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Lavanya Sharma Ok Sahir, pls relax! Women are not as complicated as you make them sound. I think men need to understand this. It's so simple really, women just.. more
Simone Rana Whenever in doubt, I'll tell you a universal law that works best for women: Clothes, bags & shoes!!! more
Topic owner: Sahir Rehman: Okay..I am at the point where I am about to give up on women completely!!! Whenever things seem to be going so right, suddenly something happens & leaves me all confused! I don't understand: What is it that women really want?? Somebody pls help me!
Gopala Chintakindi
They want love, affection, care, support and also money, material pleasures..first they look for later parts (money, material pleasures) and if they get them and then look for former parts(love, affection, care, support) in same man..but my life taught me that girls will never look for love, affection, care, support first...they always look for money, material pleasures first
Sudhir Chauhan
womens are attention seekers they are not dumb they just pretend to be they want want to treat them like a young baby always .. to cut the long story short they need love and care financial security is not the primary thing i do not agree with the people who have posted there comment that women look for financial security first, infact i believe if she thinks whats wrong in that but that is not primary ever..
Sanjiv Saini
Hi I'm Sanjiv from Delhi. And I feel,Now a Women wants everything instead of Love and care.And its true 100%
Girish Ingale i agree 100% the female race cannot be trusted 100% i say this being firm on my views based on research and practicality
Neha Khandelwal
What women want isn't that different from what men want...just the amout varies.
Plus there cannot be any generalization for "what women want"..even women are human first !
I have come across quite a few men who care about their clothes, bags and shoes more than an average woman does!
Lets Keep away the generalization..coz the answer is very subjective.
Plus there cannot be any generalization for "what women want"..even women are human first !
I have come across quite a few men who care about their clothes, bags and shoes more than an average woman does!
Lets Keep away the generalization..coz the answer is very subjective.
Vikram Sharma
Women are different than the men ,men doesnot look financial security in women .And then men are more emotinal and less practical . I am saying in percentage.
Jess Kaur
Sahir: Women want the same thing men want :
To be loved and cared about . To accept them as they are without trying to change them, compliment them and forgive them. Stand by them and stand behind them. To have your show of support even if the whole world thinks they are wrong. Give them your advice and gentle persuasion not your judgments and harsh words.
To be loved and cared about . To accept them as they are without trying to change them, compliment them and forgive them. Stand by them and stand behind them. To have your show of support even if the whole world thinks they are wrong. Give them your advice and gentle persuasion not your judgments and harsh words.
Ranjeev Kumar to sum this up "Genuine Care"
B Nair
What women want, simple., make them happy..some like to talk,some like physical contact.Its a sense of security both emotional and otherwise that makes a woman truely happy.At the same time they need some space to ponder about and sense that they are lucky to have all that.Having said all that no two women are truely alike.Two sayings for men.. You never know what happiness is till you are married and A man is not complete till he is married and then he is finished :) well even then I would indeed marry !
Suhas Thavare
Here every one is talking what women want?
Will some one tell me, what a man can give to women,not materially?
Consider it is this way- female species as energy, and male species as power. what energy can give , by its' own virtue energy needs to be vibrant, and for male, it is exactly opposite, but if arranged in proper way both can be very supportive, also.
thanks.
Suhas
Will some one tell me, what a man can give to women,not materially?
Consider it is this way- female species as energy, and male species as power. what energy can give , by its' own virtue energy needs to be vibrant, and for male, it is exactly opposite, but if arranged in proper way both can be very supportive, also.
thanks.
Suhas
Khan Dangi
Thats funny..what woman want.
women itself dont know what she want in life.
someone told woman want money, diamonds, bags , shoes.
even though if you provide all these things she wil never happy. women mind start thinking another thing. if you buy some most expensive diamond the nshe forgot that and she expect another diamond in the same shop.
if you buy very pretty shoes, she will look at other womens shoes and likes them most.
if you buy flower rose then she thinking of Tulips and if you buy Tulip she thinks about roses.
if you take her to switzerland she forget about that tour and she complaints about not going to paris.
finally if you take care her more than her parents, she start complaining in different way.
