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Ekta Talwar Only if you get to keep the video, it doesn't show your face and/or you wear a mask. The first time he gets drunk he'll show it to his .. more
Fri, 13 May, 2011
S V Yes. Please do give in to him. Convert to MMS. Do not forget to send me a copy. I will send them to your kids when they are grown up. more
Fri, 13 May, 2011
Noor Inayat
Topic owner: Noor Inayat:

My boyfriend of two years is really keen on taping our sex for fun, though I have full faith on him but I am still not comfortable with the idea of taping it and making an MMS.

Both of us have spoken about it a lot of times, he is really unhappy but I can't help,should I give in?

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Top Cat
Top Cat

Bitch please ..fuck all u want but not on camera.. if u do so ur jus gonna end up on a porn site after hes dumped u.. pls dnt act like ur illiterate

on Wed, 28 Mar, 2012
P C
P C

Nooor Please dont do this.....ever

on Fri, 17 Feb, 2012
Raj Sharma
Raj Sharma

You are stupid if you are doing such things

on Sat, 01 Oct, 2011
Anuthe Anu
Anuthe Anu

nope never... not before you get married.

on Sat, 24 Sep, 2011
Nitin Bawankar
Nitin Bawankar

no never do this mistak

on Fri, 16 Sep, 2011
Prashanth Cp
Prashanth Cp

Don't be a fool... This is how MMS scandals appear on internet... So don't spoil ur life..

on Mon, 25 Jul, 2011
Rajendra Kumar
Rajendra Kumar

It is very dengerous preposition.Pl don't do it Noor ,before marriage.You can do it after marrriage if u feel ur marriage is rock solid,but there are still ,chances of misuse.So you have to be very careful.

on Wed, 29 Jun, 2011
Amit Mehta
Amit Mehta

never give up? if your boyfriend not making an mms but if some person who take it & benefit from them.my advise is first deleted the clip.If you and your boyfriend in true & long relationship than why your boyfriend taking this type step

on Sat, 25 Jun, 2011
Ajay Kumar
Ajay Kumar

r u fool . dont u havnt u hear mms scandals first he will make mms and then whole world will download that mms

on Fri, 03 Jun, 2011
Rocky Sharma
Rocky Sharma

DON'T RELY ON HIM. IF ANY TAPE HE HAS, IT MEANS YOU MAY BE IN MEDIA OR COMING SOON.

on Sun, 29 May, 2011
Gaurav Delhi
Gaurav Delhi

this 1 is just to excite the guys wanting to speak here..why haev yu created fake profile..just to watse our time and then asking such qxciting Q's

on Sun, 29 May, 2011
Neeraj Gupta
Neeraj Gupta

It will be an inayat from ur allah if u got rid of this type of bf... I donno why u tolerating this much. If he succeed in this. u would be a damn fool literally & that i m anouncing it..

Hence u r nt smart at all so in one liner... Don't let this happen & ruin ur life...

on Wed, 25 May, 2011
Ashish Rastogi
Ashish Rastogi

just ask him to tape your steaming scene after marriage. till then he can keep his camera locked inside.

on Wed, 25 May, 2011
Ashish Rastogi
Ashish Rastogi

just ask him to tape your steaming scene after marriage. till then he can keep his camera locked inside.

on Wed, 25 May, 2011
Virendra Kumar Chugh
Virendra Kumar Chu..

hi! guys, this girl seems to be educated but has she got any grey cells? pehaps not! otherwise in a moment she should have smelled a 'stinking rat' when he proposed such a thing? the best comment and suggestion is given to her is by SV on friday 13 may. have nothing to add more. I confess, am more than shocked at the same time when a girl is asking such a FILTHY QUESTION.

on Tue, 24 May, 2011
Krishna Kumar
Krishna Kumar

Hi Noor it z not at all good idea of taping sex which u say it will be convert it in to MMS..Just think once ..twice..any of u r close friends or relative watches what about the reputation of yours.for haven sake drop this idea and lead your normal life...

