what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that I am in 20's and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked me, when did i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they dint believe me first after a lot of convincing they believed but said it was a very strange and made me feel as if i have missed out on something very imp.... Am i quite old not to have had sex? What is the age to lose virginity can anyone tell?

Virginity is always associated with girls ,boys can go to many women before going to virgin one?it is question of sexual morality hence if u believe in morals both gender to have sex after marriage!

I lost mine wen I was in 9th class with my Biology teacher. She was a virgin bcoz wen we did it on her table she bleeded like hell..

virginity could be even lost without having sex..... its all in your mind not in your body...... The time that you spend with someone who is very special, who loves you more than you do and its for the first time is the time when you lose your virginity not the time when you have sex..... even now a days people can undergo certain surgery to restore their virginity..... those who never had sex should feel proud of themselves for having such a high level of self control.... and those who lost their virginity before marriage should realize that its not a sin or mistake and there is nothing wrong in it...... you just couldn't let go off the situation...... and most of all if the one with whom you had sex is not the special one, then you r still a virgin..... that sexual experience just like masturbation with a living body.......

whether u lose your virginity before marriage or after, it has to be with a special person. If it is not with a special person, it brings regret, even if it is done after marriage. If it is with a special person, you wont regret it even if you had it before marriage, even if you marry someone else later. losing virginity happens only once, so make sure there is enough passion in it to make it special.

do not loose your verginity before marriage.One should loose his/her verginity after marriage only.Not loosing virginity is having a lot of values.Be in your limits avoid doing so.Be vergin and give this gift to your loving leagal husband.HopeYOUwill follow so.THANKS for choosing such tropic boldly for discussion.

i dont know,

i never had it;

but its better to have it after marriage... :)

After marriage only for both gender.

and Be royal to your partner

Hi Meher, me supriya, as such there is no age limit to lose virginity. You can anytime lose it after 18 and when you wish to do so.



I had the same doubts when I was 19 but now am 22 and to tell you its not right to lose virginity anytime before marriage not even if we girls wish to or under presure. For girls its not easy to lose virginity, as thats the one of the precious things girls have before marriage. If we lose our virginity for a boy who later on may not even marry you or use and throw you then we would regret this pain our entire life. This is a very true fact. I had my one frnd who lost her virginity and then she regretted her entire life as that person with whom she had sex didnt marry her and she feels guilty for it now. Better dont listen to anyone crap person who suggested you to go for it whenever you wish to.. it may not be important for boys but for girls it matters alot take my words on it.



Remain virgin until you marry and lose your virginity with your married husband only.

This was my suggestion.. rest is your wish if you dont want to regret your whole life take my words seriuosly. I expect you to reply me after reading this.

well In india average age is 23.. survey done by AC Neilson.. it differs from culture to culture like in US its 19 so there is no problem if you are virgin... But a piece of advice if you want to go for it.. go with a person whom you really love this will make the moment unforgettable and you will really enjoy doing it... :-)

Biologically a woman or man is ready to have sex just after puberty. But because it is an act which culminates into various responsibilities, the govt always keeps a check at the legible age to have consensual sex. Loosing virginity is never an issue, what is more important is your relationship and your family including your own health. Sex for the first time should be passionate and which is possible when you are in love/relationship. You may not enjoy sex if doing it for the heck of loosing virginity. It is a very pleasurable act and also increases closeness between partners. Whether to have sex or not should be the decision of the partners and no body else's. You should be fully educated in sex before indulging, and always perform safe sex (esp before marriage as Indian culture is a little skeptical). Although the Indian Judicial system gives equal rights to a woman in a live in relation as against a wife but it is still a taboo in our culture. So care should be taken before taking such a decision.

I WOULD SAY BOTH PARTNERS NOT BEFORE MARRIAGE BUT IF BOYS LOOK FOR VIRGIN GIRLS THE BOYS SHOULD ALSO BE VIRGIN. OTHERWISE DO NOT ASK QUESTIONS. THE REASON IS TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR PARTNER. NO MARRIAGE NO SEX.

on ur statement u r right but in this days there is no age to lose viginity coz' last three months back i saw on news there was two students in shcool uniform they came in hospital for abortion nd they are student of ninth class ,so thts y no one can say what is the right age fo loose virginity.

dont understand y girls r so desperate for sex? knowing v well that u only ll b getting f**ked...

Do it if and when it feels right Meher. Not when others expect you to.

Dear Friend,

i am also surpreised that u never done sex in your life. This is very good gift of god to every men & women. If u need any type of help from my side u can contact me on Gurpreet_sp@rediffmail.com

Regds

Gurpreet

Meher, I had been in your shoes and completely understand the curiosity or the pressure. I would just want to add on to what many have said already. Its only fair to say that you are old enough to make your decisions. (Beware : To have sex before you hit 20 will make you vulnerable to Cervical Cancer in your later years.. )

Now its only about the guy and the occasion. Make sure you dont do it for the sake of it, coz then you will surely regret that decision. Make sure there will be no regrets and make sure you play it safe. First experience will not be all sugary for a girl.. it will surely be painful, so be prepared for it. And dont give a damn to the hypocrites here.. there will hardly be a handful percentage of guys in India who would hold it till they get married, Its not fair to save it for them, when they can have their fun, you can do so too.. But sweetheart, make sure you dont overdo it and end up being branded a B*.

