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Girish Ingale A free advise my friend ... consider it or ignore it ! Try not to be bothered for not having a girlfriend... infact be bothered about being commi.. more
Supriya T Jagtap Naveen to the question of urs, that why in the world you are still single, I would say may be you havenot yet found ur ideal miss. right girl to go a.. more
Topic owner: Naveen Verma:
Guyz...please don't assume me worried..bt i just want to know...Y in the world I am still single? I had always been close to girls..had a descent bonding with many...but never went above friendship..Any clues???
Keizer Soze
well bro its not clear if u know her or have just seen her eyes. if u know her well u make ur own destiny brother. u create your own oppourtunities. if u know her, that someone who likes u and looks at u in a way that is very different from others, well just go upto her and ask her. Be confident, women respond to confidence, if she likes u, she wont say no, but make it special for her, ask her respectfully, look into her eyes, dont break eye contact, smile and ask with confidence of a postive response. ask her as if u know the answer will be yes. ask her first for her email and phone number and her permission to call her or just say i like u and would like to get to know u better. say it like u mean it and be confident that she'll say yes. women are very good at reading body language, she can see from ur eyes that u know u will get her, actually she will search for that look in ur eyes. because when u give that look, many things get reassured, firstly, that u are attracted in her, secondly you are confdent of yourself, thirdly u have the guts to face rejection, fourthly u thought about it before u asked her, fifthly, by asking her ur boosting her self confidence. compliments work miracles, simple things like u have a lovely smile, silky hair, smooth skin are appreciated. but when u tell her about why u like her include something which is unique to her. good luck
Mleccha H
You are lucky my friend. Girlfriends are for instant gratification. They dont hold any long term value
Keizer Soze
I recently fell in love and committed to my precious, now my personal suggestion follow your instincts, secretly all of us wish for the type of ideal partner, mate, now i dont know how old u are, but keep ur eyes and heart open, for all u know someone u know already likes u and wants to be with u. its all in the eyes my friend, find those eyes that are seeking u, find that voice that calms u, find that personality that amazes u, find that beauty which is natural i.e not artifical flavors, reading this description i am sure someone u know popped into ur head, if she is single ask her out, if no one comes to mind, it means ur not seeing with ur heart. take ur time, no rush.
Naveen Verma
hey u kinda mind reader.....or it is basic human psychology..LOL...btw friend wat if i knw wat eyes it is but destiny not allowing me neither giving me opportunity to luk into those eyes...
Keizer Soze
Naveen you dont have a girl friend or some one who loves you because your too busy writing about your problem in this pathetic place and taking advice from loosers who have nothing better to do but to waste their time writing bs here. the women are out there and not in a pc my friend. The day you stop whining about your problem and do something about it, you'll find someone, do whats best for you, advice from here is useless. Your reality is very different from everyone here so look for your own solutions, its part of what makes you a man. If you dont know what to do with your time and life how in the world will u get a girl?
Naveen Verma
Thanks for a very honest answer keizer...i had a smile after reading first few lines of ur post. but keizer...let me make it clear..i m not that regular here...plus i did post this discussion to observe different views rather taking suggestions. I guess i m big enuf to find out y own solutions...don't u think??
Jing Jing
coz you have not found the right one for you..keeping trying...
Naveen Verma
really want to try but these days...seems girls and boys ratio is hitting me ... jst don't meet new girls enuf...waiting for somegud opportunity. :) .
Ramchandra Varma
most probably you not found a suitable one as partner.May be one way feelings about your friends.It's not a matter off worry.Some one will come in your life at right time.
Gilberto Defreitas
Perhaps you are afraid of commitment and lives a sheltered life with Mom and Dad. Such is the case of many that have depression but does not know it. Be on your own and be responsible for yourself anf get off the computer will you. Research now shose that those that are computer nerds are actually depressed and live in their own bubble/ They lack commitment and are afraid to take responsibility. They often depend on others and are afraid of the unknown and cannot move forward.