on Tue, 24 May, 2011
Raman Patel
Raman Patel

At that AGE ALL IS FUN..!!
If you were REALLY-COMFORTABLE with it,then I BELIEVE that IT WAS NOT A BIG DEAL..!!
But for GOD-SAKE,DO NOT DO IT FOR HIM ie TO PLEASE HIM,I MEAN DO NOT DO ANYTHING FOR THTA MATTER,not only for HIM,but also for ANYBODY..!!
DO IT,ONLY IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO DO IT..!!
TO DO WHAT WE LIKED TO DO I BELIEVE,WAS NOT-SELFISHNESS..!!
Think about that for a moment..!!
rkpatel,
wn,nz.

on Mon, 23 May, 2011
Surender Dogra
Surender Dogra

dear you want permission from us or suggestion ? how deep is your relationship and how much you trust on each other first define it then proceed for it. sex is very personal for everyone and which is right for one that is wrong for another. First you confirm what do you think all about that ? Don't want references from unknown persons for your personal matter. If you happy with your move then go ahead who am I ?and at last , you ask everyone what is right and what is wrong, please mention what do think all about that ? Are you ready for that ? This is my humble request to you , please tell us what is your personal opinion for that ?

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Karan Tandon
Karan Tandon

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Vikrant Choudhary
Vikrant Choudhary

Dear Noor,



Plase apply for the same as instruct bellow by Mr. Piyush Joshi, It's an Gr8 idea & you both feel joy along with your boyfriend.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Rinkesh Saraiya
Rinkesh Saraiya

Noor plz beware of him, u never know coz though u don't allow him, he might take ur click whn u r sleeping naked in ur bed room....n NOT AT ALL u should allow him to do that...plz

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Jd Hrl
Jd Hrl

dear friend,, like nature, relation too never goes in same mood always,, one thing more anger and frustration is devil,, one can go to any extent in anger,, so, be careful, never take any chance to be exploited,



>> there is no love ,, this is only attraction of sex,, i am damn sure u would be exploited by your so called boyfriend.



so be careful,,



wish u all the best..



tale care.



dear friend..........................

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Piyush Joshi
Piyush Joshi

install a full length mirror and use that... things like that might come back to haunt you later.

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Vikrant Choudhary

Yes It's an Gr8 idea.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Pratik Das
Pratik Das

Hello miss use your own brain..you knw...that is the best way....you better slap the faithful honest boyfrnd and kick this bullshit idea...or better switch the boyfriend....U knw....That only i can suggest u..dont take any chance with ur life...bye..

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Ramesh Goswami
Ramesh Goswami

Pl see film RAGINI MMS and then find out. Alternatly you can take advice from Miss Jammu of year 2005 (Famous MMS Scandle)

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Stephen Xavier
Stephen Xavier

r u out of ur mind

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Amit De
Amit De

Never. Never know who will copy it and post it in the net

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Arun Dubey
Arun Dubey

not at all recommended, in indian culture it is not appreciating and not accepting from any angle whether ur bf happy or unhappy .

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Avinash Giranje
Avinash Giranje

Please don't let him to do like this. This means he is mean minded. You have to be careful.

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Mehar Dogra
Mehar Dogra

now both u r tigether

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Uttam Kumar
Uttam Kumar

plz ms. dnt let him do dis

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Rajesh Gupta
Rajesh Gupta

ya pls......... prepare and send me

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Suren Kukreti
Suren Kukreti

say no . to him

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Jay Pandey
Jay Pandey

its on you, as u will not be the first to have sex after having trust on you relation.But if u r uncomfortable then dont do it.May be it a sign or signal of God , which is stopping you to do anythink wrong.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Jamshed Hasan
Jamshed Hasan

No not at all

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Jamshed Hasan
Jamshed Hasan

No not at all

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Nikesh Rai
Nikesh Rai

No, not at all, there is difference betwn boy frnd and life partner.. Try to undrstand it and dont do it. otherwise u will be in trouble not your boy frnd

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Sharat Sharma
Sharat Sharma

it is a kind of psychic demand, it is not a faun or fantasy. i dont think that one should tape his/her intimate moments unless he is willing to sale them or have low nerves.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Naveen Rajput
Naveen Rajput

dont let him to think about his own happiness , he should care abt u r cmfrtble or not

