I have heard and read several times that watching porn can be healthy for your relationship but in my case it's unhealthy!
Since he wants me to behave like those porn stars. Which is impossible for me. I am really concerned regarding his addiction for porn. So all you couples out there, my piece of advice is watching porn can be dangerous for your relationship.

Would it make any difference? For example: you do not watch porno but develop a secret desire for it - then what happens. Watch it but just think it is moving pictures made to captivate your being. Develop a strong will of accepting you as you are. Not watching porno will not make you any better

Watching porn films is not good.Excess of everything is bad. Actually these films is for those couple/persons who are physically/mentally weak in sex so for that they can use. But in india it becomes a shok and fantancies are rises day more to more and finally it becomes a habbit. And its futher effect is that he/she becomes weak in his/her sexually life. when he goes his partner if he cannot fulfill his/her desires then he/she will move to others persons(he/she). In our life sex play a great role. It gives us pleasure,happiness,rest,mentally peace and others. And the main thing is respect to our society.If we break the chain then we face very odd situation from that it will be impossible to come out.So best way is to come out to do sex with partner with full time(sex and orally) and mostly when he was distribed due to any reasons.Sufficient timeof sex will be healthy for both.Think when you are working over computer for a long time you become dull,mentally dead and want peace. if you paste your photo on computer he will be happy and become energic.finally it is dangerous for your relationship.

Anything within limits is good. Excess of everything is bad. Husband wife watching porn together is good as it ignites passion in both and can end in a good bed session. Yes, his expecting you to perform like a porn star is not practical. May be you should talk about it with him.

Tell him clearly that you are not a porn-star and he should not expect you to act like one. At the same time, be a little more adventurous and try to overcome your inhibitions. A little bit of experiment in sexual relations will make your husband happier and your relationship more fruitful

i agree u

Yes you are right Pooaj.Watching porn is just for entertainment and time pass.You cannot behave likes porn stars because they are professional and we are not professional.we cannot do sex likes porn stars and if we do likes porn stars it may be possible that you may face any physical problem and its dangers for both of you.It's possible that we have more stamina than porn stars but we cannot follow their action.So your husband should understand this.Reply if you liked my suggestion

Yes you are right Pooaj.Watching porn is just for entertainment and time pass.You cannot behave likes porn stars because they are professional and we are not professional.we cannot do sex likes porn stars and if we do likes porn stars it may be possible that you may face any physical problem and its dangers for both of you.It's possible that we have more stamina than porn stars but we cannot follow their action.So your husband should understand this.Reply if you liked my suggestion

JUST USE UR HEAD ....THATS IT .

dear Pooja its not dangers for all becoz u think u cant do all those thing which u seen in movie but many wife like this and they do an denjoy lot so sweet heart just try to do and enjoy

yes pooja i would rather suggest you to throw all the porn cds out of your home ,,, and delete those stuffs from pcs and laptop ,, i knw a mans nature ,,,just explain him that watching porn at this age will ruin his sex appeal ,,, as he would finish his entired desire while watch porn ,,and would be nothing left for u ,, within some years .. that how ppl comes in a bad relationships ..womens have extra maritial affairs as their husband are not able to satisfy them... so please avoid it ..as being a male escort i understand a meet such women every day so guy please play safe

as i said earlier guys there is also other world accept sex,,, and watch porn is just for certain ages ,after marriage watching porn movie will make you weak in bed with your wife ,, it will work for younger around twenties but above 30 males should not get addicated to porns or else their sex life will be a disaster

itsa an art of intimacy... it shud only act as a catalyst n not turn ur hubby into a ruthless beast for rough s** KS teaches emotional bonding.. so he can read books also 2 simulate de environment... btw if u feel tat he is a s** addict thr r medicines 2 reduce his libido or u can control him through food... cheers make a pleasurable love making session every now n thn... rather than making him wait n increasing his libido..4 want of more rough s** make sure u dedicate time 4 making it out.. rather than making up reason 4 not making it together... thr is no couple who wud hv headache bz of s** infact it will get cleared...!! even if they r tired... it will rejunivate n make u fresh after a gud session...so enjoy ;)

well, maybe you suck in bed (like my word choice, eh?) and instead of cheating on you, he's resorting to this...maybe instead of whining and complaining like a 5 year old girl, you can look within yourself to see if you could be more of a giving partner in bed...now, go make me sandwich woman!

