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Avinash Gudapati ask her, if she is looking for divorce from you. If yes, kick her out of your life by divorcing her. If no, say her it's your order to keep away.. more
Tue, 10 Jan, 2012
Danny Singh This is very dangerous situation. You cannot do anything. It depends upon your wife whether she want to save her marriage. Time will take its own cou.. more
Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Pankaj Rana
Topic owner: Pankaj Rana:

There's a single man staying in our neighbourhood and i don't like him at all. Of late, he's been coming to our house very often, when i told my wife that he's not a great man, she kind of defended him and I didn't like that at all... Now i dont know what's cooking between them and i'm not even sure what if when I'm out for work, they hang out together.

Pls help me friends, how should i tackle this situation. Will confronting my wife on this help or kill my married life?

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
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on Sat, 19 May, 2012
Peter Pan
Peter Pan

Trust is the most important aspect of any relationship. The day you start doubting your partner life is hell. Instead of spying, befreinding the neighbour bla bla take your wife in confidence and ask her what she is upto........after all you are husband-wife and these type of situation occurr....so just chill ignore that idiot and ask your wife to stay away from him.

on Fri, 17 Feb, 2012
Rahul Nair
Rahul Nair

If you are so concerned just tell your wife you dont like this guy coming home nor she being too friendly to him. Once you say this then the onus is on her to do as you say. If she dosnt then you can talk to her parents or have a fight. But what ever u do , dont let her know you doubt her, it will ruin everything .

on Sun, 29 Jan, 2012
Benkooks Dsilva
Benkooks Dsilva

u have to give her a confindence that u r the best man...for her...in bed...& also a great care taker.....

on Sat, 28 Jan, 2012
Prashanth Cp
Prashanth Cp

Unless u r sure there is something going on between them, it is not wise to confront ur wife on this as it will destroy ur marriage. So put a spycam in your house.

on Mon, 23 Jan, 2012
Avinash Gudapati
Avinash Gudapati

ask her, if she is looking for divorce from you. If yes, kick her out of your life by divorcing her. If no, say her it's your order to keep away from that stranger in-order to save her marriage with you. This will surely helps you to knew whats going on & how is your wife looking at the things and future.

on Tue, 10 Jan, 2012
Avinash Gudapati

Yes karan, It helps directly Pankaj to know, How much his wife is actually committed to him & their marriage promise.

on Wed, 25 Jan, 2012
Karan Shah

agree with u avinash....he should do the same thing...either my way or highway

on Wed, 18 Jan, 2012
Vivek Govila
Vivek Govila

I think you are not sure yourself yet. First be sure that they actually are involved before taking any drastic step. First thing can be, try to talk to your wife and understand what is attracting her towards him.

May be your thinking is true and the reason could be you do not have time for her. Talking to your wife about this could be an option to clear all your doubts.

on Sat, 07 Jan, 2012
Ram P
Ram P

Be extremely nice to the guy, and befriend him, to see if he shows any interest to your wife. At the same time, before your wife, do not pretend you know anything! See anything comes out. The last resort is to ask some close friends to spy on him and your wife to see if he contacts your wife, or comes to your place while you are out! If he does, warn him through others first, and then also through some one else warn your wife of deadly consequences of any such relationships outside marriage.

Whatever the case, your suspicions must be cleared!

on Sat, 07 Jan, 2012
Ahmed Ali
Ahmed Ali

this is fault of u not ur wife, becoz u dont hav time 4 her

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
Ahmed Ali
Ahmed Ali

saale tujhe sharm nhi aa rhi he ye natak krte hue, logo ko pagal bna rha he, apni or attract krne k liye,

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
Ahmed Ali
Ahmed Ali

saale tu he hi aisa to tabi teri wife ki or k sath ..............smjha na?

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
Sahzad Khan
Sahzad Khan

dont worry...u also enjoy

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
Harsh Asha
Harsh Asha

Hay,Pankaj don't kill ur married life..

on Wed, 04 Jan, 2012
Pankaj Mhatre
Pankaj Mhatre

Also Frnd Make sure its not Just doubt Coz when matter goes in court jury wont entertain the plea if it is based on the doubt you have to bring the proof of it TRY TO CLEAR THE DOUBT FIRST

on Wed, 04 Jan, 2012
Pankaj Mhatre
Pankaj Mhatre

Dear PANKAJ

Please hire investigator or give investigation job to his friend or simply ask to watchmen they know everything If u want more councelling contact me on pankajthelegend@gmail.com

on Wed, 04 Jan, 2012
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on Wed, 04 Jan, 2012
Shankar Puri
Shankar Puri

wife swapping its open secrete is cooking and your knowing it very well.

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Manoj Kumar
Manoj Kumar

I will suggest to buy some medicine to paralyze his testicles and feed him secretly.

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Imcool Sap
Imcool Sap

smack his balls man..so that he cannot have sex

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Jitender Bhadana
Jitender Bhadana

2 latth maar uski kamar pe. sab theek ho jayega.



