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Relationships are complex equations.......!!!!!! Can anyone tell me why is it said so? plzz ellaborate and explain me....
love the world whole-heartedly---world will love us in the same way...relation is a small part of it....good day
love the world whole-heartedly---world will love us in the same way...relation is a small part of it....good day
nothing in the world is complex..it is the way we takes...in relations we have to knit every thread with respect, which needs patience and self honesty,,,we usually anticipates honesty from others but wen our turns comes, it bcomes ?..
relationships are wonderful...provided you know how to enjoi and respect relations.....else everything is complicated....leave apart relations...
YEP agreed indeed.......
Relationships are as per the individual person, how he / she takes it . It is according to him / her what the situation is very complex or very easy to handle
yes agreed nupur.. thanks for the reply..
Nothing is complex if you understand what your relationship is with anybody... everyone wants his wife or husband or son or friend or whoever he is related to to act or behave in a way he or she wants them to behave. But the other person also will have his own desires or opinions about how he/she must behave and also those who are related to him must behave. So this causes contradictions and conflict of interests.
truely agreed to wht u said..
Hi Supriya , i think it is very complicated question.but normally we we see it isvery hard to manage/hide with your partner either male or female and to hide her you shall used to lot of lie statement, illustration/demonstration however truth never can be hide by any means,as well as "Dhokhe kee chiriya kabhi na kabhi to phasegi." .... more.
thanks Priya for ur reply..
nothing dear .....a bond where only expectation lies and that made us cry when we perform away from this platform....
thanks for ur reply Arun
Relationships are complex towards the start but over a period of time, it becomes as simple and shallow as water. They say when a couple are in a relation for sometime, they think like each other. It becomes easier for both to understand the expectations of other partner.
thanks Peter for ur reply.....
relationship are very simple,because it only matters me inside,i know i am pure in heart.
nice reply SK thanks for ur comments
dear supriya, once you try, live the world aside and honsetly think +ve for any one you like in your heart,you will get the +ve.
nice reply.........
dear supriya,relationship are very simple and wounder full,as per me relationship are as i take, not that what others think and say,only one think i know,for particularly any relationship,whatever is there in heart the same i get it back from others.
thanks SK.......
every human grows in certain environment and being an analytic and independent thinking the human forms his or her opinion about the given situation and circumstances in ones life and thats how one evolve and grows in life with own opinions and conclusion after experiences and testing than after so much knowledge of ones age one meets the other person having its own opinions and conclusion and than we discover that on same situation how differently we react and reaction is the result of our own past experiences we lived and made opinions and of our these circumstances we are totally aware but other half past circumstances and experiences we are unaware ,unknown than we find why he/she is reacting in this way which is totally different from your expectation than we find this behavior complex because ur dealing with a knowledge bank and opinions of different quality and of period of all his or her age before meeting you and all those knowledge from past experiences and expertise u both acquired is being tested by both of u with each other result a big complex reaction sometimes favorable and sometimes un favorable and sometimes unknown thats why complex when results are not as per expectation
thanks for ur comments
supriya ji relationship is not a complex equation--its as easy as 2+2=4 if partners are honest and able to feal others,coz everything cld not be expressed in words.if it is not there relationship is complex
supriya ji main deficiency takes place when people are not able to think seperately about care and affection..some people express their affection by doing care and some by affection, it depends in what way partners are acceptin or respecting each other...tell u one thing which is very controversial i.e...in underword said words are unbreakable trust...why in relation such trust is not there..in relation damage to trust also leads to gr8 damage more then damage as compared to underworld, in relation it damages whole family and in underworld it damages the concerned person only...my answer is quite radiculas,,i know..pl gv thoughts....
i partially agree... but not very convinced wid ur answer abhay.. sorry!!
Relationships are complex becuz we work for others but in fact we fulfil our responsibility for ourselves. It is rightly said that nobody works for others but for himself only. Either to gain satisfaction or to avoid pain which i could not gain due to not fulfilling my responsibility for others.
So if i say that Supriya you are most butiful,intelligent,kind hearted person in this earth with full honesty,means that i am satisfying myself as well as yourself too.In return if you say thanks,makes me happy on my comment.Secondly if i respond to other with smile but little possessiveness, may hurt other one but equally may make her happy too.So both the things are complexities of relations.Unsure but it is not complex when we have any authority on other,just like my life partner,the closest relationship,our actions and reactions for each other may make it at some time complex but next a little smile may again make it uncomplex.
Hope you understand dear lady.
yes sir i do understand what u meant to say!! thanks anyways for ur kind reply!!
since how long you are in a relationship supriya? if it's a short period you have been in a relationship then you should keep one thing in your mind that your life will be half spent before you will know what it is and that's why it's a complex equation.
ok suresh.. thanks for ur reply.. i m into relationsihp past 4 years now..
Actually to talk abt why relationship are complex we have to see this first.. there are two type of relationships.. one is just name sake..like for fun and for sometime...these are not complex since in such they only think about themselves.. the other one is serious that has more love.. more emotions.. more responsibilities.... more trust... more care.. more time.. more compromises..and for all life long.. this are complex and why complex..since we are humans and we have emotions of love..sex..lust..family..attentions and all these will make relations complex...infact relation is easy.. but making it successful is complex and the definition of SUCCESS depends on couples who are into it.. depending on their definition the complexity increases...
perfect answer to my question.. thanks alot Gopala... though I was missing your comment on my discussion post but finally u replied it very well to my expectations....