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Natarajan Karthikeyan
Natarajan Karthike..

dont ever accept the idea, sex is between tow individuals and cannot be shared with anyone and then it is termed as something. Now a days dont trust anyone even if you get married to your boyfriend and it will be a big headache to you.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Shivkumar Diwan
Shivkumar Diwan

It would be your mutual decision, but remember such a tape amounts to indecent representation of women and its free distribution and circulation in electronic and other media amounts to a cyber crime, both of these are offenses under various criminal laws in force in India.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Dhanraj V
Dhanraj V

if you are interested in making ur sexual life public you can proceed so now choice is urs u wants to girl of ur lover or whole cyber world

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Dhanraj V
Dhanraj V

PLS NEVER DO IT.....................

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Atul Phatak
Atul Phatak

R U crazy to allow this. If U break up & misused can U handle that?

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Sagar Malik
Sagar Malik

You have such serious relationship and you make profile saying you are single.. something fishy here ...

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Jai Prakash
Jai Prakash

it all is good till than it is in limit. so recognize your limit and don't go beyond the limit. be safe and secure.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Anjum Shakeel
Anjum Shakeel

Sex it self Fun taping is insecure and it it private thing no need to keep record ,Ok just thing he is fair and All quality if u got marry to that person if u children see ur recorded tape what would they think of moral so over all no Neeeeed to record.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Ragesh Raghavan
Ragesh Raghavan

It is not at all advisable Noor. Sex is something private and special which only you two should know and not to be recorded. I do not want to blame your boyfriend because you might not like it, but I would like to ask why would he want to tape it for fun. Be careful Noor because you could end up having the public see you nude and be on a controversy. If he really loves you and cares you, he would not want to tape it for fun because sex comes out of love and it is spontaneous and can be had whenever you both want it. So there is no need to tape it for further reference. If he is a guy who loves you truly and is serious about your privacy, he would never tape it. Be careful.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Mragaank Sharma
Mragaank Sharma

no. never. it is a tendency of guys if he really loves you, he will never ever compell you or not get angry with it. so take care of yourself..

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
M.k. Nigam
M.k. Nigam

don't allow him to do it.... even not after marriage... its all personal and u can can not take chance of leaking it..... Moreover what is the idea of filming sex...... if he is their to protect you, he should not have asked for it...

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Rolling Stones
Rolling Stones

hehe you seriously gonna take advices from ere eh ?

wt cha gonna do ...count number of comments for YES and NO and decide on count ?

use your brain , anyways you prooved you got none asking for advice about such a thingy ere :P ... No OFFence but dun you think its idiotic : )

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Enviro Plus
Enviro Plus

Ask him, first to take you to Marriage Registrar's office, enrolled your self there, with two witness. Then Ask him to take video clip of the whole movement at registra's office, Then you can decide to go for a shoot ! Then you take a copy of this clip, and forward from your cell to his father & Mother. Equally you explore this MMS with all Media Company. Quite A Luck Chance,, Kingfisher Might use this in their Next Calander, You both would HIt in Bolly Wood !. Is' it Great Promotional Strategy !

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Sachin Satpute
Sachin Satpute

Yes Noor. Thats great idea. we did the same thing many times with a high definition camera. You can correct your sex techniques and come to a perfection after watching the replays. Seeing yourself on the TV gives a very nice feeling,and then you feel like going to the gym and having a perfect body like a pornstar

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Chandrakant Yadav

bull shit

on Sun, 15 May, 2011
Isha Shah
Isha Shah

i don't understand why people needs to record sex videos. If you both are married then it is your personal matter. But before marriage if you are allowing this...you are a stupid. don't you read news papers and these kind of things happening around us ??

And about your boy friend, If he is trustworthy then he would never take these kind of videos of yours. He will blackmail you in future believe me. If he really loves you he would never tape such things because he should be afraid of that this tape will come in other hands then your life will be spoiled.



Don't allow this.......

