHANGE GO FOR A NEW GUY WHO CAN B LOVIN AND KEEP HER HAPPY AS LIFE IS ONCE DONT WASTE WITH A GUY WHO DOESNT NO WAT A RELATION MEANS
Sufymast India
ASK YOUR SISTER TO LOOK FOR A CHANGE GO FOR A NEW GUY WHO CAN B LOVIN AND KEEP HER HAPPY AS LIFE IS ONCE DONT WASTE WITH A GUY WHO DOESNT NO WAT A RELATION MEANS
Virendra Kumar Chu..
Idon't know any departmental store in MUMBAI where you can BUY an ounce of BRAINS. She should have kicked that kind of boyfriend from her life at his first attempt of behavior of this kind. Least said is more understood, SHE SHOULD USE BRAINS INSTEAD OF HEART AND IF SHE DOES NOT HAVE HER OWN THEN BEG , BORROW OR STEAL. SORRY TO SAY HARD WORDS, BUT THEN WHAT FOR FRIENDS ARE THERE?
Vikram Sharma
Real Madness, she is beaten up abused,two things ! want to set him right--just give him good beating,either he will be alright or he will leave your sister or you take your sister to the doctor to treate her madness.
Sunita H
If its regular then take this guy to a doctor and give hm a treatment still if that doesn't work then leave him because he is not worth any ones love.
Fathema S
Its mentally demeaning,deterimental to ones life,health,career,self esteem to be in abusive relations. Love is mental and physical emotions which are controllled by abusers in abusive relationships. The lady needs to be helped immediately,be mentally strong and come out from the relationship.
Rohit Ddd
No man who beats his woman is worth it... especially when it happens over and over again ... thre are plenty of fish in the sea ... she will find someone who will kiss the ground she walks on ... tell her to give him a kick on his back-side and just walk out ... there are plenty of us "Hopeless romantics" to cherish her ... :) ... all the best!
Jeffrey Dsouza
It is so sad and heart breaking to hear about such a thing. Just inquiring...this issue is definitely shared with you by your sister. But is she asking the question that you have posted? There are always reasons for such outbreaks of temper or anger. Both parties should sit with a counselor and get some things out in the open so that a solution can be found and applied. That is my suggestion.
Meher Dastoor
Well more than her i am asking this as i am worried, she cannot make up her mind and has been suffering so much. Thanx for your honest suggestion i really like it will speak to my sis and let u know. thanx jeffrey
Sugata S
There is only one solution to abuse physical or mental is to
walk out of that relationship. Of course one tries whatever is possible to save it before walking but abusive people rarely change. Your sister can try a short term solution by cutting this guy off for couple of weeks and see how he reacts.
Best
Sugata
Prashanth Kumar
Yes, walking out is the best soln in any abusive relationships. There were incidences like Rihana & one highschooler in usa. She tolerated his abuse for a while & quit his relationship. He raped her when she had to report to the school authorities. He was under home detention when one day he escaped & shot her in the face waiting near her home driveway. She has undergone several facial reconstruction surgeries to survive. He was sentenced to life. She is talking abt her domestic abuse on tv shows & raising awareness.
Sugata S
i see if the guy is stalking then she has to be really careful and take all help necessary including physical protection. stalkers are psychologically intense and unpredictable. is she still continuing this relationship.
Meher Dastoor
thanx sugata, thats what i tell her to walk out of it asap. She did cut off with him and he got really wild and stalked her everywhere
