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Why good girl or good guy finish last?
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Supriya T Jagtap Well good boy/girl have emotions and values from their parents n society so they finish up last.. so whts a big deal in finishing up last .. ultimate.. more
Kannika Tchobe Good Girls/boys finish last because people put value on the wrong things like physical beauty, material or money. People judge on what that person ha.. more
Topic owner: Naveen Verma:
Ever wondered why despite putting your best face and foot forward, and treating your dreamboat like a dream, he/she seems to go for someone smarter, sassier and sexier — aka 'The Dog/Bitch'. (Please forgive my words, I just took the line from a times of india article). I mean to ask why good girl or good guy finish last?
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Nikhil Chaubey
You can't generalise, but many good boys/girls finish last, because they are still do not have the edge to be called smart enough, to deal with the world.
Kannika Tchobe
Good Girls/boys finish last because people put value on the wrong things like physical beauty, material or money. People judge on what that person has or can afford. If they truly judge on the content of the character, good girl/boys would finish first.
Sreedhar Ramanadha..
stop this nonsense
Nikhil Chaubey
Its not judgement of others that matter weather they are successful or not. Its because they are not smart enough yet.
Shail Deep
Narayan Murthy, Bill Gates, Manmohan Singh, Amitabh, Shahrukh... they are all good guys, and they did not finish last. they have made others finish last.
But that is not the point i want to make.
The real point is : every body has some good and some bad traits in them. when a successful person's bad traits are not exposed we think good people finish first. But when a successful person's bad traits come out , we think bad people finish first.
the difference between good&bad, in most cases, is mostly a myth.
Naveen Verma
buddy we r talking bout relationships not materialistic success
Gopala Chintakindi
This is one of the question which I ask to myself and was trying to find an answer to it and felt that the people who didnot choose a good guy/girl and went for a DOG/BITCH type of item piece will tell us correct answer... what i feel is the chooser will see good guy/girl as useful items.. when needed use it and store it away..donot even see it..unless you donot need it.. so according to me the reason is not what and how good guy/girl does.. but it is the choices the choosers make..
Gopala Chintakindi
I donot see what is there in my comment that made someone to react so hardly..everyone has their own views and so to it and I donot expect other to follow it or atleast accept... so here is my reason...i am guy and not a gay..i experienced such things from a gals.. when they need me in college work or some work they approach me.. and why i help them..maybe it is my personal character that makes me to help them.. but if in matters of going outside for movie or club..or some outing...for those same gals i am not the person.. when i ask them they will have some important work..like this world gets to stop if they donot do that work.. but a guy with nice clothes and heavy wallet with bike or car asks.. they just say yes.. why does.. and to who ever took me wrong.. i am not discussing why people do that and why they donot do this.. and i just sticking to point why good guy/gal always stay behind.. and i am also not discussing why and what are the reasons i am allowing them to use me and whether it is my wrong or their wrong..
Please for heaven sake realise that this is real world and there are cruel things in this world.. donot always portrait everything is good in this world..
Supriya T Jagtap
but why let the choosers only use good guy/girl only when they want or need ? why cant the good guy/girl have the choice to choose? i dont agree with u Gopala.. it shud be equal for all.. and if choosers are doing this to u means ur allowing such greedy choosers to use u when they need it.. its ur fault coz ur allowing it.. i mean i dont wanna get personal.. neither m pointing to u Gopala.. hope u dont misunderstand me.. i didnt agree to ur view thts why commented on it..
Laithal Viles
always not good girls/boys finish last.. arguments tilt at any point but reality always there. The meaning of good and itself questionable. What is good for you is not good for others... so let me have single thought of mind and say... one who have the fire in him is the one right to achieve non eelse. May be from your words dog/bitch is it means laying with others even words are which are wounding others by every second become a dog/bitch. The best face in the entertainment world and foot forward in other fields.. the fire will take you many highs. And there is no word as last ever. Also, I agree with Supriya T Jagtap.
Supriya T Jagtap
Well good boy/girl have emotions and values from their parents n society so they finish up last.. so whts a big deal in finishing up last .. ultimately wht good boys or girls get is the best in the world and better than the smarter, sassier, sexier boys/girls right naveen? They get it permanently while so called happening boys and girls look for temporary changes whch last for a short time and they are emotionless and it hardly affects them in any way. See its nothing bad if one good boy/girl has to wait for too long to get some best person in his/her life if tht person is the one they were longing for so long.. n hindi me ek kahavat hai "intezar ka fal meetha hota hai" so i believe in this and its very much true too as far as my experience.. so now u may agree that its good if the good girls and good boys finish up last!! dont you? any more doubts? hope this answers ur post ... well i tried my best to do so...
Keep smilng
Regards
Supriya
Abhijeet Naik
Its as simple as this as why good guy or girl finishes last only bcos they always ask for best but what they end up with is not the best.I am not denying to the fact that they should not choose like others but at the same time they should understand whether the best they are asking for is really there or not.In doing all this investigation nd ur so called hindi kahawat which was wrong its acually saburi ka fal meetha meetha they actually loose wht they really deserve.Finally end up in mess which they feel was good is actually not & which they felt was ok/avg was the best.Above all I would like to say we should understand the meaning of word relationship it can not be fwded by sms its smethng else nd are we mature enough to undestand the meaning of it.
Supriya T Jagtap
okk agreed but then the short term enjoyment produces a guilt for them in their long term satisfied bondings and may be then they wont give their 100% to their long term bondings... so i guess this is somethng like partially cheating ur ownself i believe..
Naveen Verma
there r people who hav njoyed both....the short term njoyment and after marriage..long term satisfied bondings.....isn't it??
Mleccha H
Sherry Argov must be a bitch, so she is glorifing bitches to prove her superiorty.
Naveen Verma
relax buddy