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Ashish Rastogi
Ashish Rastogi

be bold and ask him to throw away his camera

ask him to decide between you and camera.

keeping such recording for whatever reason is asking for trouble at a later date when someone fiddling his com will take out the clip and will circulate it all over the world

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Ashish Rastogi

i have another feeling that you have already got your self on record and he is blackmailing you.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Vinay Tomar
Vinay Tomar

Hi !! always look forward and enjoy the life with fun and frolic,

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Kamal Kumar
Kamal Kumar

no

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Hari Tripathy
Hari Tripathy

no never allow for sex with your friend, that may be end of your friendship.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Shanker Jha
Shanker Jha

Tell him to get his sisters and mothers SEX MMS First,then

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Sarabjeet Singh
Sarabjeet Singh

In no case taping of sex be allowed.It will create problem in your future life.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Funny Guy
Funny Guy

Yeah please do that So we all can download & enjoy u guys sex romps. Let the world see what assets you got. Insane and dangerous idea as of now. Let him get married to you and you then u guys make a private tape then its ur private matter and u may enjoy but right now that idea looks insane. I am damn sure if You guys broke up by chance, we all are gona download it from net for sure, take my words.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rajesh Salian
Rajesh Salian

It all depends on how much you trust him. Because 90% of boys does this type of fun not to have fun in sex but to make fun of girls. If you or your boyfriend is still interested in making sex videos then do it after marriage. Because then, there would be a less chance of viewing your videos by public.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Gaurav Chaudhary
Gaurav Chaudhary

i think anyone who allows to make a mms is the greatest fool in the world.and there is no point in giving suggestion to fools

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
The Emperor Among Kings
The Emperor Among ..

Ask your parents, if they agree you allow him to tape

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rajasekharan Pillai
Rajasekharan Pilla..

Are you a MAD ? You shouldn't allow him to make MMS at any cost. He is not trying to record the sex for fun. It is for blackmailing only.You should get-rid of him immediately.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Jayan Ov
Jayan Ov

Which century you are in? Dont you read what all is happening around you? I dont understand what made you think this and ask such a question...Idiot

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Ahmed Panjwani
Ahmed Panjwani

nope do not allow...he wants to show that to his friends and prove a point which u gonna regret life long...

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Chayan Mukherjee
Chayan Mukherjee

Nope..Instead, you sit and try to get his inner feelings for you...This is a crime and you gonna be victim later on... Careful..

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Vinodkumar Sharma
Vinodkumar Sharma

no,donot allow him to tape

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Nk Jain
Nk Jain

go ahead. The girls like you need this fun.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Ajay Singh Chauhan
Ajay Singh Chauhan

he is an a***hole wanna play with your life ...

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Naresh Dhaneshchandra
Naresh Dhaneshchan..

Never!!!!!!!11

Never let me do what he want with you during sex , i mean video shuting, he can do any thing in future.

As a lady alway be aware such kind of dengirous experiment.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Shahnaz Khan

right advice. no woman should allow or trust their boyfriend or even husband to do any thing of this sort. its really risky

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Vandana Vidyarthi
Vandana Vidyarthi

Dump him



If he is having sex with you why does he need video?

Who else might see it?

The more he tries to convince you the more likely he is going to show someone.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Ragesh Raghavan

You are absolutely correct Vandana. I don't understand what is in such guys' minds. Cheap mentality.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Zack Jones
Zack Jones

Nope unless you want to see youself on the free download page of the internet. After you break up later. Let him do it and tell him that is all he gets to watch from now on cause your gone. Make sure it is over real quick and out of focus.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Sushant Bhuwad
Sushant Bhuwad

dont allow, becuse it s a phenomenol exprience of life. its has to between couple only. also its a social crime.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rakhee Makhija

but i have heard that many couples get excited when they record their sexual performance and then later watch it together. it boosts their sex drive also.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Shaantanu Chaudhari
Shaantanu Chaudhar..

oh.. u shudnt b trusted on him at least for this reason.. jst get back that tape with u.. njoy sex but dnt make any mms.. aftr this u ll only b secure !

