I am in a long distance relationship since a few months and my boyfriend has started pressuring me to strip online.
I don’t want him to lose interest in me but is it safe?

What you do today in private can appear in street corner or your next door man's computer and to the world tomorrow! This is the kind of things that happen on the net - and the most private personal pass worded accounts are not safe - there are people who constantly monitor for any such items - to grab hold of - to blackmail, to make money out of you! Try it if you don't believe!! and put up with the consequences for the rest of your life - and for the world to see what you are like!!

its v grat my dear Tina ji ,

Thats sounds like creep..no distance relationship never works...he want to use u and make fun of u as much he can..now u decide what u have to do....world is not so big that he cant come to u in real..if he want to see u striped..

There's no question of culture and stuff.Just do it through a safe messenger and make sure he doesn't record this.Moreover you said "lose interest in me" what kind of love is this when you have to strip in front of a cam to make him stay?

NO, don't agree for it,

Have you made up your mind? what do you think? what is your answer? Do you think it is safe (on the net!!!)? Would you do it even for your husband (if he ever becomes your husband? or to any other man who eventually will become your husband?).

Porn stars do it for money!! if he wants to pay money to some cheap porn star to see it, it's up to him? do you want to lower yourself to that level?

Depends totally on your self value - cheap /dirty / loose / or dignified/ self-respecting and worth the best husband in the world!

Have you made up your mind? what do you think? what is your answer? Do you think it is safe (on the net!!!)? Would you do it even for your husband (if he ever becomes your husband? or to any other man who eventually will become your husband?).

Porn stars do it for money!! if he wants to pay money to some cheap porn star to see it, it's up to him? do you want to lower yourself to that level?

Depends totally on your self value - cheap /dirty / loose / or dignified/ self-respecting and worth the best husband in the world!

THIS IS A TYPE OF EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILING YOU SHOULD AT ONCE REMIND HIM THAT YOU ARE HIS GIRLFRIEND AND NOT A PORN STAR .IF HIS LOVES YOU HE SHOULD BE IN HIS LIMITS AND NEVER REPEAT THIS IN FUTURE ,IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU

Hi



Do it because you want to and not because you are being pressurized by someone. I presume you are an adult and well versed with the downside and risks involved..Its entirely should be your call

Long distance relationships can be troublesome, and things like phone chat , webcam chat etc do manage to keep some balance.



Do it keeping 2 things in mind -



1) You are doing it for the right reason and not the wrong ones( i.e. out of longing for your man, rather than desperation to hold onto him )



2) You gotta keep your face covered or out of frame. Its not about anything else, but your security and privacy first. A face not visible cant be identified right?

DO NOT, unless you are one hundred percent sure about the integrity of your boy friend. Men typically boast about their girl friends, and some men even show proofs. It is your identity that is going to be compromised, if your boyfriend is a jacka*** (no offense meant, please). You never know if the party on the other end is taking screenshots of the cam window where you show up your assets. Be watchful and exercise extreme care.

What does your common-sense say?

uske baap ka kya jata hai,

yes do it , trust him

It's up to you. You know him better than anyone else on the thread. And also relationship runs on the very sharp edge of the sword. It's your call.

its not advisable

bullshit!!!! wtf....Can't even use your own head....your that thing will end up in porn. site and later on you'll be called........

Are u on GRASS / POT.............??? if your answer is NO, then my answer is NO. If this "BF" aka "SOULMATE" can't understand the obvious then he DOESN't DESERVE YOU!!

hi

god, frustrating, i do not have a girl friend

no you r not safe

Hi Tina, First of all, its not advisable to do it as its not that safe..your strip act could easily become a mms on the net.. in case you really trust him, and seriously want to do it for him, you both should take care that the same is not recorded / and your face is not visible on the cam..you can take n number of precautions..but still my advice is dont do it

Hi Tina,

Ask him to do it first. Will he? As for being safe, definitely not.

hey tina, its ok dear, do whatever he want. and if ur bf will put ur vidio in net, i will tell u na beby, after all we all boys are brother and u r our new bhabhi

Oh Yeah Do that so we all can see ur booties. Remember net is a 2 edged sword. But stripping online for free is waste as its gona end up as +1 porn clip. Or if u really gona do, cover ur face with some mask which will save some embarrassment for u on a later stage when your so called BF leaks it online when u guys gona breakup. My two cents

If you are a born Indian and believe in Indian culture, never ever do that. An Indian woman strips only for her husband. What if he uploads your nude image in internet and porn sites? when you marry some one tomorrow and he comes across your nude clippings, what will happen? Keep this act only after your marriage and not now. Is he an Indian? I repeat, never ever do this blunder. Can you imagine the condition of your parents and other relatives if they come across your nude image?

You're giving him the best tool for him to blackmail you (for you to do anything for him or else...). Imagine.. if you don't end up marrying him, your future husband may find out (or prospective husband) and may be the cause for others not to marry you! This guy is sick, he is not your friend (consider him sick, who needs police treatment!). He can be charged with crime too!, and you can also end up with being charged for illegal distribution of pornographic material!!

r u nuts ?????????? who knows how many will be there on the other end .......