Naveen Verma
guess u r right..... :)
Aditya S
dear fren,i am also amidst d same problem...if i find a gal suitable for me either she s already committed or not redy for a relationship.....am also fed up of bein single....and everyone out there.......can u tell me how to approach a gal whom i like bt who doesnt kno me.....???????
Meghdut Guha
Naveen in your own word: " damn scared of commitment, responsibilities. I was njoying my freedom. " reason is clear.
Naveen Verma
but now i feel like responsibilities r also smthing very interesting...one shud experience this too....
Mona Shah
maybe ....u did not find the ideal partner , or the time was not right , or u did not hv any special feelings at that point in time .....don't fret ....just be .....enjoy life as it comes !!!!
Naveen Verma
Lately i came to know that there is only one reason for me being single for so long...I ws damn scared of commitment, responsibilities. I was njoying my freedom. Plus smhow i did'nt met any gal i kud fall for too...there were many attractions but never gt the comfort level i might expect from anyone...I m also scared in moving over frnship...damn so much of scary things. LOL. Thanx for reply By d way. Keep posting.
Naveen Verma
Guys thanks everybody for ur posts.....really njoyed .. today...May 13th 11 past 30 pm, this discussion has been featured on the cover of itimes. Thanks everybody...altho it is normal but it happen to be my first participation in online discussion and grabbing a space on homepage for all the itimes users happened coz of a wonderful discussion we had here....So cheers everybody!!!
Naveen Verma
aise saath ko kaun mana karega....girish!!!
Girish Ingale
hamare saath rahoge toh aish karoge ! LOL !
Girish Ingale
hamare saath rahoge toh aish karoge ! LOL !
Naveen Verma
thanx priya .. cheers to u too!!! oops..4got u don't drink..LOL
Supriya T Jagtap
cheers n congrats naveen!!
happy posting naveen!!
Meghdut Guha
Naveen,
Good sentu to attract girls..!!..Joking...don't take it seriously.......
Look at my contact list...............I have ninety five friends....
First learn to mix with girls as friend and someone among them will turn out to be girl friend.......you need not try hard for that.
Girls generally look out for sensible. responsible, men with a good sense of humour and who shows - I do care attitude.
Normally the indication comes very strong from their end forst.....That's my experience.
Try it out - sensibly
Naveen Verma
Guyz....who feel sad bout there vacuum love life.....please watch the movie HITCH. n yes...i said HITCH not PARTNER (its remake).
Girish Ingale
A free advise my friend ... consider it or ignore it !
Try not to be bothered for not having a girlfriend... infact be bothered about being committed ! There's nothing more merry than being single and happy .Live a life man , don't waste it behind love and all that crap... infact try something new, hobbies, adventure , sports, kya ladki ladki ladki .... its no big deal buddy !
Mohan Muralidhar N..
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba ...Girish Ingale ki jay.....
Baba i agree with you.How ever i want some thing from you.I want *** .So how can you suggest me.What to do?
Pls quickly reply me Baba..........
Supriya T Jagtap
OK Gopala...
Naveen I dont drink at all.. it was just for fun... i m ending this here... no more discussion or replies on my comments expected,....
Gopala Chintakindi
Hi Supriya..you took me wrong.. I didnot mean anything bad.. i also enjoyed drinking comments ..what I mean to say this Girish post has become too long and we just 4 of us are talking to each other and people who may see this post will feel like we are kids and unmatured so i just wanted to stop this Girish reply since it is getting too long.. thats what i mean..i am sorry if you feel bad and took it wrong...i never intended that
Naveen Verma
Supriya...don't stop drinking though....LOL
Supriya T Jagtap
Hey Gopala dont take it personally.. we all are just kidding and we all know the fact.. just enjoying n making few comments.. whch can make us laugh for a minute is no HARM i feel.. so behaving like kids for a while is also no harm i feel when we all cannot see or talk to each other personally... anyways lets end it out here the discussion.. its my mistake coz i bluffed n exaggerated this drink discussion alot.. coz i was enjoying commenting on it...
Gopala Chintakindi
I guess now it is too much and we are acting like kids..I am out of here..
Naveen Verma
Anytime supriya...who vud deny a girl in party....specially people like me...who is still single...LOLLLLLLLLLL
Supriya T Jagtap
Gopala m interested to join... hahahahaaaa........