Thanks alot once again!!
Regards
Supriya
Better expressions are face to face and for that you will have to sit with some one but that 'elaboration ' will be yours and his relationship.
yes agreed..
I think it is complex due to lots of reasons. Picking out few vud be a difficult task. As far as I feel..many people don't realize or want to realize the responsibilities that comes along with a relationship. Responsibilities, not only towards the special one, but towards all people who are somehow related to them. Few people might be very much aware of this but handling them becomes a tough nut for them. Guys usually go awry in these situations, can't say bout girls. The biggest shortcoming in such situations is how to let everybody stay happy. They become sandwich between people and jst can't cope up with the surrounding created and thus end up making things more confusing. Also smtimes a bad communication or communication gap becomes culprit. No one is wrong but unable to explain things affect the bondings. Apart from all this, ven one partner start imposing there traits. This only shows how unadjustable they are.
There is one more reason. I m myself an example here...i firmly believe i m damn into career and not at all eligible for getting into relationship coz i won't be able to gv priority to my partner over my career. i m focussed to one thing. Friends says i don't even tk care of myself ... how in the world will i care a relation.
So if people like me, go for relationship at these kind of stage where he/she can't focus on bondings, they surely gonna make relationship a more complex phenomena.
These r few factors dat i feel r responsible for making relationships a complex sport (Yes it actually a sport n not a game...:)). If we sit and start talking bout Y relationships are complex? then i guess this life is not enuf to put a full stop on this discussion.
and it will remain so....the best answer to this question vud be....don't wait for the answer......just njoy and feel lucky being in relationship....it is one best thing in life...
yeh but the question still remains there the same... y relationships are so complex??
LOL.... :-) :-)
i knew it vud be hrd for u to conclude to smthing from this post. As i said..i myself was very blank on this topic.
ok naveen agreed to wht u said .. "If we sit and start talking bout Y relationships are complex? then i guess this life is not enuf to put a full stop on this discussion."
so no conclusion i got but it was indeed a nice discussion.. if anyone else want to discuss it further i would certainly appreciate it.........
happy posting..
why supriya is it not true if you are firm with your decision nothing affect you, many times it happens to us that we focus on one thing so much that we forget to eat though we are hungry or that matters we do not sleep, so same can be applied here one can choose the decision with deep thinking and if it is right every obstacle or in this matter other factors which affect are crossed over easily.
See Mandar being firm on decision is not related to relationships being complex.. i didnt agree to this point coz of this reason.. for relationsihp to be complex two ppl are in it and obviously it is taken for granted tht they r into relationship so they are very welll firm on their decision.. so hence i didnt agree to ur point .. its not related to relationships being complex in nature at all i feel personally.. whats ur take on this?
no anybody can't balance both all the time but one should maximize the chances of balancing it, which can lead to a happy relationship and considering the others factors u mentioned those are right but a person should be very firm on his decision then such factors does not affect much but we all are human and bound to do mistakes hence there are problem in relationship and so as in life but mistakes can be avoided
hmm partially agreed.. i dont agree wid "a person should be very firm on his decision then such factors does not affect much "
yeah u are right but still a little practical touch is required which can play an vital role in easy going of an relationship. Imagine you are on honeymoon trip your visiting a point in city, point is very beautiful both of you sat there for hour and then u asked him lets go as there is last bus for hotel from the point and he says no he wants to sit with you there still little more time, now here he has lost the balance between emotions and practicality then relationship becomes complex, correct me if i am wrong
I think it is need to get out of track smtimes to balance the emotions.....always taking decision based on practicality won't do gud. In relationships, smtimes stupidities too are needed.
need to think on this.. hmm yeh partially i agrree he has lost his balance between emotions n practicallity but sometimes its good in relations to do so isnt it? u cant always balance the both.. right?
but relations becomes complex i think due to differences in moods, behaviours, attitudes, surroundings, the way of adjusting to the surroundings, other ppl involved indirectly in direct relationships.. correct me if m wrong..
Because, it consists of two thing first emotional and second practical, one who manages right balance of both in relationship succeeds one who don't fails in the same and give names like complex equations
yes agreed mandar.. emotional and practical are two imp aspects of relationships but moreover i feel in relations emotional aspect is applied more than practical... whts ur take on this? am i right?
that is a good question. I think it is complex because besides the two ( a boy and a girl) on both sides of that equation there are lots of other elements to be added which i call sub-relationships here, such as the boy's or the girl's relationship with families, friends and etc.. and each side( no matter if they get married or not) has to try to accept these from the other side...so... it makes a complex...
the equation is a dynamic equation... both sides try to make it an equation...if not... sth. will happen..heeeeeeee, by my observation....))
yes very true jing jing..
When the partner is naraaz.....and naraaz enuf to console him/her by words...and a single kiss, a single glance can make him happy and make him forget everything....don't u think it is complex enuf to understand the power of that kiss....or glance...
gv me time...LOL...m blank to explain...
yes but that complexity is different naveen i feel.. i mean giving a kiss or hug or glance is emotional aspect of relationship.. its very confusing.. so many different views of different ppl.. but still cudnt come out wid one single conclusion... help me out in this.. naveen..
Coz you may have so many dimensions to it
many dimensions as in wht cud u plz clarify?


