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Should spouses be working for rival companies

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Gopala Chintakindi First of all yes spouses can be allowed to work for rival companies but you have some issues and couples and companies must deal with them. Now c.. more
Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap Well said amit.. very nice n hot topic for discussion u started.. !! As far as I believe marriage (personal life) and career should stay apart at.. more
Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
Amit Gupta
Topic owner: Amit Gupta:

the thought stuck me again after Sania announces her marriage with Soaib. Where would the loyalties be. would this be a marriage of equal rights and both would continue representing their nation or someone will sacrifice for other. I would definitely would not like Sania playing against India or Sania loosing to Pak player (WITH ALL DUE RESPECT TO HER INTEGRITY TOWARDS NATION)

on Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
Harsh W Mishra
Harsh W Mishra

i will give my views abt sania-shoaib case. there've been many views and counter views. i only feel that some people who have learnt to read and write just go on assuming and saying anything they feel like without themselves understanding what they mean IN EFFECT. Sania-Shoib did what they did and its their personal life, true. Agree. But when it comes to the next chapter where ppl support her playing for India that more opinions come in. i think that once a person becomes a public figure- gets the support, funds and respect of so many ppl then his/her personal priorities always change and rightly should so. Her/his personal decisions also must be based on some considerations for the culture, general sentiment of her own people, countrymen. Ppl who say what is the harm in sania representing India, i would say how will it practically be possible- is sania's will and rights so imp that it would over-run the sentiments of so many Indians or Pakistanis - depending on who she plays for. If she plays for us, Pak will naturally feel hurt and if she plays for Pak we will feel cheated.. The rule of "agree to disagree" has done enough harm in the west and the worm is creeping in our society gradually thru them who are literate but totally unlearned of our own rich past and deep culture and the general feeling of being a part of the society. If all exercise their right to disagree it would be a perfect case of anomie. For most of such people "individual' and 'individuality' is everything. No disrespect meant to anyone but its imp that i mention that such ppl have scant regard for views/sentiments of many ppl, and glorify what one individual may be thinking correct. We must remember that apart from being individuals we are a part of a bigger society and we have responsibilities towards it and must respect it as long as it is not harmful or orthodox.

on Wed, 14 Apr, 2010
Charan Singh
Charan Singh

why the nation is against to this marriage???it's very strange and i can't justify it but on behalf of me we all should welcome this decision of sania and it should be totally depend on her if she want to cherish her life further with shoaib malik!!!!

nice sania i don't know about others but i'm with you!!!

on Mon, 05 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap

truely agreed charan.. i dont know why such a big issue is made for its her personal life.. let her decidewhom she wants to marry.. me too in favor of sania.. this issue wont have arisen if she wud have decided to marry some australian or american.. just bcoz she is marrying pakistani guy such a big blunder .......??

on Tue, 06 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi
Gopala Chintakindi

First of all yes spouses can be allowed to work for rival companies but you have some issues and couples and companies must deal with them.

Now coming to Sania I am sure Sania will get Pakistan citizenship and she will play for Pakistan. I believe if she gets Pakistan citizenship then she must lose Indian and if she maintains Indian she must not be given Pakistan. I guess when we talk abt INDIA-PAKISTAN it is not good to give dual citizenship and if at all you want to give Sania is no deserving person.

on Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi

Now see they even didnot wait and stand on their words.. they said on April 15 and performed it on April 12 as if it was like dolls marriage... they just want media attention..besides they just palyed mockery of marriage tradition.. they went away from regular traditional marriage and bend the rules according to their will.. marriage is auspicious and it must be one time thing.. but they made joke out of it..

on Tue, 13 Apr, 2010
Girish Ingale

i agree with you dude ...

on Sun, 11 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi

See Surpiyaji..now everyone hates her more and she always did gave me evidence not to adore her any more. I donot like her this doesnot mean I hate her..it is just I donot care for her..

on Thu, 08 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi

@Supriya.. I read your reply and I welcome and respect your point of view. I am just putting in front of you my views.

Yes she did play for India and she did hard work and we have already give her recognization and that made her think wrongly and made her over hyped celebrity not a sports women..

In her early days of career she approached AP govt for land in costly area to start coaching camp and every sensed what she meant by that... she herself was not in good tennis start and how come her parents approach govt for tennis coaching camp by Sania. Any common sense person can sense that.