Girish when will u next open the bar??
wht if i say YES naveen m serious.. the party wud b in mumbai.. joining??? LOL
Gopala Chintakindi
In that case I am taking lots of liquor to home and also chicks...anybody wanna join..lol..
Naveen Verma
@Girish can i get one last peg.....please....
Girish Ingale
ok ok guys .. .the bar is closed ... come back tomorrow ...
Gopala Chintakindi
Supriya..how can I describe taste of it..it depends on the type of one which you have.. i generally go for Margareta (Malibu's brand) with Vodka...and ice....people use all other kind..yes that would be good and fun to watch u go wild..
Naveen Verma
Pirates were right...never take a girl on ship...LOL....Supriya....r u really serious...? tell me where is the party then....???
Supriya T Jagtap
hahahaha naveen i thot u wud offer me hard drink.. and
gopala how is the taste of magarita? do let me knw LOL.. i dont mind implementing practically ur suggestion of going wild once in a while.. hehehehe ;)
Gopala Chintakindi
I think gals can try Margarita..that is nice social drink..but to be frank I like gals who get drunk and go WILD...lol..that to one a while..not always and everytime...that is way to spice up life..
Naveen Verma
k supriya join us.....will arrange some fruit juice for ya...LOL....
Supriya T Jagtap
me too want to have wht u all trying... have never ever drank in first place but if u guys insist so much dont mind trying once.. hehehehe!!
Gopala Chintakindi
I like Vodka with Red bull and Ice.. hehehehehe
Naveen Verma
k gopala..guess u r right....m out of this buddy......n sorry i don't drink..lol..rather get me black cofffee..he he
Girish Ingale
beer ? na na I prefer Bacardi Breezer ! :-)
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen...i guess we need to leave them alone.. in such cases it is better to leave the parties alone and deal with them.. just my personal feeling..i guess girish.. supriya.. and naveen( by posts ) online where everyone can read are behaving like kids.. it is better you mail private messages.. not in front of all.. you are grown up, educated and working professional.. come on gal and guys..be relax.. chill out.. hey supriya..have a chill pill.. giri and naveen..have chilled beer and cool out dudes..
Naveen Verma
hey hey hey...supriya...y r u being so bothered...chill buddy...n girish....c'mon yar...be nice to people....she is feeling so bad yar....k we all r stranger bt if we r talking this means we shud tk cr of eachother's feelings na....Suprriya..jst chill now..plzz...n get madhuri bak...i hav't seen ur smile so can't say it is cute or not..bt i saw madhuris' so iwill assume it to0 be urs...so smile...now..c'mon
Supriya T Jagtap
okk do return me the favor as u say when time comes.. but for now heaven sake forgive me I am extremely sorry Girish .. I had no such intentions to remove any grudge or to curse u.. n ur my good frnd plz forgive me.. or atleast then punish me as u wish too.. but stop being angry on me yaar.. plzz
Naveen Verma
got it....
Girish Ingale
please refer to my below post
promise to return the favor !
Naveen Verma
what promise are u talking about Girish??
Girish Ingale
aal izz well
but i cannot take my promise back ! once a mistake , always a mistake !
Naveen Verma
I agree and completely accept..coz one thing that i hav learnt ....on internet .. always believe wat the other person is telling bout him/herself....he he....if u can't believe then atleast make other believe that u believe....ha ha ha...so supriya...wat a gr8 smile u got buddy....kewllll.....ha ha
Supriya T Jagtap
Naveen for your kind info.. not only madhuri has a best smile on my profile pic.. but I am complimented too for having a cute smile.. I guess u wont believe it.. just thot of mentioning.. hahahaha
Naveen Verma
i guess...now girish its ur turn to reply........ nice to hear this from u supriya...so smile...oops..u already had the best smile on ur profile pic...she is madhuri na...her smile is so famous...LOL
Supriya T Jagtap
Yes Naveen I have learnt a nice lesson not to interfere in personal life n views.. I wont try to change anybody's views henceforth unless its told to me to do so... Forgetting everything I am ready to shake hands with Girish as I consider that we are good friends apart from itimes .. hopefully it shud b the same from Girish's ends also..