Its bad as it could lead to unhealthy addiction and all religions consider it as sinful.

watching porn is a matter of personal choice. But its not correct for your partner to force you to watch it or behave or do things like the porn stars. what if you too decide that you want him perform like the guys in the movies..it is a two way street..afterall, you are a human being..not an object to satisfy desire which is what the porn films project women to be

POOJA MISRHA : Dear sex is natural resources of strenght of a man or women when you and anyone try to use it in animal way its goes wrong. We are superior than animal so there is no need to act like animal. Sex is just like fire and for fire no need any external instigation to get it charge what is needed is just women or a man thats it. Presence of opposite sex is enough to spark any normal or healthy man or women. I agreed upon your statement that PORN does not help in SEX but somewhat it disturb the comman man or women.

Oh! Best is Indian Kamasutra compare to foreign countries styles. On those movies..They behave very wrongly with women. I have Indian movies and my GF she likes very much Indian KS but she hate Foreign movies.

no madam, there is nothing wrong in watching porn movies. in fact this has been very useful in improving sexual relationship between many married couple. but make sure there should no be too much of watching porn movies. also make sure to watch together with your husband. if your husband watch porn alone than it would be dangerous becoz he migh become addicted to it and take it in wrong way. but if you are with him while watching, he may no get affected too much by this movie. further watching movie you get different ideas in your sex life which make your relationship good and bedroom life very spicy and sexy and eventually you live a happy married life.

Too much of anything can be detrimental.Watch with him and challenge your hubby that if he can match with the male porn star's physique and endurance, then you can too behave like pornstar. hahahahaha.There is nothing to learn new or get inspired from porn movies. It is just to watch and elevate our mood.Well, pooja, it is not 'dangerous' for relationsships.

married life always very personal and cofidensioal. so do not show off or open in public. sex is very important in marrided life but most important that how you and your partner enjoy it. now a days sex talk is fad. everybody come with all foolish quetion to ask people to get opinion. everyboday do the same sex style then why disclose in public. sex is secondary in life but most important. you maitailn your reletion & love with partner. and try to sovle your self and don't ask in public. expeiece of sex everybody enjoy as per their teast. your partner like porn style but u don't like. that why u r husband wife. always love will be more when 2 diffrent style people come together. all the best and enjoy your sexual life as you like.

u must be happy to do it...else he might go to some porn star...so u better be her prostitute and porn star :)

Watching porn in no way “WRONG”

PORN is one of the mean's to satisfy one’s gratification and same as you perform on bed but only difference is the participation where you are only a spectator. I highly recommend a husband & wife to watch porn together which in my opinion ignites the passion in both of them. But you need to have a understanding with your spouse as well as mutual consent.But one thing needs to be considered that “Excess of everything is bad” so to an extent it’s ok but if it become's an addiction then it may create some rift between spouse.

Still if your spouse has an addiction to porn then you can have a talk with him with a open mind. You need to put your consideration in a way that it should not offend his sense of freedom.

Moreover sex is very important part of life and we should enjoy it to the fullest , don’t bother much on these issue ,it’s a natural tendency of human being.

I believe porn adds up to your sex life, you can take some inspirations from there and experiment with your own sex life. It will only boost your sexual life.

Pooja, i don agree with you completely. if your hubby likes watching it let him and if he is asking you to acccompany him thena lso i don't see any issue in that. But, yes expecting you to act like a porn star can be a point of rift between the two. It's a very personal thing and you hav right to like it or dislike it.

i really doubt that it can make a healthy relationship by watching porn... because the hubby lecthes on the woman and wife on the man and its already infedility ...so where is the healthy relationship.... healthy happy relationship is only by talking discussing the problem and finding the solutions together..... Q1. do you like your hubby watching porn , if not put the matter on the table and ask wot is actual problem is .... is the S$% or the Women in the porn movies .. wotever ask him to come out clear..... only when you know the problem then only u can look for solution.. believe me ... me and my wife have never watched porn ..... no i am not lying ..... but we are the best of friends and every problem is discussed and everytime it is passion and love .. not just Lust or S$%........... so talk to him be his buddy ....

involving sex like pornographical film is immpossible for normal women but good sex resulted in mental and physical relationship stringer

hi, pooja i think it will be helpful to make the strong physical relationship but it is my personal view.

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