hi friends,
I am an straight forward boy with conventional thinking. I am working in an MNC. I have friends.. boy as well as girls. i didn,t find any girl with whom i should marry so finally i decided to let my parents to search for my partner.
But there are problems starts now. In our society boy even can't meet the girl with whom he is going to marry. so i hv to just nod by seeing on photografh.
i am searching for a girl who is caring and care about family and others thing.so i hv some points.

1. i thinks that the girl with higher education like MBA, engineers like that have much care about their career not about family so i am searching for a girl who is post graduate but not in proffesional courses.
Some may found it offended but i wrote here what i think and just predicting for a good wife.

2. I hv my morals and i don't wander behind girls and i will not cheat my wife. A girl is trying to be with me she was beautiful but not having good character. So i skipped her and stopped talking to her because i want to be loyal and virgin for my wife. So i am looking for a beautiful girl because i also want a beautiful girl with me but she must be my wife. So that our sex life also should be good.

So my family is searching good family but i hv only two points that she should be beautiful and second is she should not be in professional studies due to above said reasons bcz that is only i can know. icannot know the nature and other thing even if i meet her once.


So friends you may found some thing offended but this is what my inner feelings and i would like to know am i correct or not.

get more social life then you will find ... ur parents is a way of finding a good girl... but i would say all your standard for a girl is all outside dimension, you need to see the inside of the girl ... if the girl is beautiful , she may also have a high dimension for you.. can you get her dimension???

Resourcefulness is the key to success !

Feelings are always personal and you cannot ask whether you are correct about your feelings and your preferences to all... in some cases you may ask but not for one.. instead of commenting and passing a judgment whether you are GOOD or BAD I just want to put my feelings in front of all..


1) Educated Girls.. you see every marriage or relation is unique and if one succeeds we cannot say it this is the formula for ALL and generalize it to all...you may come across many gals who are educated and working and who left family welfare and gave importance to their careers..but my frien, in my life I can across few well educated and working professionals(WOMEN)..who manage both family and their career..and I salute to their work and hardship and respect them to do that and be successful in both..In my case I donot mind gal who is well educated and working.. the only thing I would see is her character..her trust towards relationship/marriage.. and her respect to me and family..and her seriousness about our family.. these things are important and I am not in favor with you saying that educated professionals cannot be good wife.


2)Yes, I respect for what you said and like that you wanted to be virigin for her...believe like you and me..there are alot of guys even in this modernized practical world who feel same and do same.. but for me in my case..i am still virgin and left everything to GOD and hoping for the best...you know why I hope..since.. HOPE IS THAT ONE WHICH KEEPS US ALIVE..thinking about someone who will come in future..i just trust god and live in future.. the only thing you can do is before marriage I will tell her all and treat her like friend and give her freedom to take decision...


I know there is no need for me to put my feelings here.. but for your question whether you are correct or wrong and i thought this is good way to answer.

@naveen and supriya and girish

i am still smwht confused .But Today i hv written my inner feelings first time which i didn't discuss with anyone and I felt so relieved and thanks to you people atleast you discussed it with me.

Thanks buddies

“The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.”

Wow..supriya...u r so much active on forums...well coming to the point...Aneek...suppose u r married to a girl who is not so beautiful...n since u want a beautiful gal...dis means it kud be hard for u to accept her...atleast initially...isn't it? u knw basic human behavior says...if u get smthing taht u don't want..u start finding out the negatives in that particular thing...n thus if i summarize this science...then it means ur wife won't be happy wid u since u jst can't accept her as she is.....now tell...she too didn't get wat she wanted....a husband who can look after her, and who is devoted to family...etc etc....Buddy..my moral of giving u this example is a relationship is always mutual....it is impossible to figure out who is gud and who is bad....and very easy to perceive a conclusion bout smone. know the difference...stop thinking if this kud happen or that happen....play urself honestly and leave everything on GOD...dats d mantra....wish u a very happy married life...God Bless You.

you are wrong.. see if u go for beautiful girl looks what is the guarantee that she will take care of u n ur family and she wont cheat you? also girls going for engineering or professional courses lke MBA can manage home as well as office efficiently.. I can give u ample of examples.. look around u will find one.. and tell me what is the guarantee that the girl who is post graduate not in professinoal studies or even if she is illiterate for that matter will handle ur family n u efficiently? tell me if u can be 101% sure that she wont ever cheat u even if she is not a professional graduate or illiterate?? see studies and beauty has no relation with caring and loving you and ur family.. it all comes by character.. a girl who is not so beautiful and not so educated can make u r life heaven by her love n care.. it all depends on ur thinking.. I dont find any connection for ur rejection of girls based on their qualification and beauty.. ur a nice decent guy as per the description u gave abt urself.. i assume.. any good girl who is good at character and has moral values can be best for u.. please dont judge girls n reject them on the points ur doing currently...its my request to u.. thats completely wrong and not justified at all.. To know that girl in more detail u need to know abt her character and by her surroundings u can know it very well.. try meeting that girl more than one times to know her better.. just one meet is not enough to say that yes this is my type of girls.. when u talk to that girl then u wud get to know abt ur choice..

Why do women get married ? TO GET SEXUAL PLEASURE, LOVE, FONDLING, AND NURSING CARE FROM THE MAN AND TO GIVE SEXUAL PLEASURE, LOVE, AND NURSING CARE TO THE MAN.



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Why do men marry ?

TO GET

SEXUAL PLEASURE, LOVE AND NURSING CARE

FROM THE WOMAN AND TO GIVE

SEXUAL PLEASURE, FONDLING, LOVE, AND NURSING CARE

TO THE WOMAN.