Naveen Verma
Oops....seems another conflict goin to start here...supriya....read all the post n understand..personal attacks are not welcome in groups n forums .... i hav learnt this yesterday... I wish this end up here only...girish, supriya...chill buddy....relax...and supriya if girish has sm point of view for his life...he knows it better than us....just like how u or me know bout ourselves.... it is jst a matter of time dat when smday he will get his gal......isn't it..? So u two...relax....n shake hands....
Supriya T Jagtap
ok I got it Girish, I am no one to comment on anyone's personal life.. I apologize if u felt bad.. I had no intention to purposely hurt you. But one thing I would say, previously when i commented anything u never felt bad or u were never such rude to me.. i guess this change I shud have expected before commenting on you.. and you know the reason also very well for the same.. The change towards me is not all of a sudden.. anyways i have deleted my comments.. and this is not a favor or something.. you need not return it.. I am sorry to interfere or comment..
Thanks and Apologies
Supriya
Girish Ingale
Supriya , is a direct comment necessary ? Or had i invited or insisted you on commenting something on my life ? Who gave you the right to comment on anybody's personal life ? This is a forum , and i guess , there should be some ground rules, if you haven't read my below post !
Its certainly not me who will get angry all of a sudden. Yet, this is "favor" of yours will be returned , at the right time and at the right place. All the best !
Gopala Chintakindi
Just want to put few points here.. you see someone was discussing about settling in life.. what i feel is when you get married and when you have wife then you can say that we got settled in life.. if you Megan FOX as you GF then who ever considers that they are settled since they got true love.. romantic love..this and that..i am sorry to say they are just making fools out of our life..
I just believe it is waste of time to run behind a gal for love.. just concentrate on your life.. live happily and try to succeed and if you feel positive about your belief in yourself and GOD ( I do ).. then GOD will show you the love.. since I feel.. FOR EVERYONE SOME IS MADE BY HIM.. that is what companion is all abt... but not have GF and BF and fall in love and later in your life you use the words.. EX BF and EX GF proudly.. these are just my feelings..
Naveen Verma
ha ha..thats right btw
Girish Ingale
hope for the best , prepare for the worst !
Naveen Verma
i guess v can't argue here..u r rock solid on ur views....lets hope u get smone smday....u will realize..watever u believed is actually not right....
Girish Ingale
my views are biased ! atleast on the love part ! the worst thing a man can do,is listen to his heart. Heart is the reason to every problem in man's life ... i will certainly try to stay away from love , as far as possible. Rest,is unknown ! And , again, ladki is no big deal ! Take my word guys, you have money , even love is on sale, go ahead and buy it ! Nothing about respect, i don't respect , neither do i dis-respect ! I just keep the feeling of love away , whenever i meet a female ! simple !
Naveen Verma
True girish...hav u planned to stay single...ever.....and i aso wanted to add one point....ladki is indeed a big deal...coz they (i mean soulmate) complete u....except if u r not straight. They deserve a bit respect buddy
Supriya T Jagtap
hey girish tell me are u gonna be single for the rest of ur life? all wht u said is true n good now.. but at some point even u will feel the need for having a commitment and a life partner... its altogether a different experience.. khud ke liye jeena aur apno ke liye jeena there is a huge huge difference buddy in it... think over it!!
And one more thing, LOVE is not a wastage of time please!!
Regards
Supriya
Naveen Verma
Girish...thanks for a nice reply...i totally agree with u except one part where u mentioned "don't waste it behind love". Love is not a wastage buddy. Apart I am already following what u jst mentioned here..m not bothered nor worried....bt i guess there is a time when everybody need a companion ... isn't it...? else...m very happy with my life...I started this discussion coz lately my near and dear one's hav suddenly started asking me to settle down...and if i hav a girl friend or not? i hope u understand. keep smiling.
Gopala Chintakindi
I agree with Girish and enjoying my single employed life to most extent...
