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Rihana Sultan Hi Manpreet have been facing somewhat problem in dealing with my husband's temper tantrums these days. I have noticed that he is telling me whi.. more
Priya Jacobs I may sound like chicken, but has anybody ever evaluated the tantrums the gf's or wifes can through. Overall the boys could sometimes get physic.. more
Topic owner: Manpreet Sodhi:
Evertime i refuse to my boyfriend to go out for a party with him, the very moment he starts throwing tantrums like avoiding my calls, not meeting for days etc... Can anyone help me out
Aashish Shrivastav..
Question is are you comfortable with him? if yes then have you been discussing about your plans and schedules with him in advance, boys do it when they feel insecure try make him comfortable by telling your schedule as and when it changes this will make him feel informed and important. Try to lick his ego, boys can be cooled that way very easily and you sure are matured enough to deside when things go out of way
Whiskay Peekay
Your BF needs a nice BJ from you at times like these. One you give him that ...he will be your puppy.
Avs Avs
He is interested in parties & wants you to join him. If you cant manage to express your point than the relationship is surely to have problem in the long run.
Girish Ingale
aila this is simple , gum mein rum ! get talli forget the days worries and start a brand new day !
Priya Jacobs
I may sound like chicken, but has anybody ever evaluated the tantrums the gf's or wifes can through. Overall the boys could sometimes get physical but the girls can do trmendous emotional damage to ruin great people. Wath the documentray Tyson to see what I am talking about. I think people shold start thinking outside of the status quo. See every other sphere of life we claim to equal, why not in this?
Girish Ingale
yoyu are 100% correct i agree with you
Rajesh Das
Firstly , your boyfriend is behaving in a kiddish manner. Can you please ask him to grow up ?
Secondly, does he consider you to be some kind of a trophy, to show off in front of his friends ? Ask him that ... seriously.
Thirdly , if you do not like to go out for parties , or you are not a party animal, or you dont like the crowd he goes out with or hangs out with, then please please please .. TELL HIM SO. Communicate your issues to him. All the same, once in a while make it a point to go out to parties with him, but only and only if you are comfortable with it. Believe me if your boyfriend is seriously involved in you, and your opinion matters to him , then he will change his behaviour. Chill down, but communicate .... dont get worked out. If he doesnt take your calls, you dont react to them. The way I see it, it takes two people to manage a relationship. If you are wondering that he is going to break up with you, if you dont call him, let him feel the same once. Its for him to lose you, as much as it is for you to lose him. If every time you get into panic mode, once you refuse to go for a party, and he doesnt take your calls or does'nt speak for days, then all you are telling him is that you are dependant on him.. . Cold shoulder him once ... and his tantrums will stop. Make him respect you and your opinions, as much as you respect his. Your boyfriend will change for the good.
Dev Kashyap
I have faced a problem with my gf when she used to get upset whenever i could not spend time with her... she would get upset for every small thing. But one day we sat and discussed things at length.. i think when you love a person you will understand his or her feelings... I try to spend as much time as possible with her and if i am struck ed in some work my girlfrd understands that well. Communication is the KEY
Dev Kashyap
I have faced a problem with my gf when she used to get upset whenever i could not spend time with her... she would get upset for every small thing. But one day we sat and discussed things at length.. i think when you love a person you will understand his or her feelings... I try to spend as much time as possible with her and if i am struck ed in some work my girlfrd understands that well. Communication is the KEY
Ishrat Khan
No two people are the same in any relation Manpreet. I think your guy should understand that... if he is not understanding ur feelings ... he is not worth it dan
Reena Sinha
Hi Manpreet & Rihana i think communication is the key to your problems. Definately do not communicate all your feelings in a heated environment but create a peaceful enviromnet where both partners are ready to listen to each other. Try not to repeat things from the past. Like starting the conversation but blaming each other etc.
Rihana Sultan
Hi Manpreet have been facing somewhat problem in dealing with my husband's temper tantrums these days. I have noticed that he is telling me white lies about his late night work shifts and all each time i confront he starts screaming, wailing and gets violent. I don't know why do people need to do such things in a relationship knowing that it will simply ruin a healthy relation. Why can't they have a healthy discussion to clear things out
Rajesh Das
Are you sure your husband does'nt feel as if you are suspecting him about something. Shak ek bahut buri beemari hai jiska koi ilaaj nahi hota .. Agar shak ke binaa par aap sawaal poochenge to wo naaraz to honge na. Is your husband a hot- tempered guy in general , or does he only get wild when you question him about his late nights? That said ... if you are sure that he is actually lying to you, and you have awesome proof about him, then sit down and discuss with him at a time when things are cool. Do it in a way which will not fray tempers. AND DO NOT TOLERATE VIOLENCE. Shouting is fine, but no getting violent. Thats bad .... Try to spend more time with him give him time, tell him that he means the world to you .... in all possible ways ... and he will be just fine. As far as temper is concerned, once you make the effort to get the coordination back, then it will be smooth sailing.
Chand Babu
Give him a free hand .Donot question about his late coming or for any thing for some time.Let him be cool and have soft corner for you after some.I think there appears to be lack of coordination in s love at home ,he would never like to join hand with other lady after all you can know that nothing is better than the relationship of Husband and wife.
Anand Venkatesh
What is his problem... You are free to go places where u want to and free not to go to places you don't feel comfortable in.... Can't he understand a simple rule of any relation... Freedom!!! Is he mad or what
Ahana Bhattacharya
Hi Manpreet, that not done.. If you not comfortable in going out for any parties with him why don't you communicate it clearly to him ... do communicate your point of hesitation and may be you guys could find a way out