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Shantanu Garg
Shantanu Garg

no dont tape ur sex life... if he is annoyed.....leave him; u have yr onw individuality

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Ekta Talwar
Ekta Talwar

Only if you get to keep the video, it doesn't show your face and/or you wear a mask.

The first time he gets drunk he'll show it to his friends. The day after you break up it'll be on internet.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Dinesh Kapoor

Thats true. One should never take a risk of clipping video. How can one make sure that the face is masked, it may be shown, then it would be a disaster.

on Fri, 15 Jul, 2011
Dinesh Kapoor

Thats true. One should never take a risk of clipping video. How can one make sure that the face is masked, it may be shown, then it would be a disaster.

on Fri, 15 Jul, 2011
Vikrant Choudhary

oohhh... Gr8 advice Ekta.........you r so inteligent.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Jigmed Angdus
Jigmed Angdus

no

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Pawan Saini
Pawan Saini

Pagal Ke ser pe singhb Nahi Hote Hai Ye Batt Aopne Prove Kar Di Hai

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Laxmi Beshra
Laxmi Beshra

no, never

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Aks G
Aks G

no......................

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rahul Srivastava
Rahul Srivastava

No freaking way are you mad, havn't you seen the kind of MMS scandals around where boyfriends leak your tapes for fun, money or revenge, dont do that you will repent it

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rohit P
Rohit P

never.....

don't do the mistake... if it is love ..it must be without consideration.
also think about the consequences ... '

he have to care ....

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Nilanjan Chakraborty
Nilanjan Chakrabor..

Between trusted partners it can be a very good catalyst years down the line. When you can revive your interest in each other by watching this tape. But that's an ideal situation. Instead why dont you offer to make the sex tape yourself and keep the copy with you (in your phone or laptop in secured way)...he can watch it anytime when you are around.... Hows That??

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Mritunjay Kumar

all the MMS scandals have developed among trusted partners only. who else will allow to tape the act willingly ? the claim of acting as catalyst is also doubtful because later on you may regret your decision of marrying or living with someone who has lost charm so soon. in any case, the idea is absurd and should be summarily rejected.

on Sat, 14 May, 2011
Neema Patheja
Neema Patheja

no.. it will probably be one of those things you will just regret later

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Vikrant Choudhary

i agrred with you Neema ji.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Harishankar Tripathi
Harishankar Tripat..

Hi Noor,

Taping is a nonsense idea, get rid of it and try to enjoy the life after getting married. If tommorrow you will get seperate where you will find yourself in this modern age. So enjoy the life of taping if really he want after getting marriage. Cheers

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Vikrant Choudhary

Harishankar Tripat.. pls give the ans. of the qus. of Ms. Neha rastogi.

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Neha Rastogi

@Harishankar: I don't agree with you sir. What's the guarantee that this man would not t misuse this tape once he's married?

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Y C Purohit
Y C Purohit

NO NEED FOR GOING FOR IT WHY HE WANT TO TAPE.IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU THAN HE SHOULD NOT EVEN ASK YOU FOR THIS.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Rihana Sultan
Rihana Sultan

Tape it and take it from him there and then and keep it with you if you must

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Manpreet Sodhi
Manpreet Sodhi

I can understand you are stuck, don't listen to these weirdos, i know sometimes we try and find solutions and you get it best from people you don't know, listen to your gut noor

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Karan Tandon

hiiiiiiiiii

on Mon, 16 May, 2011
Vishal Agarwal
Vishal Agarwal

Do you really want an answer to this....or you have posted this question for fun....because u urself answering your problem....In today's world, have you not seen so many MMS scandals and forced sex/ rape on the back of these MMS.....i guess u r mature enough to take this decision..

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
S V
S V

Yes. Please do give in to him. Convert to MMS. Do not forget to send me a copy. I will send them to your kids when they are grown up.

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Chitragupta Sen

Why cant you men stick to the point that's being discussed. Keep ur silly suggestions with you pls. no one needs them

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
Baladutt Sharma

good advice indeed but don't worry, it will come in the market before you ak for it!

on Fri, 13 May, 2011
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