Supriya T Jagtap
Naveen to the question of urs, that why in the world you are still single, I would say may be you havenot yet found ur ideal miss. right girl to go above friendship.. its as simple as that. You said that youI had always been close to girls..had a descent bonding with many...but never went above friendship.. for this I would say that just being close to girls and having descent bonding with them does not lead to finding love in any of them.. to find love or having bonding above friendship you need to feel for some one.. may be u never had those thoughts of feeling for someone bcoz u never found that "yes this is my type of girl I want" , you need to firstly decide what type of girl u want in ur life as ur life partner and then only u can find some girl similar to matching ur expectations.. then only u wud feel for that girl for the typeof bonding above friendship, and then u wud no more be single.. I hope u get my point..
Do reply me ur view on this
Thanks
Supriya
Ricky Singh
i dnt agree to tht... if a person wants a grl he has to work hard on it...it doesnnt matter if tht girl is rite or wrong until or unless u dnt go into the relationship u wouldnt know tht...
Naveen Verma
he he....we all r well buddy.....chilling....Allll izzz Wellllll!!!!!!!
Girish Ingale
hey hey hey hey
chillax guys ... cool it !
Gopala chod na yaar .... naveen tu mafi mangana bandh kar ...
now come one let me see a " aal izz well " smile !
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen..have a nice evening..
Naveen Verma
@Gopal....actually it is my habit to add the word 'smile' at the end of every conversation....coz i believe it can heal any thing... n thanx for a positive reply...and with this positive note lets stop explaining each other...wat say...? my offie timing is over now..n leaving for room...gud night..tk cr...n keep smiling... LOL ;)
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen..i welcome your post.. I didnot get hurt since this is open discussion and I welcome post positively never personally and that is why I replied to your post..I just expect all people to keep it nice open intellectual discussion not personal attacks..buddy I am smiling and happy..please donot say this " Now smile buddy.".. as if i am baby and your pampering me..hehehehehehe.. relax and chill out..
Naveen Verma
I guess we all r taking eachother in a wrong patterm...i purely didn't said anything in dat is phrased as an attack....i only felt smthing bout gopala's views n said it...my single point was to move on 4getting the past..life is beautiful...njoy it...@Gopal and @Girish...plz understand...i didn't mean anything...
Gopala Chintakindi
@Supriya..I guess you had answered to Naveen.. but just want to know what you feel about my questions..if you are not interested you can skip my question.. i understand, welcome,, and respect it..
I had all the feelings that you said..i went further beyond friendship.. took them out for eating with or without reason..every boy and gal know that i had some feelings towards her but she did not see it... they asked for help.. i did it.. but they did not tell me what was result.. i scrap them.. you know they give reply to all scraps except me.. there were sometimes where i was literally scared to lift their phone when they called me.. now tell me why did they closed door on me.. let me make one thing clear..i am not sad, angry, depressed, or not SMILING .. I just want to know what other gal feels abt this..
You are most welcome to not to reply.. I understand it and welcome it..
Naveen Verma
@Gopal: buddy i never thot that my single post can affect somone like this..m really very sorry as i earlier said...i apologize if smhow i hurt smone...in this case you. Now smile buddy.
Gopala Chintakindi
@Girish..thanks for your reply about individual comments buddy.. even I also feel so and that what is lacking here alot.. sometimes we will mistake the post but we must stay away from attacks .. but i see many people do that here.
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen..after reading all your post I came to know that you are new to such things..As advice my friend first of all understand what others replied.. i guess i used straight forward simple English words those are simple to understand and make easy meanings to my feelings..
Lets take your post..you said..." m very sorry to say dear..but u seems like one who does not want to smile....n stuck to wat people hav done to u...stop being sad buddy...forget those things...u r wasting u present "..frankly buddy if someone read that post which you directly addressed to me they feel I am mentally depressed and in bad thoughts and pyscho person.. for your kind information..I am really happy to be single..Yes I am happy.. I have good friends ( gals )..who I help and they help... I am enjoying my professional single life in USA to atmost..so just get this I am happy and please.. please.. please.. get out of ur mind and donot convince people that i am DEPRESSED and NOT SMILING.
