Is Physical Relationship really that important in a marriage that one has to work towards that even if someone does not have that much of inclination when things are not happening well at emotional level between the 2 partners . I mean isn't it important that physical relationship would be really satisfying only when first there is a complete emotional bonding between the partners . In India many people actually suggest a couple who are having some compatibility issues to have more of physical relationship to increase that bonding. Isn't that weird ? I mean when you are not having the emotional bonding & you just for the heck of it get physically intimate .As a matter of fact physical initimacy should only be followed by initial emotional intimacy . Someone has aptly said that " Don't marry a person you want to sleep with .Marry a person you want to wake up with " . What a lovely saying - so true & so much against the normal belief specially in our Indian social system that " Just do it " even if you do not feel like that . Amazing . It happens ony in India

if you are not married dont think about it too much.. coz you will never be able to visualize the real sex deal before you get into it.

Marital sex is bliss if couple is in love,it can make love grow deeper..its a burden for couple who have really disturbed relationship like in domestic violence cases.. or in non serious relationships... one night stands, no strings attached relationship or on chat these days sex has nothing to do with deepening the bond..its all for fun..

I always believe that there is no such thing called as a guideline in a relationship. Every relationship is unique in its own way as it is based on the qualities of the respective person in a relationship. Our emotions are subconsciously prioritized within us. For Eg., I mean, for someone, self respect might be of utmost importance as compared to the other person who is ready to compromise on self respect for good sex (not rape). No one is right or wrong here because of the priorities we make in our minds.

It’s a proven fact that sex can act as a very good agent to remove tensions and stress in relationships. When there is a fight between a couple, there is something known as make-up sex, which can heal the fight which I believe is mainly because Sex takes the relationship to a next level and brings respect in your partner.

I am from the same school of thought where it’s hard for me to think of sex with my partner if the relationship is turmoil, but there are cases where sex has improved relationships. So, if it doesn’t work for me doesn’t mean it can’t work for someone else.

PS: The above comment mentioned on sex is purely between a couple in a serious relationship and not between a man and a hooker or otherwise where emotions won’t count.

My response is to Mg Aga ji's reply. Aga ji I have said the same words what you have raised. "When the couple are not on the same mental level due to friction....". 'Breaching of feelings' falls under this term.

Physical realtion bonds two people more strongly. It is the epitomy of expression of love though it is not love in itself. When the couple are not on same mental level due to friction, sadness, mental anguish, sickness or death in family or friends, sex is the first thing that goes out the window. It is the last thing one one's mind in such circumstances. It is understandable and acceptable. But in normal circumstances and good healthy relationship there is no valid reason to avoid intimacy. 'Not in the mood' or 'don't feel like it' should not be a perpetual excuse. Nobody gets a lifelong headache. When something goes wrong in relation, sex is the first casualty but it should not be turned in to a lifelong casualty. Men and women are not like pets, bring home, tie it, provide food, water and shelter and forget it.

A unsatisfied mind never be satisfied with any thing. In family life partner should respect the feeling of others. About India culture marriage is not the name of sleeping with partner. A good partner respect, care each other. The life is no means to live and think for your self only.

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What are the issues you really want to discuss..? I am not able to understand.

See there r two aspects of it..one is arranged maariage,one is love marriage... in love marriage u know ur partner well..u feel the emotional bonding then u choose to marry and sleep with the personnn..which is absolutely ur choice...in arranged marriages also these days u get time to know each other..if u feel the spark..if u like the person u marry that person..yah in arranged marriage u develop bonding with course of time..initially u have to sleep with ur partner sometimes unwillingly..becoz people around you expect to u to have babies after marriage..so physical relation is imp...to an extent it is true that both partners feel happy n satisfied with good physical relation..

You wrote a question and you yourself answered it; What now???