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Right to be in love with two at same time?
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Sandeep Thakur No its not wrong..... Moreover I am in a Love wid a girl who likes me and some other guy.... Just give it some time.. And Later you will realize fee.. more
Topic owner: Shyamolima Saikia:
Hi guys i have a question in my mind is it wrong to be in love with two people at same time?
Andy Delhi
How can loving two or even more people be construed as wrong. Love could be in any form and doesn't necessarily imply a relationship. It could also be unrequited love or one could love another person for very different reasons.
Lust is a different entity. My firm belief is that both lust and love tend to go hand in hand but while this may be the case there is definite distinction between the two. So one could treat love and lust as two separate entities and satisfy them separately..
Chiraag Sharma
pyar koi bol nahin pyar awaz nahin ek khamoshi hai hai kahti hai suna karti hai. sirf ehsas hai ise door se mehsoos karo pyar ko pyar hi rehne do koi naam na do.
Chiraag Sharma
pyar koi bol nahin pyar awaz nahin ek khamoshi hai hai kahti hai suna karti hai. sirf ehsas hai ise door se mehsoos karo pyar ko pyar hi rehne do koi naam na do.
Ushendra Naidu
shyamolima,love is divine dear,every person has his own defination of love,so jus hear wat ur heart wants wen a confict is between ur heart and ur brain,jus falling in love to two people at same time itself proves dat the heart has lovd both,jus go ahead but b truthful and honest wen in lov, haina dost
Nick Paul
WHy not? It's your feeling!!! YOu can not stop your heart from feeling something...... so feel it & enjoy it!!!
Girish Ingale
Well everybody has their own life , so i guess everybody has the right to do what they feel ! Love with two , sleep with one , or sleep with thousands , love only one ! Its his/her own individual life, do whatever anybody feels.
However , if you do so , you loose a common right , that is to blame others for your mistakes .... typical Indian ishstyle ! :-)
Gopala Chintakindi
Girish I liked your post and point of blaming others..if they do those what we are discussing and what you said then they loose rights and they must not blame others.. they have right to do what they want and they must stand to the results and they must not blame their partners.. yes it is what typical indian style..many do them privately but publically they behave like saints and saadhus.....nice point dude..
Neeraj Dhamija
I personally feel that one can simultaneously love two or more person... love is something divine, built on the foundation of feelings, attractiveness, lust and compatibility...
U may call that love is different from dating... or, if ur partner does the same, then u will get the reply.. or true love cant be with more than one.. or whatever..!!!
Infact, none of us is competent enough to define love.. we just understand what we heard, or to some extent what we feel, which may be called lust or infactuation, or whatever...
I think love is something.. which is never planned or thought about... it may be just a feeling more than liking for one or more...
Sachin Gupta
As Gopala has rightly said, there is a difference between love and dating. And I am very sure this generation, unfortunately who are celebrating valentine's day with much more vigor than the earlier generations, do not appreciate meaning of true love. I feel very lucky to not be a part of this generation :)
Gopala Chintakindi
I am happy to read your message. Yes even though I am this generation ( I am 29 and I hope I am..hehehehehe) also believes in few old generation things especially in matters of love and marriage.. but I feel bad seeing people using love and relations in wrong way...
Chand Babu
I have respoinded my thoughgts which one may agree or not tto the reply of question of Supriya and Gopala.I think it should clear the minds of lovers.Love is not bad and LOVE has many meanings and kind with relationship
Gopala Chintakindi
For gals it is common..many boys will be loving her ( one sided like as I did ) at same time. But I feel a gal and a boy but be in only one relationship and love ( both sided ) ...it is not at a time thing it is about at a life time thing..
Kumarjeet Sarkar
You can't b in luv wit 2 peple at d same time. If u bliv u r, thn u hav mistaken infactuation as luv. Bettr b sure not 2 cheat sum1 n ur self.
Nidhi Jain
Ask yourself one question dear - if you found out your partner having multiple partners then will u accept him? you will knoe the the answer urself
Sandeep Thakur
Well the statement you gave is more concerned with the morality of the situation but if you go little deeper you will find your feelings are more complicated and it takes time to understand them before you rush for someone give some time to settle your feelings and thn take the decision... and Since your decision will affect your rest of the life its not wrong to search for right one... date multiple guys, look for the perfect one...
Sandeep Thakur
No its not wrong..... Moreover I am in a Love wid a girl who likes me and some other guy.... Just give it some time.. And Later you will realize feelings for one is fading out .... Actually I am waiting for it to happen in my case :-|
Gopala Chintakindi
@Supriyaji, I accept whatever you said.
@Sandeep, I guess you are not maybe in love..you maybe attracted to both of them like infatuation and you are confused to decide with whom you need to go. First I am sure you are not in love..it is more then friendship and attraction. Why donot you say this to those gals and see their reaction.. Maybe the way they will act will make you rethink. First of all try to find out what those gals think abt you..
Supriya T Jagtap
Sandeep,
I understood your point... you are in a situation where you like 2 people at same time with same feelings and you are confused which one is your true love.. in this case you should not label the relations as "love" as love can be with just one person at a time, it may be the case where you like both the girls for their some quality, but take your time to decide who can be ur ideal life partner, i too was in a similar situation.. but i never labeled my relations as love.. it was my liking and attraction for one person and for the other person i am still in love with him.. the first person whom i liked i still do adore him and like him for his few qualities.. but i dont love him.. this i decided by asking myself few questions.. you also try asking yourself what kind of life partner do you wish to have? what all qualities she should posess and then check out which one of the girls have those nearest qualities in her.. ofcourse no one can have all qualities like an ideal life partner but an approximate edge line could be met by someone.. and then you need to think do you really love that person ? let me know your views on this..... hope i got u right atleast this time.. its not loving 2 ppl at same time.. its having feelings n liking 2 ppl at same time as love can happen with only one person at a time....
would be waiting for ur reply.....
-Supriya
Sandeep Thakur
And also here the focus is on loving two people.. not going out wid two people or cheating the other one.. you get the point right !!
Sandeep Thakur
HI.. I totally take your point...But here what i am saying is if you are in love wid two people.. thn take your time understand your feelings.. let them evolve over time.. try to find which ne is true... Of course may be it can happen that you are labeling your feelings wid love and thn you later find out it was not love and in todays world this seems to happen most of the time.. so what i would suggest is choose which one is most important to you.. which is pure love... thn decide i hope you have got the point ... And i wud love to dicuss wid u on this thing since I am kind of in similar situtation :-)
Supriya T Jagtap
dating multiple people at same time is different thing and loving multiple people with same feelings at same time is different.. sandeep tell me if your g.f. or wife(if ur married) loves u as well as her best frnd in her life equally at same time then would u accept this fact that ur wife loves someone else too? there has to be honesty in one relationship.. the other partner would never accept this fact that his/her partner is in love with other person too... just be honest and think about my question sandeep seriously.. i dont agree with wht u say
Jia Sen
Personally, I see nothing wrong with dating multiple people at the same time, but a person needs to be open and honest about it with future partners.
Gopala Chintakindi
I think here the point is not dating it is in love..i am sure now this generation doesnot see diff between dating and love..i see it..i am not old guy but I clearly see the difference between dating and love..