Conlusion, women are born unsatisfied creature on earth., their mind programmed like that only.
so dont try to study about what women want.
it is like finding answer for egg first ot chicken
enjoy
women itself dont know what she want in life.
someone told woman want money, diamonds, bags , shoes.
even though if you provide all these things she wil never happy. women mind start thinking another thing. if you buy some most expensive diamond the nshe forgot that and she expect another diamond in the same shop.
if you buy very pretty shoes, she will look at other womens shoes and likes them most.
if you buy flower rose then she thinking of Tulips and if you buy Tulip she thinks about roses.
if you take her to switzerland she forget about that tour and she complaints about not going to paris.
finally if you take care her more than her parents, she start complaining in different way.
Conlusion, women are born unsatisfied creature on earth., their mind programmed like that only.
so dont try to study about what women want.
it is like finding answer for egg first ot chicken
enjoy
Sach Ka Samna
Women just want ATM card or cash to spend and men just want to be left alone with their remote controls.
Krishnakali Dasgup..
Well... all I can say is .I don't think it is correct to typecast women as emotional and men as the practical lot .. cause I believe several of us have come across reverse examples too ..but even if we take it as a fact that men and women are different as in apples and oranges .. but at the end of the day no two apples are alike and neither are two oranges.
So even though I can start making a list of things women dream of having n her man .. it will not be a fair one ..as some go for the successful , responsible financially sound type ..and secretly yearn for them to be true romantic at heart ..while there is also a group who invariably fall for the bohemian, ultra talented artistic type ... ( though throughout the rest of their lives they wish the guy would actually sit up and take some responsibility ) . So do you think women are complicated ? women want it all? .. well dont we all ? are you not looking for a girl ..who will always be in a great mood ( whatever foul syuff might be happening to her in her life ).. as pretty as smart and intelligent so you can show her off to your friends, , well mannered and family oriented .. so your parents will approve as well as grounded and capable enough to take care of your home and kids throughout the rest of your life . well isn't it a superwoman you are asking for ? and you are not ready to put up with a little bit of tantrums?
I am not trying to be a feminist here . In a relation ( in every relation ) we need to remember that the person on the other side is a human being like us .... so it may take a lifetime to figure that person out ... that too you may never actually figure out ..because people keep changing with time . Don't try too hard. It is important to know your partners basic likes and dislikes and respect them .If there is some behavior you completely don't understand ... have a dialogue and talk it out. Say you want to know why this problem is happening repeatedly and you want it to stop. Explain your stance and let the other person speak too. Also we all tend to blame our partners for not having done things but do we appreciate the things that they did ? it is always - why did you not do this ? why did you say that ? ..but how many times do we say ' thank you so much for having done this - i really appreciate it and i love you more for that '? it is very difficult to say because for that you have to take notice of the little considerations the other person is making for you - say it .. it is a magic trick .. people love being appreciated and they will always love you more for having noticed and said that .
So even though I can start making a list of things women dream of having n her man .. it will not be a fair one ..as some go for the successful , responsible financially sound type ..and secretly yearn for them to be true romantic at heart ..while there is also a group who invariably fall for the bohemian, ultra talented artistic type ... ( though throughout the rest of their lives they wish the guy would actually sit up and take some responsibility ) . So do you think women are complicated ? women want it all? .. well dont we all ? are you not looking for a girl ..who will always be in a great mood ( whatever foul syuff might be happening to her in her life ).. as pretty as smart and intelligent so you can show her off to your friends, , well mannered and family oriented .. so your parents will approve as well as grounded and capable enough to take care of your home and kids throughout the rest of your life . well isn't it a superwoman you are asking for ? and you are not ready to put up with a little bit of tantrums?
