Folks! honestly speaking, there are times when sex with your ex may not be such a bad idea. i am speaking with my personal experioence. though most of my friends didn't agree with me or so to say approved of it but i don' feel there is any harm. as long as your ex is also okay with it.
but at the same time, It is very important to be honest with yourself and your ex. Don't make promises that you don't intend to keep. Do your best not to mislead her.

I met my ex few days back at a restaurant & finally landed up having outside sex at India Gate.

piyali i do agree with u in a sense tht, if she is very tempting and you just cant control yourself , but wont that be just lust and nothing else, the next morning you will forget everything? but i think it is ok as long as you have protection and have with the consent of the other partner

I see all the comments posted by our friends, i would say YES, no guilty feeling about having sex with ur ex of course it should be consensual also see it shouldn't complicate ur other relationship.

Hey, i dont mind sex with the ex. as long as its consensual... :P but what i'd like to really know - is it CHEATING on my current girlfriend if i have sex with an ex? i mean... she doesnt have to know... but shud i feel guilty? i'm asking cos i dont feel guilty...

when you say that it is not a bad idea...then what is your meaning for good...if lets say now your EX is married or once she became your EX she maybe in a relationship with other..but even then still she wants have it with but as safe side safe games..no promises....are the difference between animals and humans being reduced...

It we who has to decide... what we want .. where we want to stand..

Having sex with your ex is like insulting yourself. Its like going back to the person who judged you to be less than what it needed or whom you judged to be not up to the mark. If any person have self-respect, they will not revert back to that person for sex or any reason.

an ex-orgy is always welcome

As long as having sex is just another way of expressing your love to your ex.

I personally feel that if you are committed to one person, then it's better to be loyal to one person. It's always easy to fall prey to your temptations, but what really makes a character is to not succumb to such emotinal tests.

What Piyali says is quite true as every one has the right to choose how to live their lives. However, if eveyrone starts doing this, then we would just become nothing but sex machnes as today, so many people have so many ex's :)

Cheers,

Sachin

I think in this age we can have sex with our girl friend when we are in extreme point of love; if the relation broke afterwards then it should forget and never pinch it to our ex..

well, My thoughts on this subject are skewed by my experience. Once my ex wanted a it, no way i would ever allow him back in my bed. I reserve that part of me for someone who want not only sex with me but me also. How can you have sex with someone you have broken up and not in touch with , isn't it called sexual gratification? since you two don't want to be together but then at the same time don't mind sharing bed. imagine next monin you wake up and thanks each other and leave . as if nothing happened.