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Rahul Grover I do not understand on what basis / research / study this discussion has been initiated. Can someone pls tell me why? more
Kainat Mirza mothers responsible for destruction? what the hell is this. they always save kids from the wicked world. more
Topic owner: Mj Aga:
Mothers typically are the main cause of destruction in their Children's lives; be it a male or female child.. Father may not be so instrumental; but he too has a role in it.
Please be honest in your comments.
Kavita Kalra
too a big extent u r rite n dis is specially wen a mother is a housewife as she spends a lot more time wid kids dan father does.........n meanwhile she becomes overpossessive n dis causes d trouble.....
Anupamgehlot Gehlo..
I agree that it is often seen that women in india don't know where to take a little break from their children's life.They become so over possessive with the fact that she has forgets that now children are grown up and they need to take their own decisions,one can guide them but cannot impose ur decisions on them.A girl or a boys (any)mother both should refrain from interference after their marriage so that in-laws relationship is healthy.Fathers are much better as far as child's social manners are concerned.A father teaches survival rules and makes a child bold an independent.He is a mentor in child's life mother can only touch the sensitive nature of the child.
Anand Dadlani
i think it should be vice versa. Usually, fathers spend lesser time with kids at home and at times, this vacuum leads to spoiling children's lives. how can u blame mothers???
Mj Aga
Fathers are a part of the issue. The vacuum does cause a gap but then most of the time that is harmless. I am talking about a fact that is always overlooked. For e.g. a mothers over possessiveness with the children often drives the wives in an insecurity and most of the time triggers a cold war. I don't mean that all mothers are like that; you may be a fortunate one, but most of the time; thats the story.
Kainat Mirza
mothers responsible for destruction? what the hell is this. they always save kids from the wicked world.
Mj Aga
And in the process they forget when their border ends. You mean to say children with out mothers/parents die? or are never safe and secure???
Rahul Grover
I do not understand on what basis / research / study this discussion has been initiated. Can someone pls tell me why?
Mj Aga
As Ms.Tina MAthur has mentioned that Mothers are too soft in their approach. Many mothers later in life take the advantage of that and dominate their Sons or Daughters lives. Why is there always a problem after a person gets married? Many daughters married lives are also governed by the mothers cauzing a hell lot of trouble for their own children. We indians are over emotional fools and so the advantage goes to the Mother. I found this culprit wrapped in the cover of Love & Affection, hence I thought of highlighting the cause. Weather you admit or not!!!
Joe D'silva
I agree as mothers are mainly responsible for pampering and spoiling their children.Our closest family friends.....here the mother has thoroughly spoilt the child by giving in to all his needs since childhood/ developing a dislike toanyone trying to correct the child.Now at 20 years he is a lost case and has dropped out of third year engineering college and is seeking admission in another city.The old adage"Spare the rod and spoil the child" is apt.
Maheshgh1969
May be sometimes. They try to dominate their son/daughter thinking that he needs them now too.
Tina Mathur
I dont agree with you Mahesh. mom's are way too soft in their approach towards kids. Father are quite harsh and may try to dominate the kids