I am not trying to be a feminist here . In a relation ( in every relation ) we need to remember that the person on the other side is a human being like us .... so it may take a lifetime to figure that person out ... that too you may never actually figure out ..because people keep changing with time . Don't try too hard. It is important to know your partners basic likes and dislikes and respect them .If there is some behavior you completely don't understand ... have a dialogue and talk it out. Say you want to know why this problem is happening repeatedly and you want it to stop. Explain your stance and let the other person speak too. Also we all tend to blame our partners for not having done things but do we appreciate the things that they did ? it is always - why did you not do this ? why did you say that ? ..but how many times do we say ' thank you so much for having done this - i really appreciate it and i love you more for that '? it is very difficult to say because for that you have to take notice of the little considerations the other person is making for you - say it .. it is a magic trick .. people love being appreciated and they will always love you more for having noticed and said that .
Kunal Khanna I totally agree...nice thought
Ashwin G
Hold on ...do u people feel that men are `Reserve Bank of India` & women the ATM card to withdraw the money from it. First of all both of them are human beings & it is the responsibility to understand each other in the same context. Men also deserve the same treatments as a women desires. Understanding each other in the right context will sort out evrything, if their egos dont clash with each other...
Nagabhushana Kb
Lavayaji,
That's true..women need care,love but problem is they will never tell or express their feeling to guy leaving him confused..
That's true..women need care,love but problem is they will never tell or express their feeling to guy leaving him confused..
Partha Sarathy
I can a say simple difference between men and women.
Men -- Used to think and will do
Women -- Used to do and will think.
Men -- Used to think and will do
Women -- Used to do and will think.
Partha Sarathy
Lavanya understanding women is not a problem or very hard to men. But the problem is women always doubts men in each and every aspect. Say for example if men tells the truth women will think why he is telling the same. Women always love and like lying men rather men who are truthful to them.
Yash Agarwal
the only thing women needs is to have a trust on men. Women cant trust someone easily so they always feels unsecured about their life and thats why they are unpredictable. All women thinks that men wants only one thing from women which is not at all true. They are some exception and womens needs to believe that.
Vikram Sharma
Modern women security,in terms of financial and then possibly she can bear a person.AN AVERAGE FROM AVERAGE BACK GROUND AII WF TALK ABOUT AND IN LOVE,all that.
Sunita H
She Just Want That Man She Love Should love to fulfill her wants.
Govardhan Ks That is where the question starts what she want??
Vikas Bondarde correct
Santosh Ramachandr..
Hello Ladies, yes what you say is right, men need to understand women, well women just like men who make them feel good, compliment them, get them gifts, take them out shopping, remember their birthday, what could be better isnt it?
Men on the other hand are different, they like to do different things, most men would dread the word shopping for hours and hours, most men would like to go out for a drink, they forget birthdays, etc, just that we men are different. It would be great if women could understand this about us too.
Its just that women think a certain set of things are important and men think another set of thins are important, thats it. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.
All said and done It only takes a little give and take from both sides to get this going right. There is no question that men will always be attracted to women and women would always like to be taken care of and treated well by a man. This is for all eternity. So its best to try and understand the other side too and have a little give and take and this would be the way to happiness.
Men on the other hand are different, they like to do different things, most men would dread the word shopping for hours and hours, most men would like to go out for a drink, they forget birthdays, etc, just that we men are different. It would be great if women could understand this about us too.
Its just that women think a certain set of things are important and men think another set of thins are important, thats it. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.
All said and done It only takes a little give and take from both sides to get this going right. There is no question that men will always be attracted to women and women would always like to be taken care of and treated well by a man. This is for all eternity. So its best to try and understand the other side too and have a little give and take and this would be the way to happiness.
Ashok Lalwani
I presume most of the people have heard about his line "Man needs never ends" since school.......but I think it should be amended now to "Women needs never ends".
Rajesh Das
Lavanya, I'd like to reply back to two of ur statments - 'women just need someone who can understand them, someone who can take care of & look after them & someone who never lets them down' - Guess wot young lady , Ive been trying to prove this to someone who just doesnt seem to understand, all logic and reason seems to fail in front of her.