NO HE IS NOT UR FRIEND,I WILL SAY HE IS A SICK FELLOW GOOD ENOUGH TO DUMP HIM FOR EVER .

FRIENDS NEVER ASKS TO REMOVE CLOTHS, FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS TO PATCH UP THE THINGS IF IT COMES IN THEIR NOTICE, SOMETIMES IT NEVER COMES TO OUR KNOWLEDGE THAT WHO WAS THAT IDIOT (LOVELY) FRIENDS WHO PATCHED UP SO NICELY...KI PATAA BHI NAHI CHALAA;;GOOD LUCK

BETTER U DUMP HIM AND SEE HIS ANOTHER STEP

what will he get out of you stripping online? and he's gona dump you if you say no...Yup, sound like true love to me! And if you are wondering if its safe, just ask scarlett johansen, demi moore, and a myriad of other talentless hotties that have had their privates strewn all over the net, against their wishes....but ya, he sounds like a keeper...ahaha ahahaha hahahahaa

Yes its quite safe

If you strip online, sooner or later you can see your nude pictures on internet. So if at all you can't withstand his pressure and is forced to strip, then cover your face while doing it.

its fairly safe me and my GF and now wife did all the time.. if you trust him its fine.. physical intimacy is important more so in a LDR

Hi! Tina, No pls. do not go for this, as this will be dangerous for you later on, why is he asking you to do this what is the reason, the long distance relationship itself is dangerous, you do not know what the person on the other end is doing or what is he upto, what is his routines nothing then how can you trust this person. Let him come personally to see you that is the best way, get his details fully verified before going any further. If he really loves u then he wont ask you to do this, and you also do not think that if you strip online then he wont lose interest in you, you should know the relation of Bees & Flower.

shoud never go for that you should this type of things with your husband only and not with any other guy it may proove very dangerous lateron do the recordings

NO.NEVER.

I don't see a single reason how a online strip is safe? .. he might record it & misuse after, you both separated(break up) & he might use it to blackmail you. if accidentally, someone from your family, friends or anyone around you view the strip video.. it will be a total destruction & you can't handle it's mental tension.. I request you not to do anything stupid like online stripping & degrade your self.. which reduce your self respect near ur online boy friend & others too.

There is absolutely no problem stripping for your boyfriend if you trust him. We guys love to see a good strip show, and its better that our girlfriends do it, rather than us going to sleazy joint, contracting disease, and passing it on to you....if we need to blow off some steam, better our GFs help with that

this is very personal issue, in every relationship you have to pay for it. Your boyfriend just for fun want to see you nude, now its up to you , handle case with politics, and above all what is your point of view regarding this ? and not for the least what is your outlook towards life ? if you want to enjoy then surrender and proceed .Nothing is sinful if your inner soul is not feel guilty , so think and decide .

do u wanna be a friend of me-India

Hey Tina its totally safe so go ahead and strip on webcam. Also plz give us a piece of the pie as well. Don't let your boyfriend eat it all by himself.

hE DOESNOL LOVE YOU. NEVER DO THIS FOR A MAN WHO WANTS TO SHOW YOUR SECRET PARTS TO THE WHOLE WORLD.

As if you u r going to listen to all what has been said here??? Do as you please. As it is ur very intelligent, isn't it???

i dunn think its the right thing. and the people suggesting you to contact them for further help are also looking for the same thing. sex is a thing which should be between two only and not for public and u dunn know that he will record that moments or not. So to be very straight , i would like to suggest you ..no need to strip.Rest is your wish.Bye ...Gud Luck

actually tina mathur think ur self wat u want. do dat which want. & any other help for contact me

Either this problem is not a genuine one or u are completely CRAZZZZYYY!!!!....Du even know what ur thinking of doing?>....I mean how old are u...2???...C'mon!!!...which girl in her sane mind would thnk of doing something like this...have u even thought about the whole thing with a clear mind....WHICH relationship ,especially a long distance one,gets stronger with stripping online and probably making out on camera....Do u really think that this guy would hold on to you after u strip for him...DARLING,just remember one thing ---band mutthi lakh ki,khul gayi to khak ki!!!!...once he gets what he wants what will he come after u for....???...thats common sense!!!!...u want to hold on to him then act pricey...dont become an easy lay for him!!!...the fun is making the guy chase u...not vice versa,SILLY!!!!!

Tina, alternatively another solution to ur problem is if your BF wants to see you nude ask him either to come to you or call you there so in private let him see you as much he can absorb Vitamin E,throw the ball in his court.

HELLO TINA, I THINK YOU HAVE PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM TOO, BUT IT IS NOT PUBLIC, IT IS YOUR PRIVATE LIFE, BUT IF STRIP ONLINE IT WILL BE PUBLICLY AND RESULT IN MANY FAMILY TENSION,SO PLEASE DONT DO THIS AT ANY COST, IF YOU WANT ANY HELP FROM ME , I AM ALWAYS READY TO HELP YOU.

