I have heard this from quite a few of my friends, that everything was fine for the first couple of years, but since then he/she has taken me for granted. He/She doesnt actually care about my feelings any more. Why is it like this ? Is marriage not an emotional bond ? Is it not true that both partners need some kind of encouragement or boost from each other ? Is it not true that sometimes a touch can say more than a thousand words ? If so then why is it misssing from marriages today ? My friends who are married tell me that their life is now mundane and feel like asking them, when was the last time, they or their partner has told them 'I love you .. You mean the world to me', maybe by just a look or a touch, or by some other means.

I do appreciate the feelings of Ritu Bahel.My friend always suggested for less expectation from my wife and appreciate her anything you mark.Her physical beauty,her hair,lips, eyes, her sweet nature,her intelligence, her clothing and make sense.It is often said that the way to heart goes through the stomach of husband.So always appreciate her well cooked delicious food preparations.

But when we men do so much to appease or please our wives,it is quite obvious to expect the same love, affection and physical intimacy.Do we get as desired.After first issue, her love obviously divided and if there are another family members to divide her caring from your side to them, you are broken one.A mirror broken and no chance to look as original.

I most often like to kiss my wife when leaving for office but she refuses that she has to do God worship or so many unreasonable reasons. Leaving me dezerted in love and I think that i should kiss other lady's soft lips, be it brought or emotionally acquired.

Why our women do start dejecting their husbands in a simple way and hurting his emotions.Why do they take them as granted.Surprisingly before marriage they perform worshipping Lord Shiva for a handsome, rich,attractive husband and after few years of married life, they again keep distance with their husband and again start keeping deep closeness with God Shiva,Vishnu,Krishna or any one who is their God?

And finally all blame comes on husbands who are spending money on other women for purchasing sentiments, physical love making and finally mental satisfaction for better life and work performance in their work station.

God help please.

i am not married so no comments !

Expectation leads to sorrow.I m telling u this frm my experience.Over a period of time girls start feeling that she has sacrificed more to build this relationship.She starts counting that she gave up her career, she left her family etc etc and in return she is not being appreciated that much Same thing happens with guys too they feel they have sacrificed too for this relationship.but they are not being valued.Both the parties start expecting more and more from each other instead of appreciating each other .Once we start praising each other the relationship can be revived after all who does not like to hear nice things abt himself or herself.That's the mantra if criticize less the more happy we will be... These days couple don't forget to blame each other if something goes wrong but they definately forget to THANK each other!!!!...That magic can last forever if we start looking for good points in other person instead of focusing on negatives..