Opinion Poll
Our Relationship Issues !!!
Sandvich
Hi.. I am married 38 years old.. In my past at college time one girl in my life and we love each other . unfortunately I cant meet her very long time and in between she marriage some one. Now she come back my life and she want to keep relation with me .Well I also love very much still today and I cant live without her. What can I do? Can I marriage with her? or continue relation?
ur such a retard..buddy shes f**king using u & nothing else ..get over her. ur married already n getting emotional will ruin ur marriage..at best wat u can do is while she is using u is ,u can use her .if u knw wat i mean..she can be ur f**k buddy
what will you do, If your mother, father or wife in the same situation in the same age of 38yr.'s in their life & think, what will they do and consequence of their actions too.. think and analyse.. now, think of your case and how will your family feel, society takes it, you'll come to a decision
First, unless you are a pussy, you can do anything you want...the ques then becomes...what do you want? Since you already made the decision to marry your wife, honoring her would be the easiest thing to do...however, if you do decide to bone your ex on the side (in other words cheat), you will hurt yourself in the long run when you are mature and one day hate yourself for being a cheater...trust me, no vagina is worth the loss of your morals and your own worth in your eyes...but hey, thats just my opinion...if you do wana be with your ex, dump your wife, and get with your ex...Simple!
for get the past and live in your happy present life , your past life is not worthy to spoil your present in any cost , now you have a family and you should behave live a responsible man , lots of life are joined you so for your past you can't kill their happiness. have some dignity and self respect . and the last thing how cm you sure about that the girl in your past will have a nice and happy life with you .
your call and your 'consequences'. No one can tell you what to do, you are the one who decides your own fate.There are terms known as GOOD and BAD choose wisely and be happy.
No. for your benefit dont disturb other persons life ,go & find some one else
Dear Nirav,
Think before you act, you can keep relation as long as u both want but think of other lady who married you. She spend all life for u and show faith on u. As you are the one who know all situation is best judge for this case.Keep relation but don't dump u r wife.
Dont Marry her... Just keep relation Dude! If she can ditch her spouse for u... then she can ditch u for others also... Better not to trust a girl... ;)
you dont love your ex girlfriend ,its your lust .love doesnt teach to cheat and you are cheating your family and asking her to cheat her family. Also it seem you dont love your family.... You had children ... and you dont love them .. you are not good father .... If you had loved her you wouldnt marry anybody and wait for her ..... you are destorying your family and her family for your lust ....... Your ex girlfriend is going ruin her life .She dont know that you are only lust with her not love....
Are u ready to give same freedom to ur wife.suppose a single step forward, she calls her friend at ur home & make relations with him, will u tolerate,If yes,u may continue
good answer Mr. gupta , our desire are worthy to think but in practice life responsibility and respect matter a lot.
think of your wife also having exboyfriend and maybe dating with him
@Rakesh: Imagining things is one thing whereas facing the reality is entirely a different thing altogether. so lets not think hypothetically and rather think of some practical ways
Ask ur wife, if there any lover of her. She can keep the relation as I want do the same thing. If not divorce her.
divorce is not the option Mr. Singh. I think this couples needs to understand the complexities involved in such extra marital relations and accordingly they need to tk sm step
use your brain,go to divorce solicitor and get the legal advice.I think deep down you are just looking for fun on the side.what your trouble is that you wants to drive two cars at the same time, one is Insured and other not
good one.
ya u can marry her. only problem is that your wife and her husband will chop your balls off.
well said....
I was watching a movie where married women want to kiss a boy friend the boy refuses to kiss he said you have a husband the married woman said you have morals ,the moral of story is do not disturb her married life if you truely love her love is giving not taking.
I thnk u r 1 of the luckiest person that ur Love has come back in ur life. If u love her Truly , den u can start meeting her.... Meeting her and sharing things with her is not a harm. Who asks u to break ur marriage... Be like a best Friend to her. "Love is always unsuccessful. If it is not Love , it is not unsuccessful. But Love wins" That is what happened to u. ur love had won..