First glance, appearing to logical and rational demand of u bfrnd.. but in longer run if may cost u dearly if relationship doesn't last for long. As word of caution advised to control u r self and handle tactfully

Strip... but hide ur face.... only that is a good solution...

no,never ! if she's wants stripping better meet alone because it's completely unsafe, never do this.Plz

he is just using you ,my dear. take care....do not take any help from others,because u know him better from us...just take right decision.

i don't think it is bad if you are having good understanding and relationship. you both can enjoy each other on cam. say him to strip also as my GF always wants to see mine 9 inch tool and after me she also goes naked. we enjoy seeing each other on cam for more than 2 -3 hours

you are free to take your own deceision.Why do you bother others for your private affairs.

as a compleate stranger i recommend you not to do this before the cam because in any type of relationships people would not ask like this .i can assure you that after he watches you stripping for two to three times he will leave you and go away as he gets bored .if you have the capacity to handle the situation go ahead or otherwise please understand my words and stop doing it.

yes ,

Please don't do that...............

see it will be better if u make urs dummy mail ID and tell urs friend to chat with u.. as the way he askes u to do first u ask him to do so... once he did that u do it when ever u feel so but not immediately even i too enjoy it with many girls from lisbon, uk, astralia ,pakistahn, singapore almost 4m all over the world its really good no hesitation but most important is that u r scared and so u r right also but i think if u do with me u can be safe ... its u to decide now... mine mail id is asian007007@yahoo.com

if you're okay with your bf putting your stripping video on YouTube then go ahead :) If you stripping on webcam is kinky for you, just make sure you dont show your face and body in a continuous clip. By the way, you can also resort to Sexting and Phone Sex instead to keep his interest :) Overall I'd say get the f* out of a long distance rel and get a new bf :)

it is completly unsafe, never do this.

Please visit some po (r) (n) sites to see how many such contents are loaded. Where the naive girl does this upon insistence from the Boy friens who secretly records it and then have posted it in the net. Please refrain. When you meet personally please do everything..shout make noise make marks in the back ....but please not on the net.

You should not do that. You don't know the boy as if he didn't ask same thing with his ex-gfriends, Treat him as a friend, exclude the sexual relationship till marriage.

Ask him why online. If he want strip dance call him to ur room and do it. Ask him, whom he want to show ur strip dance?

While I agree with the posts here pertaining to future misuse, there is nothing wrong in taking a spontaneous walk on the wild side. Firstly, use Skype, and not Gtalk, msn,etc. as they use less secure protocols. Second, don't announce beforehand of when you plan to do the act (it must be when he is not expecting it or least expecting it), Third, ask him to show his surroundings to know where is watching from (closed room where he lives, etc); Fourth, practice makes perfect - remember any woman can strip, its the way you do it that makes the difference. All that said, trust your instinct and never do it out of fear or coercion. Do it only because you want to.

Don't forget, media that is streamed over the internet can be hacked and captured. There are certain softwares that can intercept explicit streaming content. So,even if your partner does not intend to cheat you, there are others who can take advantage.

let me tell you something my friend . it is ok in this westrenized society to get closer but this is a bit ridiculous.it is not safe and also not social.if he makes you to do that again tell him to f********f.because real boyfriend never ask you in that way.trust me. you are making a wrong chioce and you will suffer.

Tina, Webcam can be recorded easily. Do not be emotional and would recommend to avoid it. But if you still want to do it, ensure your face is not visible. But you need to understand, what damage the clip can do if it lands in wrong hands.

Look Tina, nowadays you can't be sure whether a relationship will last forever or not.. and let me tell u, god forbid, if things go wrong b/w u 2, ur stripping mms would surely be available on the internet for the world to see.. if u r ready for that situation, then go ahead.. else, stay away...



and there is also the risk of leaking as others using his laptop/pc might hv access to the private contents..



I hope u understand...

noo never do this..

agar wo aisa chata hai to saaf hai wo sirf tume nude dekhna chahta hai.

wo tumse pyaar nahi karta sirf dirty games khelna chata hai..

he just want to f**k.. aur tumare nude video ko record kar ke wo sites pe upload karega.

this guy is not good stay away with him


yaad rakhna wo tumse pyaar nahi karta..

behetar hai ek ache hindu boy ko dekh ke shadi karo aise fake ladako se door raho..



remember he dont love you..and he is not safe for you...

i dont wanna see your nude video in future..



i hope you understand hindi..

TIna, u will be in trouble in the future if u do so

There is risk involved, if all goes well it might not be recorded and even recorded never leaked to outside world. But if things goes sour between u 2 and it was recorded or snapshots taken, it can be leaked on web. There are 100s of these private Chat cam recordings on various sites. So be very carefull.

no, its not advisable at all. you could end up as the next big mms story if god forbid the relationship sours and that guy turns out to be a creep..so better safe than sorry..

NO, NEVER.

No, it is not advisable. Later, god forbid, if you are seperated, he may use the content in a different way. So please please do not give in.

It is not safe on line.First of all, your boyfriend may mis use it whenever you both are not in good terms,secondly the internet media is so powerful,the pornographic content like this,spreads like wild fire,So don't do the mistake.

You can advise your boyfriend to go to local strip club; You can accompany him if u both enjoy.