Hope this helps!!

you are old enuf to have sex.It's upto u how many times and how many ppl u want to have sex with...ok????

I lost mine at 27yrs to my husband. I didn't regret waiting for that long, It just felt right.

Don't fall for peer pressure. Just do what you believe is right. When you loose your virginity and to who, depends on how mature and sensible you are.

The right age to lose virginity is when you are mentally prepared for it and you know well what you are up to and the aftermarths of it. Once you avail that maturity and confident enough to make your own decision, that's the right age. Remember, it's not important when and who, but what matters is how and why.

dont wait for tomorrow now its ripe time

Meher forget about the age and all ... but remember it is impossible to forget the 1st guy /girl you slept with ! so whomever you lose your virginity to ... just make sure you are ready to remember him your lifetime !

hw long you keep this?

you are a good girl

really seems something , important ,

having sex has no age limit,

might be you have lost important 3 years of having casual sex in your life..

better late than ever, may be you can start every pinch of it immediately

As everyone is saying. Wrong set of friends. If they are making you feel uncomfortable for what you are, senseless to talk or be around these ppl. As ur 20+ make your own decision, but ponder it on your own and not under any pressure.

As everybody said there is no such age. You certainly have a wrong friend circle.

@ Meher.. There is nothing called a right time for losing virginity .. you can if you want to do it now as it is all about being free from material inhibitions of this world. Waiting or not is entirely a matter of personal discretion not subjected to societal pressure and conformity.



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lol Meher, I'm 27 & virgin. Will quite likely remain one foever unless the girl I love decides to be with me or I give up & marry someone else.

Virginity is a sensitive issue (and personal) . I believe everyone should wait till they find the right one. It's not about age.

You obviously have the wrong group of friends.

according to rules the age shall be the marriageable age as already decided/coded by the law for marriage.

You obviously have the wrong type of friends. Any time after 18 is OK provided you have sex with your spouse.

At 13 for men and 16 for girls..but best to do for right reasons rather under pressure from peers as they want you to lose your medallion too. Best to have it in stable relationship . If too much sex in your mind, then you may require medical help as these are signs of unhappiness and stress. Best not to choose stroke and choke method under these conditions leading to unhealthy lifestyle. And yes losing virginty is not exactly conquering mount everest.

Well meher its not like that u have became too old, there are many in 30s who have not experience sex ...........

Iam 24 and i have not experience sex, but as per physical needs of body the right age to lose virginity is when the individual feels attracted , that is when the hormone levels are highest, and probably between 20-25 is the right age,,,,although there is no barrier

i think it should be around 20 to 22 for man and women both.

there is no any decided time or age for that,but i think

20 to 22 is the right time for it.

if u think " virginity is not a matter of dignity but a lack of opportunity " go ahead and lose and lose it to some bugger and remember him through-out ur life ! this is a fact ... brutal fact of life !

STRONG WILL POWER HELPS YOU TO MAINTAIN YOUR VIRGINITY THROUGHOUT THE LIFE.......ITS NOT A JOKE

You see first of all there is no need for you to feel strange by not losing virginity..now a days sex has just become like entertainment, lust rather then emotional attachment..i feel you didnot miss nuthin...wait for your marriage and once you have with your hubby...you enjoy it without any fear,,..this sex has that emotional touch and trust..support of society..but where as sex before marriage has lot of fear...just ask people who had..i am 100% sure they may like it.enjoy it..but there will be fear and in those cases alot of them are cheating and the videos end up online...and now about age..i guess the better question would right age for marriage..due to change in times for gal it is 20 - 25 and boys 24-28 or 24-30..

AS FAR AS I FEEL THERE IS NO LAST AGE FOR LOSING VIRGINITY .IF YOU HAVE STRONG MIND AND THINKING EVERY AGE IS POWERFUL. DO NOT ALLOW MISLEADING THOUGHT IN MIND AS MIND GIVE INPUTS AND OUTPUTS ,CONTROL THE SEX THOUGHTS ,HENCE DO NOT DISTURB YOURSERLF IN SUCH THOUGHTS AND BE STRONG.

I am going around with a guy since both of us were in the 9th standard, he happens to be classmate. we are still together in love, now we are in college and still going great. But honestly speaking we dint think if our's was the right age and think we were in 1oth when we made love, so when in relation you can't actually decide.

This question has no relevance in today's time. I ahve a friend who is a gynae and she says she ahs treated or guided teens as young as 13 years... so open your eyes wide and face the real world. And yes according to such teens you might be a wierdo....

Why do you ask? As long as you are using protection and enjoy it. just go for it yaar

It depends, what according to you is the right time for having sex? if you are one of those- not before marriage types then again it depends when you get maried and if you are -no right time types, whenevr you feel the need just go for it, then why do you care?

According to latest statemnt given out by HC- "Sex before marriage is a rape" You still wanna know right age? The answer is simple wait till you are married but my question to them with refrence to the statemnt "Sex before marriage is a rape" - So in taht context , Sir,do you even have an idea how many rapes are happening everyday!!!!!:D

Dude dont rush it the average age to lose ur virginity is 18 so.. thats just the average.. theres people who have gone though their whole lives without sex wait for the right girl then... lets just see what happens.

Well I'm 19 year old dude and still a virgin, its not about age,it's about mind:) and also think that it's not that easy to find a right person to give your virginity to... Wait until you find your Mr Right and right time.:)