Just answer me why, if she true patriot of game and India why her rank is dropping every week, why cannot she improve her ranking even after she went to Brussels and UK for coaching camp. She is just good sprots women but we are making her extra ordinary. She never passes 2nd round in any event. This situation is just only one reason..she is over hyped since we have only one Indian tennis hot chick..

First of all on personal ground I dodnot have any hate for Sania. But I donot like her marriage episode which making fun of our system. The things which must be happening behind close doors ..Sania and company are bringing in front of lenses..I feel poor abt Sohrad and now sania-malik production company are making Ayesha as evil which we can see in one of discussion topic in ITIMES. The only thing I feel..she is ok or good sports women...but we are making her over hyped and for just being Indian minority hot asset we must not blindly accept her and follow her and give her that status which she doesnot deserve... I donot want her to play anymore for India since it is represented by true patriot Indians even if they play for money..

Just answer me this..if at all you want to give dual citizenship... why donot you give those people who were born and brought up in Pakistan but came to India during partition who lost every one and everything... and now they have their mother land and property in Pakistan and they are attached to Pakistan.. why not to them.. why only to Sania.. is that she is over hyped..fame and money minded hot chick..will be waiting for your reply..

Me hating her because marrying a PAK guy.. to be frank I donot care whom she is marrying unless its me, my family members and my true friends.. rest others I donot give damn whom she marries..where she marries..

on Tue, 06 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap

why so much hatred for Sania Gopala? i dont think ur point is valid for her not getting dual citizenship.. just bcoz she is marryign a pak guy she is not worth india? n wht about the medals n awards she got in home for india? her efforts are not counted? i believe she should get dual citizenship n she shud play for india even after marriage.. coz india gave her wht all she needed to b there where she is today... justify urself if m wrong

on Tue, 06 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi

First after which country she will play for. According to law she must follow her hubby country and if she plays for INDIA I am sure there will be lot of debate in Pakistan and if there is not debate then we can understand that Pakistan doesn't care about Sania.

I am sure there are not many people who doesnot have dual citizenship and if at all this ducal citizenship must be given it must be someone else not Sania.and certainly not by just marrying some one she doesnot get that importance of having citizenship.

If she gets dual then what about her kids and her hubby. I am sure this will send wrong signals to all.

Important thing which I believe and which she is giving me evidence that she doesnot deserve is that she is not such a important and deserving candidate for dual citizenship. I really hope she stops playing for India and just stick ith Pak and donot represent INDIA anymore and donot even look towards it.

on Mon, 05 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap

and why is Sania a no deserving person with respect to dual citizenship of India Pakistan? just had this question so asked u Plz reply Gopala wud b waiting..

on Mon, 05 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap
Supriya T Jagtap

Well said amit.. very nice n hot topic for discussion u started.. !!

As far as I believe marriage (personal life) and career should stay apart at extreme ends.. when it comes for Sania marrying Shoiab she wud be his wife n all as any normal indian girl but as far as representing Nations as both being fabulous players in their respective fields.. Sania should continue representing India as after all its india who gave her this position today for the world to recognize her in her field.. otherwise Pakistani females are not even allowed to roam around without burkhas but Sania being indian by nationality is allowed to wear short skirts n has full freedom of speech.. where can she find all these things except India?



So ultimately even if spouses work for rival companies they should keep their career life completely apart from their personal life and vice versa.. in order to keep the loyalties towards their work and towards their relationship.. Then only it wud b a marriage of equal rights and both (Sania and Shoaib) wud continue representing their nations. If they mix up both then the marriage would end up either one sacrificing for the other (normally girls only sacrifice in such terms)..



KEEP SMILING !! -Supriya

on Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
Supriya T Jagtap

yes gopala these two issues (sania n shoaib issue and spouses working in rival companies issue) shud b taken as seperate.. i agree to it..

on Mon, 05 Apr, 2010
Gopala Chintakindi

@Supriya..i liked your post and want to put few points infront of you.

I guess she will be given Pakistan citizenship since she is marrying Pakistan citizen and I feel naturally she cannot represent two countries at same time in sports and there will be debate about it in future and I feel she will go for Pakistan and I donot want Sania to get dual citizenship. I accept what ever you said Pakistan women..Please donot take me wrong about Pakistan women.. I respect them..

I accept that spouses can work for rival companies. Actually what I feel when you discuss about this topic we must not combine Sania issue with spouses in rival companies issues.. These two are completely separate and we cannot mix them...what you think about it..

on Thu, 01 Apr, 2010
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