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on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Manish Kumar
Manish Kumar

rana ji be a man tell ur wife don't have any relation with this man if and tell ur neighbour stay away from ur wife,if ur wife not listen to u then better tell her find her on way

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Rahul Bha
Rahul Bha

I'd study her body language....I'd ask myself does she have a smile on her face when she talks to me or has that changed recently...these things will tell you a lot about how she feels about you as of late...But honestly, the question you should be asking yourself is, what if your wife is, in fact, cheating on you... would you have the guts to walk away from a bad relationship? Only then can you really handle this situation like a man with authority, rather than how you are handling it now.

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Santosh Goyka
Santosh Goyka

I will suggest u some thing which requires enough daring....... i would advice u to play a drama...... one evening bring one of ur girl friend who can help u to ur home and introduce her to ur wife as ur new friend who lives near by ur home..... just as that neighbour, find ur wifes reaction.... which will give clue of what ur wife has in mind for you. you can take a decision on whether to stay in marriage or take a divorce...... because today married women can very easily find a relationship outside marriage....... it all depends upon whether u can live along with it. If it happens once with some one it can happen again...... the craving for another person is such damnnnn thing which makes it again and again. When ur wife sees u with another girl she should realise to save her marriage with you..... if she wants to quit out then it is better u sort ur things out in ur favour....... good luck

on Tue, 03 Jan, 2012
Rupesh Awari

Santosh's advice will work

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
Balaji Reddy
Balaji Reddy

Hi Pankaj,

In journey of our life, we are not thinking about the people who respect us or we are not showing more care towards them. And one more important thing we are doing is "we are loving the "Things" not the "Humans".......I mean we are giving more importance to the things around us other than humans/relationship......
Here what i am trying to say is, I think you might be showing less interest/love/care towards her or she is not satisfied with the dialy things happening around her or she might be having some bad background/feelings or she is interested in something else you might not be knowing......


Best thing you could do is just love her more than what you are showing now. Please don not discourage her at any situation. Try to show more interest/care/love towards her and her friends/relationship........if possible try to call her for every hour and talk with for few seconds.....so that will not get divert towards any other things and also if she has any such kind of feelings then she would feel shy/fear to do........

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Raman Singh
Raman Singh

Suspicion can kill best of RELATIONSHIPS/ marriages , so take all precautions ,maybe your wife is innocent ,this man be the culprit in spoiling your life .TAKE CARE .

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Raman Singh
Raman Singh

Dont let doubts get into your mind without proof .Hire a detective to spy on him .This will ensure your doubts .When u get proof you can confront first this man and then your wife .S

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Rajesh Verma
Rajesh Verma

If u can talk openly to her then talk only when u think that it will not disturb your life otherwife leave her over her consicese. And daily write a good ideas over a wall and read it.Doubt are the words of hell of a family. Don't doubt and think good for her.

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Armaan Shah
Armaan Shah

Hii, As you telling you are not sure tht they both have any other relation coz u didnt seen them any wrong sisuation, and frst of all u need to understand your wise coz u have full rights on her instead of tht man ... if she dont like to meet then you both can tell tht man to dont come in your home ...

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Manoj Menon
Manoj Menon

This is a little. pankaj, talk to this guy direct and tell him in a nice manner that you don't like the situation. If he does not heed to your words, find where he is working and be a real pain in his arse. Instill a fear in him that he will be exposed in front of his colleagues. And your wife, take to some favourite place of hers(outdoors) and to talk to her and tell about your concerns, the consequences and of course ask her what he have that you lacks. If she not listening to you, shove her off. She is either irresponsible insensible stupid women or a nymphomaniac.

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Neema Patheja
Neema Patheja

Try to ascertain if your wife is not happy with you or why is she taking so much in favour of that particular neighbour whom you don't like at all. discuss with him calmly instead of misunderstanding her. im sure it'll sail smooth. good Luck.

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Rupesh Awari

naaa.........., not a good suggetion, even if she doesnt like her husband, is it acceptable to have an affair with soneone. if it is the case, why she married her

on Thu, 05 Jan, 2012
A V Subramanya
A V Subramanya

when she is not getting what she wants from you, it is possible that she may get attracted to this type of relations. You have to analyze yourself where you are lacking. Today's women are not what they were 50 years back. They now know what they want and how to get it. The ball is in your court.

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Rashmeet Brar

hmmm, yes this is also one of the possibility that you need to consider my dear. Save ur marriage before it's too late

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Balram Singh
Balram Singh

hi

this is really going to screw ur marriage life .... its very difficult for a man who want to save his marriage life. i know what situation u r facing on ....

better change ur home n kick that m...f..after that and ur wife should not know about this.

and try to spend more time at home and n give ur wife some treat to become closer to her so that c will not feel ur missing.

take care

bye

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Rajveer Singh

@balram: you've said a very valid point. instead of creating confusions between u and ur partner.. one should try and find a solution and make things work. hope Pankaj gets his way out too

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Danny Singh
Danny Singh

This is very dangerous situation. You cannot do anything. It depends upon your wife whether she want to save her marriage. Time will take its own course. Why dont you start one for yourself.

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
Ananya Rathod

@danny: I quite liked ur advice but i dont really agree with the second part. why do you think that if the male partner would star a fling for himself, it can do anything good to his relationship?

on Mon, 02 Jan, 2012
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