2.' Women are not as complicated as you make them sound'. Women in general are more complicated than they appear, and the point is they complicate simple things. As if Life is not complicated anyways, there are these 'complications to deal with as well. And Im not just talking a about this 'one' person in general - all the way down from my mom to some of my friends, to my aunts, buas, daadi to my colleagues - all of them spend a major amount of time comlicating life for themselves and those around.
Im not an MCP , and I believe in giving women all the respect that they deserve, and even more. But when I hear such airy statements, I feel that women ( albeit some of you) , should actually take a good hard look at your ideas ,and then make such statements. What is it that you want, when you get a person who is ready to love u take care of you no strings attached, someone who stands up for you, then you come up with statements like - 'Im not ready ' or 'where is the money honey', and when you get a guy with money, then you start harping about an emotional character... Isnt this confusion ... ? You know what I think , women want the best of both worlds, heads I win tails you lose .... Unfortunately thats not the way life goes about ..
2.' Women are not as complicated as you make them sound'. Women in general are more complicated than they appear, and the point is they complicate simple things. As if Life is not complicated anyways, there are these 'complications to deal with as well. And Im not just talking a about this 'one' person in general - all the way down from my mom to some of my friends, to my aunts, buas, daadi to my colleagues - all of them spend a major amount of time comlicating life for themselves and those around.
Im not an MCP , and I believe in giving women all the respect that they deserve, and even more. But when I hear such airy statements, I feel that women ( albeit some of you) , should actually take a good hard look at your ideas ,and then make such statements. What is it that you want, when you get a person who is ready to love u take care of you no strings attached, someone who stands up for you, then you come up with statements like - 'Im not ready ' or 'where is the money honey', and when you get a guy with money, then you start harping about an emotional character... Isnt this confusion ... ? You know what I think , women want the best of both worlds, heads I win tails you lose .... Unfortunately thats not the way life goes about ..
Rhea Singh
Women want money, shoes, bags, cosmetics, jewellery, a bit of travel, good food and unconditinal love. Is that too much to ask for?
Kunal Khanna BURN...
Govardhan Ks yes too much.. Men should be owner of a Mall or what?? and what you are giving them in return???
Keizer Soze
women want everything...in a man...they just need someone who can bare listening to their complaining all the time.
Simone Rana
Whenever in doubt, I'll tell you a universal law that works best for women: Clothes, bags & shoes!!!
Bondalpaty Satyawa.. are u trying to confuse tem hehe..
Rhea Singh Yeah, I forgot the diamonds- how careless of me !!!! ;-))))
Trishna Ghatge Yeah, lol! & diamonds!! Every girl's best friends!!!
Darshan Yadav
Sahir, you have raised a very good question. I don't have the answer for it!! So many songs, movies & books are on this same topic, but till date no one knows exactly what women want!!
Debashish Acharya True. A movie called 'What Women Want' was made on this topic. Also, you should listen to this song by Bryan Adams called 'Have you ever really loved a woman?'
Lavanya Sharma
Ok Sahir, pls relax! Women are not as complicated as you make them sound. I think men need to understand this. It's so simple really, women just need someone who can understand them, someone who can take care of & look after them & someone who never lets them down. That's all! Is it too hard for men to get this??
Anish Bhagwat Its true! I totally agree with you. And its also true they like gift, surprises etc etc. But it is very difficult to discuss in very general terms. It is changes every person by person. We can’t make general prediction.
Gaurav Mahati Personally I don't agree with Lavanya's assessment. The qualities....like understanding, caring, look after...etc..etc.. are good to mention only. When it comes to money, status, glamor...women just forget everything...and run behind these craps !!!
Raavs Smash lavanya its too much too expect. Mens are not banks giving a services and you are no customer. Be a part of relationship and you will enjoy otherwise with these expectation u will destroy all your relationship. What u give hopefully u get back and u don't then try some other door.Be practical with a heart. Think over it
Rhea Singh Lavanya, that's precisely it. It is toooo hard for men to get this.
Saniya Akbar Well said Lavanya! A lthough of course I feel thatwomen need many other things too ;) Like gifts are always a good thing! As are compliments every now & then!!!