About past, present, and future..i learned lessons from past..i have good hopes about future and left everything to GOD and looking forward to get married to gal who can be the BEST FRIEND any guy can ever get.. and I am enjoying my life to atmost extent and facing and learning challenges..
Your post is clear and I am sure not even me or anyone will mistake your post. It is clear..In fact you certainly mistook mine and posting whatever you see but not what exactly what I meant.
My answer to your question what will I do..you see buddy... love must not be forced and everyone can choose their own love and partner and in this matter I give full freedom to gals.. I loved them it doesnot mean that they must also love me.. they have their own preferences and criteria for love and I just see that they only saw me as friend and I am not even in race for their love..I have no complains about them.. but only complain is when you ask help from people.. you must treat them as people not any machine.. they all are educated and not certainly dumbass..it just requires common sense to see my feelings.. but still they donot see.. they used me and they didnot even get back to me to tell what happened to my help..is it good or sucked.... they just atleast got back to me.. then I would have certainly moved further and would at one point proposed to them.. since I am open and I respect being in love with her.. but she didnot give me a chance to even take one single step further.. they just closed door on my face and they didnot get back to me.. you know.. there were many scary moments where I felt that they will again use me as soon as I saw their number flashing on my cell phone..
I hope atleast by now you clear all your misconceptions and see things what they are but not what you are...Will be waiting for your reply.
Naveen Verma
M really very sorry Girish...m new in entertaining discussion board..i apologize to Gopala....i didn't mean anything ...seriously...m really very sorry.
Girish Ingale
Naveen , i give a second thought about your comment about Gopala !
I think there are some social forum etiquettes ,where we do not point or comment on an individual . No hard feelings Naveen , i just thought i should say this.... rest , everything is chillax !
Naveen Verma
My pleasure Supriya.
tk care....
Supriya T Jagtap
Thanks naveen for ur reply, I am happy atleast you got your answer through my reply post...
Keep smilng and keep posting
-Supriya
Naveen Verma
@Gopala: m very sorry to say dear..but u seems like one who does not want to smile....n stuck to wat people hav done to u...stop being sad buddy...forget those things...u r wasting u present and since we know dat future is the product of calculations done in present on parameters passed by past......this means u might affect u future too....m sorry if i mistook u again....or make u feel like like everyone....i m also not able to understand u....but still will suggest u dat 4gt d past n smile n stay happy. U hav so many question regarding y they did this to u or dat to u??? u tell me one thing....wat will u do even if u get the answer?? Tell me.
Naveen Verma
@Ritaban: "Waiting for Godot"...nice use of play buddy....i totally agree with u..love is really unpredictable...seriously....but ritaban if it is unpredictable..can we say dat..it is like cricket....coz cricket is also unpredictable..i guess...jst kidding buddy
Naveen Verma
Supriya...thanks for the response...and i vud like to add that I guess I agree with what u wrote. i never thot of this side of the coin. after reading ur view...I realized that i might hav befriended many gals but never approached anyone with that feeling....forget approaching , i never even felt this way for any....i treated everyone as a normal friends...smtimes best friends.....even people around me tried to convince me dat i m having certain this kinda feeling for few of my best friends....but i never felt really....damn....u r right yar...i never met my kinda gal....actually there was one this gal..bt unfortunately her feeling was towards smone else rather me....lol....Also supriya....i always thought i m shy to share my feelings (if i consider my last few crushes)....... but no I am not shy...it is jst as simple dat since i didn't met dat one girl, i don't intend to show it .... might be tomorrow if i get the one...i mean meet the one...i might approach her...without being shy....Oh..supriya..it is thoughtful. Thanks for this wonderful reply. Now i understand y we need gals in life... coz they r always on point.....
Thanks ...
Neo
Gopala Chintakindi
Just want to put my views in front of all. I am also in same situation and ask my self same question what Naveen asked to himself. I had feelings once whatever Surpiya said.. I tried to show them but why they didnot see? That is why I want to know. I know everyone is free and can choose their own love and they have their own preference.. but more then showing love, affection and respect what else gals want.. why does even after what ever I did and having feeling they didnot reply me back or even get in touch with me after my help is done..thats what..people like me to know...i am sure we all or atleast me had all those feelings what supriya was talking abt
Ritaban Majumder
Agreed on this with Supriya completely. I know that the question of "how long do I need to wait?" will always come to your mind like flashes. But Naveen, love is something that is highly unpredictable. Even before you realize, you may be head over heels in love with that special someone. Till that time my friend, you will be "Waiting for Godot", courtesy Samuel Beckett. :-)
Suresh Nair
naveen i as far as i think you should not mix up friendship with marriage as you know someone has said marriages are made in heaven so wait for the girl who is destined for you.wait and watch.
Naveen Verma
Thanks Mr. Suresh.....I never mix friendship n marriage until the feeling is mutual......even if i had liking for the same....I too follow the same protocol buddy. :). But how long one kud wait buddy...:(
Gopala Chintakindi
Naveen...you and me on same side of sea buddy.. now a days i am asking this question to myself and till now didnot get any answer.. i have always been a good friend..and respected gals who was close with me.. helped them.. took out ..spend sometime with them.. respected them..but unlike other male friends my never went beyond friendship .. the thing that hurts is that after helping gals they donot get back to me abt result.. and now even here also my so called friends.. stop replying to my messages and say they didnot get it and all so things.. i feel may be i am destined to be a loser in terms of gal's love ..i am just destined to be friend who is supposed to be used.. but whatever happened.. i am proud of being myself.. and looking for the love in marriage which i was unable to get outside of marriage..frankly now I stopped thinking abt gals love and friendship..It doesnot mean that i am GAY.. I just left everything on to GOD..and hoping to get a nice wife who can be my best friend...
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen..I welcome your below reply..I also donot feel pity on myself buddy...I know the last thing which I expect from others is pity and also from me ..it not only sounds bad but also moral killer..i said that if who ever reads your reply for my post they will feel pity on me buddy..you literally sounded like that.. but one thing buddy if you are starting a post and a discussion you must be a neutral person and welcome all other replies and post so that you can DISCUSS not criticize them.. that is what I feel here .. the people who starts post they behave not like discussion post..they take it as criticizing others...
Naveen Verma
hey gopala...i guess i really mistook u...sorry bout it...i feel u were right.....it was my wrong perception. Else i too agree with u...btw i never had any girl friend (the one u r talking about LOL). N friend want to say one thing...never use words like pity etc for urself....it sounds bad buddy.
Gopala Chintakindi
@Naveen..thanks for your reply.. but sorry to say that from reading your message..i feel pity abt myself.. but i guess u completely got wrong my post.. you see first of all i was talking about GIRL FRIEND not about friends who are gals.. i have got quite a few FRIENDS who are gals.. i respect them and love them for being my friends.. i am hoping so they also do in return.. maybe unlike others we donot talk or flirt on phones and chats every day..but once a while we catch up and share lighter moments.. so I have FRIENDS and if you feel that I am feeling sad and low in my life.. then you are mistaken.. i am single employed and I am enjoying my life to atmost extent.
I was talking abt GIRL FRIENDS..in that regard I said what i said buddy..by the way thanks for your support..I was just saying why I also feel why I am single.. not single friend.. but why I am single buddy... From my point of view I just stuck to your post but I guess you got completely wrong.. i respect my friends and I am happy for that...
Naveen Verma
Gopala...well...thanx for replyin...but there is a slight difference in our case...my friends hav not changed...neither male nor female...they all love me the same, in fact we all love each other the same...n i can understand wat u hav gone thru...people r like this...bt i m damn sure...all vud not be same...u must hav made couple of few gud friends....isn't it? Take care of them...n it is gud that they hav shown wat exactly they are...warna tumhe zindagi bhar bahot takleef dete...treasure the friendship that u hav got....don't think bout who r not ur friends whom u want to!!! and BTW m talking her bout the traits that I or might be u too, lacks due to which we r still single...it was for a lighter moment. not to cry for wat we didn't get. so buddy just chill...be happy n keep smiling....those who didn't respected u....it is there loss.....believe me....
